shallow people, i need to get this feeling off my mind |
 Dec 22 2004, 07:37 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593  |
so lately, like the several weeks. i been noticing. almost everyone is shallow these days. i admit myself i am shallow a bit. but i try hard now to stop judging peopel by the way they look. everywhere i go, i hear "damn he/she is ugly". most of the time i get pretty mad, and say stfu u damn shallow ass. why is people so damn shallow. i know people go out with others beacuse of their looks, but why judge someone beacuse of the way they look. personality is the most important quality in a person, not looks. i see myself alone in this world. i feel shitty about this. anyone here feels the same way i do?
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Dec 23 2004, 12:27 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
All of us are shallow to some extent, which is perfectly natural. But people who are only about looks and outward appearrances really do get on my nerves.
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Dec 23 2004, 12:30 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Dec 23 2004, 1:53 AM) Not everybody is shallow.. I, for one, am not shallow. For real. I don't get attracted to people by their looks. I get attracted to people because of the way that they carry themselves and stuff like that. The way they think.. seriously. Not everybody IS indeed shallow. yes but seirously brie, are you saying you've never made a steriotype on someone? because i dunno, i think that counts as shallow...i mean your great and all but i recall you making some steriotypical comments on cheelreaders =/ but well w.e. |
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Dec 23 2004, 12:43 PM
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 M-Skittle Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,784 |
I think everybody in tha world is shallow even tho it is only one part of them.........
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Dec 23 2004, 07:33 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
yeah i know everyone is shallow a bit now and then. but peopel should at least try a bit not to be. so yeah lol. thx for your guys opinions =)
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Dec 23 2004, 08:32 PM
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At first when some people look at me they thnik I'm a real shallow person. But, I'm not....I mean I could be. Well, everyone is a bit shallow inside themselevs. But you really can't help it. I'm not that shallow. I don't judge people by the way they look. That's what some stupid people do in my school. Even the people who I thought were my bestfriends.
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Dec 23 2004, 08:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,164 |
im pretty shallow, ill admit it!
but ive been around it my whole life (pretty much)... my school is filled with gossip and shit.. every1 always talks but whatever... its hard to not look at some1 and look past there looks... i mean if they are hot and have a good personality... TOTAL PACKAGE! but most guys that like me are ugly and annoying so they have nothing in their package! |
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Dec 23 2004, 09:03 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
are some of you guys seriously stating you've never judged someone?
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Dec 23 2004, 09:08 PM
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 i heart u Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,430 |
oii, yea...i'm shallow
 . when people say looks dont matter......HAHA......bs, u KNOW looks do matter to some extent.....heh.
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Dec 24 2004, 10:08 AM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
well you cant help but get attracted to someone who looks good but then if they had a bad personality [egoistic, arrogant, etc] then you'd get turned off from them.
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Dec 24 2004, 05:20 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Everyone is shallow, and I am included. It's where "first impression" gets off and "love at first sight" comes in..It's human nature to tell you the truth to be shallow. Don't worry so much, Just try and take in people's personalities too and you should be able to avoid some sense of shallowness.
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Dec 24 2004, 06:00 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,200 |
blah that reminds me of a story...but anyways yea everyone is really shallow including myself -_- sometimes i feel bad for ppl who are my friends and i hear everyone saying "she's so fat"and stuff like that...well some ppl are nice enough not to say it but the guys at my school don't care :P ppl don't go out with ppl for personality, and i admit i don't either
 but i'd like to be less shallow too
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Dec 24 2004, 07:15 PM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Dec 22 2004, 8:39 PM) i'm shallow... i try to look past that.... for the most part i do... but maybe when it comes to relationsships i have to grow to find the person attractive somehow if they weren't atractive to me to begin with... make sense? i'm a shallow mother effer sorry XD ok, ignore me =\Yeah, I'm like that too. Don't worry Elba. 
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Dec 24 2004, 07:20 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Man.. I'm not shallow. This stuff just makes me sad. Just comes to show how the media plays into all of this some how. Maybe I'm wrong. --<3 Lilly |
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Dec 24 2004, 10:03 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,999 |
i know right. but i guess everyone's a little bit shallow at least. i mean you cant help but notice when people are ugly or whatever..but you take it to the max when you only go out w/ a person cuz he/she is pretty and wouldnt go out w/ them if they were ugly or fat or w/e. but oh well this is our world
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Dec 24 2004, 10:09 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I guess everyones a little bit shallow ...
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Dec 24 2004, 10:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,490 |
Yea, most of the girls I know are really shallow. This girl I know actually told my friend she liked me but would only go out with me if I lost some weight. I agree everyone's even a lil bit shallow. I'm shallow but only when I don't know person very well, after I get to know them I judge them based on personality. I've liked girls in the past based on their personalities, girls that other ppl considered ugly
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Dec 24 2004, 11:18 PM
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 .h o p e l e s s. Group: Member Posts: 327 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,137 |
I've been wondering about this too...I mean sure looks are good, and I wouldn't mind dating a good looking guy and such but...personality counts for the most part you know?
Just today I got this guy who added me on his msn list and asked me if the profile pic was of me...I said yes and he replied with something like, "uhmm..well...you look (can't say)..." and just signed off. Then when I posted my picture on a different forum last year, the people commented me on my CHAIR...or the blinds behind me saying, "oh...well your chair is nice..." And everywhere I look, people get by because of their looks. If they look hot or pretty, they get ALL the attention. I swear, I'm basically sitting in the corner of every damn room. And I wonder, am I horribly disfigured or what? People, and especially guys, tend to ignore me. It drives me crazy. That's my rant. 
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Dec 25 2004, 01:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Aw hmm, I know what you mean. I HATE shallow people... I mean, everyones a little shallow... I know I am sometimes. But I just really hate those people who treat people the way they look. It's stupid... I mean, you could be judging an ugly girl to be dumb... and a pretty girl to be awesome... but it'd really be, the ugly girl being really nice, and the pretty girl heartless.
You know what else I hate? How people call people sluts... just because they wear tight jeans or something... Anyways, I'm not sure if any of that made sense... but you don't really know anyone by appearances. |
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Nov 5 2007, 10:05 PM
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BUMP
LMAO. Oh how times have changed. |
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Nov 5 2007, 10:07 PM
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Wow, lamest topic ever.
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Apr 5 2008, 03:57 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Lol, yeah you're right. I'm like the total opposite of what I was in 2004 LOL. I'm so superficial it isn't even funny anymore.
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Apr 6 2008, 09:55 AM
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I'm pretty sure I'm getting increasingly more shallow.
Uhhh, glad you're acknowledging that you're superficial, Tung. lol. |
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Apr 6 2008, 10:19 AM
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 paperthin pride. Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 626,463 |
QUOTE(tungtwista @ Dec 22 2004, 05:37 PM)  so lately, like the several weeks. i been noticing. almost everyone is shallow these days. i admit myself i am shallow a bit. but i try hard now to stop judging peopel by the way they look. everywhere i go, i hear "damn he/she is ugly". most of the time i get pretty mad, and say stfu u damn shallow ass. why is people so damn shallow. i know people go out with others beacuse of their looks, but why judge someone beacuse of the way they look. personality is the most important quality in a person, not looks. i see myself alone in this world. i feel shitty about this. anyone here feels the same way i do? unfortunately, thats the way things are. it's human nature. we rely heavily on our perception of things. i agree that it's sad, but once we can look past the exterior and see what lies beneath we can perhaps be, in some ways less superficial. |
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Apr 6 2008, 11:12 AM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
Everyones shallow just some are more shallow then others. The people that bother me the most are the ones that go around saying that someones ugly, or someones fat. So what? No ones perfect. I just wish people, especially my friends would see that.
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Apr 6 2008, 12:37 PM
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 ;) Group: Duplicate Posts: 2,374 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,760 |
Wow. I didn't realize this was from 2004 and I was like "wtf are you talking about? Who's the one who created cutest/hottest/ugliest girl on cb?"
Hey, being superficial isn't bad. Sometimes, looks can be very important. You can't f**k a personality, can you? |
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