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 Nov 26 2004, 03:49 PM
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QUOTE(autumn. @ Nov 26 2004, 3:47 PM) no, you can love (parents), but you can't be in love. -Edit. Okay, I got your point now. As for the other post, she said you can love at any age, and I said I disagreed. Can you love when you're 1? 6 months old? |
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Nov 26 2004, 03:51 PM
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i think you did the right thing. i'm 13 and this guy who i'd been going out with for 2 weeks was like i love you and i was like wtf? and i broke up with him 2 days later because he started getting all psycho. save it for when you really mean it.
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Nov 26 2004, 04:04 PM
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i still love you more, Seon Ho
 But I would have to agree that there is a difference between loving someone and being in love--For me, at least |
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Nov 26 2004, 04:04 PM
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hmm...well..you have a great point..very smart of you to realize this..and he may just be saying it becuz he wants to advance in yur little relationship. honestly..one month dating is not exactly the right time to tell someone you "love" them. those words are very precious..so ...be careful?? meh, after a few months..is normally the right time. =)
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Nov 26 2004, 05:15 PM
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oops, nvm... already stated above
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Nov 26 2004, 06:38 PM
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you did the right thing! ^^ He probably said that to get you into bed! LOL
 anyway, I think at that age, it's too young to use the word "love" because teenage relationships are not eternal (not saying they are not but majority of them don't last 4eva). You need to feel experience it and it will naturally come out to ya. Saying "I Love You" shouldn't have you worrying whether you said the right thing or not.
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Nov 27 2004, 01:31 PM
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*sigh*.. i think i've said it too soon.. but i do feel i really love him. A lot of ppl can doubt that.. but yea.. sure.. *sigh*
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Nov 27 2004, 06:33 PM
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yea that was the good move to make. its better to tell the truth to him and stuff
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Nov 30 2004, 03:16 PM
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That is so awesome that you said that to him. Most teenagers use those three words so carelessly. I don't think it's possible to be "in love" when you are 14 and you have been dating for only a month. You should express those feelings when you are ready and when that is absolutely how you feel, not just because you say it because your boyfriend did and you feel obligated to.
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Nov 30 2004, 04:56 PM
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^ i second that.
if you aren't sure if you love him.. you don't. |
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Nov 30 2004, 09:51 PM
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i think love is something everyone throws around too much...when said too soon, it's meaningless...so i dunno, in my case...i just disregard it...
i'm personally very careful with the word...and won't say it til at least a few months down the line... |
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Dec 4 2004, 01:41 PM
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i think you did a smart move there
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Dec 4 2004, 11:35 PM
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I regret saying "I love you" to someone I didn't really love, just because I was feeling sorry for that guy. See, if you don't think you do, then you shouldn't say it. By saying it, you're sort of lying about your own feelings. You'll get mixed up. I got mixed up and got in a big mess in my own head. Later, I realized that I never really loved him. I just... liked him a lot.
And if you say it too many times, it will become meaningless. "I love you" should be saved for someone REALLY special. |
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Dec 5 2004, 01:58 PM
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if u didnt think it was appropriate then just dont use it. personally i would say i love you but never i love you FOREVER. coz i just dont believe in it
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Dec 5 2004, 02:09 PM
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its good u didnt give into using the word love. Nothing is wrong with that. Just remember if u do love someone , dont question ur age, love isnt limited by age
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Dec 5 2004, 02:58 PM
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Never ever ever ever say 'I love you'.
You're just gonna end up taking it back. |
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Dec 5 2004, 03:06 PM
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love is a fallacy in middle school, high school, and maybe in college. you can't know what love is until you been through lots of shit, like been through many relationships and understand how it goes. when your in love you give 100% to your "love" one. but as your young and still in school, its hard to give the realtionship 100%. school is too important and its hard to find love then. most people find love after high school and college, becuse then they can finally settle.
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Dec 5 2004, 06:37 PM
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don't say it until you mean it. my friends always throw these words around like they don't mean anything. say it, but mean it.
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Dec 20 2004, 03:55 PM
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most of you are saying i did the right thing. which makes me feel better but i talked to one of my friends who told me this "if you can explain love your not in it" so i was wondering...if 14 is to young to be in love? when is?
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Dec 20 2004, 09:59 PM
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that WAS a smart move!
*applauds* NEVER say you love someone if you arent sure....love isn't somethin you should lie about cuz someone will end up getting hurt. wait til you KNOW you love someone before telling them that cuz love is somethin special and throwing the words "i love you" around is very not cool.... 
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Dec 21 2004, 03:47 AM
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My 2 cents for all it's worth...
I happened to meet my Mr. Right at 14. I'm 21 and planning my wedding this summer. :) I couldn't be happier. (okay, so don't read my xanga lol) We got serious after about a year and he gave me a promise ring. I was his from then. I love him no matter what. He said those three little words about 8 months into the relationship on the phone one night - I didn't say it for a while after that. You CAN be "in love" young. Sometimes your fate comes early. |
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Dec 21 2004, 05:20 AM
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QUOTE(Jason61992 @ Nov 26 2004, 12:52 PM) "I love you" is a strong word lol strong words. Everybody does it now without even thinking about, it doesnt mean anything in highschool or middle school. If you ask someone out and they have AOL or AIM orsomething alone those lines you'll see the words "I love blah blah blah" like 12.7 seconds after they start going out. To love someone is different that to be in love with someone. Most people seem to love the IDEA of maybe loving someone more than they actually love the person. |
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Dec 21 2004, 08:34 AM
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"i luv you" >> too strong for words.
once my best guy frend came up to me and went "i luv you, do u luv me too" and i was like  to heck with that.
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Dec 26 2004, 04:48 AM
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QUOTE(smthngcrprategrl34 @ Nov 26 2004, 1:59 AM) i was over at my boyfriend's house the other day and he told me that he loved me. we're only 14 and we've only been going out for like a month. but he told me that he'd loved me for a while. i told him that i liked him a lot but wasn't ready to use those words. was that a smart move? i mean i really do like him but we're only 14 and to me those words are like really special...ya know what i mean. i just...i'm not sure if what i said could have hurt him or not. do you think what i said was right? your right... use i love you when yu mean it...so its meaningful |
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Dec 26 2004, 05:03 AM
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Good move. Too many people that I know are always throwing around those 3 words.. gee.
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