does it really matter...???, uhm....? Options

[tina87]

does virginity really matter in life ....??? does it affect u later on if ur not a virgin anymore....??? do guys still want you if ur not a virgin...??? does guy only girlz whos still has virgin....?? what happen if u lose ur virgin like 2 yrs ago ... u used to have sex .. but 2 yrs ago .. now u dont do it anymore ....??? will guyz knw if u still have virgin or not ...??? i have a lotz of question ... ZzzZ but got NO answer .. plzz .. hElP .....
MErry CHristmas ... !!!

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[_sarcastic_]

virginity is pretty important in life esp. for a girl i guess. i dont' think it will affect you later on in life at least i think not. it really depends on the guys, the ones that only wants a virgin probably just wants to try and take your virginity away? iono. what will happen if you had sex 2 years ago and now don't well obviously you no longer will be a virgin. no the guys wouldn't know if you dont tell them.

[Shattered_Hope]

Some guys are smart..and they will know if you're a virgin or not. They're not stupid. But to tell you the truth, virginity these days are no longer an issue. I doubt many people marry when they are still virgins; losing their virginity to some guy they thought they would spend the rest of their lives with: not that I doubt their judgement..I mean as long as you give it for love, who can blame you? but I mean...don't wry so much. As long as you love him and he sees that, you'll have no problems.

[Nicolatofu]

guys just know...i guess virgins just have this thign about the on their first time...and your cherry won't pop if you aren't a virgin and they can tell about that too, since you'll vleed a little bit..some guys like to get a girl to give herself to him and others would like her to be experienced in bed....there's a wide range of guys and their preferences vary

[jennyjenny]

rofl.
I was watching the Gilmore Girls one day..
and there was an episode where Paris loses her virginity...
but Rory is still a virgin..
and then they were giving this speech thing, and Paris like, flips out about how she didn't get into Harvard and how she probably didn't because she had sex.
And then she kept yelling at Rory about how she's gonna get in cause she's a virgin.. and at the end, Rory gets accepted to a lot of colleges

ok..
but back to your question..
I don't think anyone's gonna know if you're a virgin or not.. unless you tell them, and maybe the next person you're gonna have sex with... he'll know if you're experienced or not

[Skyline Drive]

It will affect you if the person you have sex with..

- has STD's and give it to you
- or gets you pregnant

No one call tell if you are a virgin or not .
Don't worry about it and don't be in a rush.

[tina87]

[I]i as still a virgin girl when i first met him ....but when we havin dat thing (...) nothing pop out .. the cherry thingy u said ... so wat does it meany...? am i still have my virgin or no more...??.. n by the way i think if u used to have(...) in the last 2 yr... nw u dont do it anymore than i think the little ...thingy will tie back ... i guess ...uhm.. im not sure abut this ...

[Saeglopur]

Wow. That's a really good question. *adds to the list of really good questions*

Now... spiritually speaking, I would say yes... but we're not, are we? @_@

Alright... now, I'll give you my opinion: I do think it matter because of good morals .. that's the only reason I have.

[ghjgfkgfk]

It will affect you if the person you have sex with..

- has STD's and give it to you
- or gets you pregnant

No one call tell if you are a virgin or not .
Don't worry about it and don't be in a rush.

you sound like my 6th grade sex ed teacher.

it doesn't matter, it's an organ, not a flower or a damn rainbow.

[*krnxswat*]

I'd rather my wife be a virgin, but I don't mind if she's a non-virgin either, as long as she hasn't had sex 10000 times.

[tina87]

uhmmm.....

[xj_liana_tx]

i don't care, sex is just another physical action

[tooeffingcrazy]

Virginity does matter. (well to some). You wouldn't want to waste your virginity on someone you don't love, right? No, they can't tell if you lost your virginity, but maybe they could, cause don't you like bleed or something whe you first have sex? Thats what i heard.

[imm]

To me, it matters. Good morals help.

i don't care, sex is just another physical action

I'm not some horny bitch, but, sex is God's gift to a married couple...so it's pretty sacred. Unless of course...you aren't Christian?

[*krnxswat*]

i don't care, sex is just another physical action

Thank you Captain obvious!

[*Kathleen*]

If it really doesn't matter, why are you asking?

[tina87]

i just wanna know .. if it does matter or affect ur life later on ... bc i alreadi gave it to some1 i love but now he left me so i feel a little regret ... so ya ...

[177emories]

i don't think a guy will know if your not a virgin anymore i think it tightens back up after not doing it for 2 years... unless it gota like majorly strechted in a harsh way...

but guys do like girls who are pure...

but if you found the guy your willing to lose it to and plan to be with him forever then no one else after that right?

[cmgchica717]

Oh my goodness...

Its gone say goodbye to it its not coming back it never comes back ok.

It happens.

I lost mine to my ex we were together for 5years so if your gonna have sex then choose wisely with whom you do it with. Dont just do him up to do him. Geesh.

Guys think they can tell but I do not believe anyone can really tell. Unless your a dang Gyno Dr

Wait till your about 20 years old to have sex. To many young people losing their virginities at a young age. I kick myself in the arse for losing mine at 16 *sigh* but its gone...cant change the past blah

[audory]

of course it is. you can only give away your virginity once. besides, if you have sex a million times, you're very likely to end up w/ a STD/STI or pregnant (if you're a girl.. obviously).

[tina87]

i losed mine ... im sad ... but i cant change anythin ...

[Ataryu]

God, I hear this everywhere.

First of all the correct name for the "cherry" is the "hymen". It's a then layer of skin found at the opening of a females vagina. In know way does it indicate if a girl is not a virgin. Some girls are born without a hymen.

During the early stages of fetal development there is no opening into the vagina at all. The thin layer of tissue that conceals the vagina at this time usually divides incompletely prior to birth, forming the hymen. The size and shape of this opening (or openings) varies greatly from person to person.

Girls who do have a hymen can break (or pop) their cherry with out even knowing it. You could be excersizing, playing sports, tampons, masturbation, over douching, anything, it doesn't have to be a sexual activity.

While the presence of a hymen indicates virginity, the absence of one is no proof a girl is not a virgin.

Oh, and I don't think virginity is really that important. I think you should be experienced before you perform on your honey moon anyways. You wanna give your guy/girl a wonderful experience right?

But some see virginity as something past physical barriers. Like you could have sex with out love, so they see it as you have not given yourself to anyone. But sex with love, is giving your virginity.

Anyways, im out....
If I was wrong about anything correct me, I don't feel like reading it over.

[tina87]

[quote=Ataryu,Dec 29 2004, 9:54 AM]
God, I hear this everywhere.

First of all the correct name for the "cherry" is the "hymen". It's a then layer of skin found at the opening of a females vagina. In know way does it indicate if a girl is not a virgin. Some girls are born without a hymen.
Girls who do have a hymen can break (or pop) their cherry with out even knowing it. You could be excersizing, playing sports, tampons, masturbation, over douching, anything, it doesn't have to be a sexual activity.

[I][B] IS that true.....???? then im one of the girl whos born w/o a hymen ... .... is that meant that if some1 havin sex but got no cherry pop out is still a virgin...? so its meant that u cant tell if some1 still has virgin or not ...?? uhm ... too many question ... hehehe ...

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[pikimoo]

It matters to me.. I couldn't stand thinking about someone I love so much doing things with someone else..

This may sound weird and/or untrue, but.. when some people touch me (not necessarily sexually.. just if they hug me or something) I can see images of a part of their past. And I describe it to them and it's usually correct.. Seeing something like them lose their virginity is not something I like all too much.

And I don't like to think that they have done something with someone they didn't love.. As I am assured by many that they have never been in love but have done naughty things.

I would not be able to break up with someone I have had sex with. (assuming it ever happens)

I think sex should be saved for marriage.

And I could not marry a divorced man.

Actually, I couldn't be with someone who has been in love before.

But all of this is just me. Though I'm sure there is at least one other person that thinks like me.

[Comptine]

It doesn't matter if you have a hymen or not. Cause after a few days, there is no more evidence of sexual intercourse. Now a days, being a virgin isn't a physical thing (considering the hymen breaks pretty easily) it's more of a moral thing. Besides, do you really want solid proof of you being a virgin? As you grow, so does the hymen. It thickens so when it breaks, it HURTS.