jealousy will consume meee!!!!, how do u deal with it.. Options

[HaN4RaNg]

we must all admit, we get jealous.
i absolutely HATE feeling jealous and im so freakin good at it!!! it makes me react in a certain way that i end up regretting. but i cant get rid of it. i dont know how to. all i can do is avoid it by avoiding the person/situation which doesnt really do anything.

so when ur jealous of ppl, how do u normally react? do u get silent? get b1chy? how do u make the feeling go away?

[Nicolatofu]

i can get jealous easy too. i usually try to ignore it, but it's hard. I haven't really found a way to deal with it, i just kinda get over it, i guess. or do something that takes your mind away?

[*instantmusic*]

i get silent. and then later i jokenly tell her that im supe jealous. hopefully, she'll get it.

if someone keeps making you jealous over and over again, that person really isnt worth it, if they dont realize that who they speak to and how they speak to them hurts you.

[DaTru KataLYST]

i get very quiet and isolated from the other people. =/

[edit] i do believe its my unconscious mechanism to get more attention from ppl that will feel guilty for me. but. mehh.

[runforfun529]

When I get jealous I just get silent and bitchy at the same time. I don't say anything bitchy but I sure do think it

[inthemudhole]

Yeah, I get quiet.. maybe a bit bitchy. It depends on the situation, though. I then just kind of don't talk to anyone else.

[MrElsewhere]

Workout. A good workout usually gets out stress and everything. So go out there..and SWEAT. x]

[xj_liana_tx]

i get jealouse really easy, and i get silent on the outside and bitchy on the inside

[misoka]

I don't get jealous until a guy comes into the picture. I guess I somewhat follow my aries nature.

Usually I get silent and end up brewing these feelings deep inside until one day I just explode. ehhhhhhhhhhhhhh that's probably one my biggest flaws.

[*basick*]

Guys shouldn't be jealous that's a female trait

I'm rarely jealous.

[sammi rules you]

i get jealous really easily.

i deal with it different ways, depending on the person.

[iheartsimba]

yah it happens, but i just ignore t and move on

[*stephinika*]

i do every once in awhile, but i just ignore it and get over it.

[Shattered_Hope]

Just think about the things that you are thankful for and just take deep silent breaths and just walk away. It should disappear.

[HaN4RaNg]

the thing that bothers me the most is that its not him doing it intentionally, but thats just the way he is. hes a flirt. while hes sweet talking them, i feel like ripping their heads off. this is how he is and its just my way of responding that creates a gap between our friendship. i told him to leave me alone for a bit for me to figure myself out [see, this would all b so much easier if i could understand my feelings for him].

if i could only understand where this jealousy is coming from

[angel-roh]

Well I get jealous very easily.... I only get jealous if someone has sooo much pretty fashion clothes, for instance---the Korean/Japanese singer, BoA. Also if my crush likes this girl, I get jealous of her. I won't get bitchy or anything, but I would just keep it to myself and just ignore it. I don't go up to her and say stuff like "You stealin' my crush?" lol... I just leave it alone.

[ANG33ZY]

I get silent . Then let it all out later..

[saruhroo]

I get silent . Then let it all out later..

yeah me too. and i get jealous real easy too..

[krisssssy13]

i used to get jealous a lot and all that good stuff but i got better at it all you really have to do is confront the problem or sitch head on and tell yourself that you need to figure it out. the moment you get jealous think to yourself why am i getting jealous, whats my motive, how can i solve it. and never try to get back at the person. it only leads to more jealousy hope that works for you! buh byeeeeeeeee <3 krissy

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[iheartjohn]

I get all silent, I'll cross my arms and pay real close attention to the person who is making me jealous.

[jennyjenny]

Ugh.
I've been jealous numerous of times.
That's partly.. actually, mainly, the reason why I lost all my good friends.
Cause I got jealous.
And then got mad.
And well, you know the rest.

But I don't know what to do anymore when I'm jealous..
I can't stop my rage, but I'm not gonna sit and watch.

But a lot of people don't admit that they're jealous, though. I know I don't.

[1--GIRL]

I get all silent and bitchy and yeh

[Counting]

Punch something. Something close.

[sweetxsimplicity]

I haven't got jealous in a long time.
I don't really *deal* with it in any particular way, I just...deal with it. xD

[xsweetxcandyx]

first i get pisted and bitchy.. than get over it.. but i would still get a little bitterness