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alright my mom hasnt met my boyfriend yet, but she keeps telling me she doesnt want me dating anybody. well i asked him if he'd meet her & he said he would. but when i told my mom this, all she said was that i was never gonna see him again. now, everytime i go out she needs to know whos gonna be there so shes sure im not going anywhere with him. i cant go anywhere alone with him
 what should i do?
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Dec 26 2004, 07:28 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
i know how that feels.. it sucks like crazy, i know! well you could try talking to your mom about it. how old are you and your boyfriend anyways? maybe she just doesnt think you're mature enough and stuff and really, you could just try to talk to her and make a compromise. no matter what tho, dont say "but my friends all have boyfriends and they get to see their boyfriends!!" or throw a tantrum. hope everything goes alright
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Dec 27 2004, 05:50 AM
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ouch. good luck with that. but i agree with the above advice ^^ how old are you? convince her you are mature and that she can trust you.
but yeh i hate parents like that. =p |
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Dec 27 2004, 03:12 PM
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parents..., too over protective these days, but yeah, your mom probably has a reason too do what she's doing. don't know. maybe something has happened to her in the past that makes her think that the old days are still the same. vise versa.
tell your mom how you feel about what shes doing to you and how its affecting you. in turns, she might rethink her desicions and so forth |
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Dec 27 2004, 03:29 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, i know what you're talking about. my mom won't let me see my boyfriend either. eh, how old are you anyways? try talking to her i guess.
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Dec 27 2004, 04:18 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i'm glad my moms isnt like that. i usually don't even tell her unless she asks, and she doesnt.
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Dec 27 2004, 05:17 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
Oh my...The same thing happened to me. My first boyfriend and I started dating when I was 15. My parents didnt like it at all because he was 17. However I went behind there backs and dated him anyways and we were happily together for 5years and engaged. Then he became an a-hole and well thats another story.
So Like other people have mentions try to covince your parents that you are mature enough to have this relationship |
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Dec 27 2004, 06:38 PM
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ok for everybody who asked, im 14.
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Dec 27 2004, 07:50 PM
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LIE LIKE CRAZY.
Just like Romeo and Juliet. 
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Dec 27 2004, 07:56 PM
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talk to your mom and comprimise, telling her that you will let her meet him first. if this doesn't work, message me, I hve other ideas
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Dec 28 2004, 12:48 PM
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well i guess he'll have to WAIT for you until you can date... or sauy you broke up and then your going out iwth some otehr guy... unless she doens't like u dating in general... then you should respect that.
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Dec 28 2004, 04:43 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
well i think you should try to talk about it with your mom again and tell her how you feel about it and how her decision is hurting you. then maybe she will lighten up and she will want to meet him and then she will like him and be more comfortable with letting you two go out alone.
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Dec 28 2004, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Dec 27 2004, 7:50 PM) LIE LIKE CRAZY. Just like Romeo and Juliet. Hmmm that had a happy ending right? Right?! |
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Dec 28 2004, 04:48 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Uhm, why don't you just go out with friends, and say you're going out with friends?
Then have him come with, and you guys do your own thing? |
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Dec 28 2004, 05:15 PM
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at least you guys are official and knows that you love eachother
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Dec 29 2004, 01:18 PM
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 I'm slooow Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,538 |
Woah...how does that work.
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Dec 30 2004, 12:14 AM
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man, parents are like that. usually, i'd sneak out. tell them i'd be going with friends and then go with him instead.
my point clear?? lol. |
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Dec 30 2004, 03:06 AM
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