shallow people, i need to get this feeling off my mind Options

[Tung]

so lately, like the several weeks. i been noticing. almost everyone is shallow these days. i admit myself i am shallow a bit. but i try hard now to stop judging peopel by the way they look. everywhere i go, i hear "damn he/she is ugly". most of the time i get pretty mad, and say stfu u damn shallow ass. why is people so damn shallow. i know people go out with others beacuse of their looks, but why judge someone beacuse of the way they look. personality is the most important quality in a person, not looks. i see myself alone in this world. i feel shitty about this. anyone here feels the same way i do?

[*AngelicEyz00*]

i'm shallow... i try to look past that.... for the most part i do... but maybe when it comes to relationsships i have to grow to find the person attractive somehow if they weren't atractive to me to begin with... make sense? i'm a shallow mother effer sorry XD ok, ignore me =\

[sweetdreamsx3]

Everybody's shallow though and if they say they aren't, that's a fcuking lie.

[yupimchuck]

yeah, everybody's shallow.. but it is sad... people shouldnt be judged

[*stephinika*]

yeah its a sad truth but everyone is, but to different extents thats all.

[Xerohedra]

I dont get it. >_<

[Spirited Away]

Actually, I know there are people who are not shallow but it's because the majority of us are, we overlook them. Those who have been in a situation that must face shallowness from others tend to deviate from that kind of attitude because they know it can be hurtful.

Also, it depends on what kind of shallow. As in, there's shallowness in wanting a brand new sports car instead of a humble want of car that runs great. That kind of shallowness--wanting a car that's better than other people's--isn't all that problematic. Then there is the kind of cruel shallow that demeans what other people possess.

[kellyannie]

,Dec 22 2004, 5:02 PM] yeah, everybody's shallow.. but it is sad... people shouldnt be judged

i agree

[*basick*]

yeah im a shallow f**k

[LeSLiE]

Hmm, my friend says "personality is all that matters, I don't care about their looks" And I realized that he's never gone out with a girl that isn't EXTREMELY gorgeous. People lie about that.. and it pisses me off more than shallow people... I guess you could say I'm shallow.. I don't go around calling people ugly though.

[Just_Dream]

^ Just because your friend doesn't go out with an extremely gorgeous girl doesn't mean he's not shallow at all. Hey, maybe he likes girls for their looks, but only dates ones that are really pretty, but not to the point where they are extremely gorgeous. I think everyone's shallow, in a way.

But even so, I believe that there are people, although rare, who aren't shallow. I try to look past looks as well, since I'm not much of a looker myself anyway. I agree, the majority of the people are shallow, they can't help it. Most of us, if not all, are attracted to others mainly because we notice their looks first. There's been times where i've liked guys who others might not think are cute in any way, but their kindess and personality shine through.

But I've noticed that most of the "hunks" are usually taken or they are only into their looks and have a bad personality, so I'd rather not consider ever like-liking them. I might think they're cute, but I wouldn't ever consider liking them because all the ones that were "hot" were very superficial and were too into their own looks that they lacked in other good qualities.

But I've been able to look past shallowness... I'm not a gorgeous person or anything, and I like people for more than just looks, in fact, I know that those who are really "hot" are mostly shallow. Notice how I said mostly, not all. We can't help being shallow. If everyone was blind, then maybe, JUST MAYBE, we wouldn't be shallow.

[LeSLiE]

^ Just because your friend doesn't go out with an extremely gorgeous girl doesn't mean he's not shallow at all.

Hmm maybe I'm reading this sentence wrong or something lol 'cause you've never been wrong in all of the posts I've read from you. But I meant he only goes out with extremely gorgeous girls... he's never liked anyone that was ...not gorgeous.

[demolished]

heh, we are human being. We do want to look nice but not ugly. Everyone has been a shallow and everyone has been judging other even its once.

[Just_Dream]

Hmm maybe I'm reading this sentence wrong or something lol 'cause you've never been wrong in all of the posts I've read from you. But I meant he only goes out with extremely gorgeous girls... he's never liked anyone that was ...not gorgeous.

Oh sorry. I apologize. I did read your sentence wrong, I thought you meant that he doesn't go out with extremely gorgeous girls. My mistake.

And hey, I could be wrong in everything I say, I'll never know. Usually my opinions are biased and I often don't look on both sides of things.

[jr0h]

yeah duh i bet everyone in this world is shallow or maybe was shallow. what kind of question is that???

[runforfun529]

I don't think I know people who have never been shallow at one point or another, I guess you just have to learn to accept people.

[*x____duckii*]

I really think everyone is shallow in some sorta way, like me. But that doesn't mean I'll only date a guy if he's like an extremely hot guy with abs and muscle. I usually end up liking a guy when I think they're cute. I always try to see beyond a guys looks, but sometimes it can be so hard ><;;

[iheartsimba]

yah..i think i'm pretty shallow. the first thing i just on people is there looks. but then, personality seriously is a big deal. i would never ever go out with a suppppperrr hot guy if he treaty me like sht. never....i could se emyself dating ugly guys, because i dont have big limits on looks for dating mostly personallity pickyness =/ but yes i admit i judge people by there looks a lot...but there personality may overrule there looks, hwo knows.

[angel-roh]

my mom and my brother is shallow...and im like "seriously stop being so shallow" but they never listen lol.... so yeah i cant control that.

[177emories]

i'm kinda shallow i'd have to admit that but i'm not TAHT shallow i don't care what my freinds look like thng as they have a good personality... but i know some ppl who are like ugly and or fat and they have horrible personalities...

[xxruinedsoulxx]

i admit i may be shallow at times but not to the point that i say "he/she is ugly". we shouldn't judge people by the way they look. we should know the person first. that's my opinion. PEACE!

[inthemudhole]

Not everybody is shallow..

I, for one, am not shallow.
For real. I don't get attracted to people by their looks.
I get attracted to people because of the way that they carry themselves and stuff like that. The way they think.. seriously. Not everybody IS indeed shallow.

[MAXpowers1023]

yeah...most people are shallow...i find my self being shallow sometimes...but then i realize it...and i change my attitude...

[DaTru KataLYST]

i've met some very very deep ppl before. G2 respect that.

[aznhunnie6o1]

you took the words right outta my mouth.. i get really p/o when i hear people do that and it makes me wanna slap em. i can be shallow a little bit at times, but not much. ive learned to look past the looks and go for personality.