virginity, im scared to loose it..., help |
 Dec 21 2004, 04:18 PM
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okay me and my bf have talked about having sex whenever were ready, alot of my friends aren't virgins and they tell me to just get it over with ... i want too but im scared,plus i dont want to bleed on my bf when my hymen breaks... isnt that embarassing
 although its proly broken already cuz i ride horses every day
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Dec 21 2004, 04:21 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
if you're scared, then you definitely should NOT do it. don't let your friends pressure you if you don't feel like you're entirely ready. smart move talking to your boyfriend first about it...
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Dec 21 2004, 04:25 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
don't do it when your scared... do it when your ready... but probably before you do it would would be scared anyways... but don't do it just because your freinds did it, do it because YOU wnat to not your bf wnats to, guys are horny..
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 21 2004, 04:26 PM
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Mmm yeah, definitely don't fall victim to peer pressure. That's the worst. If your boyfriend cared about you, he'd wait until the right time, too.
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Dec 21 2004, 04:38 PM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
dont' be pressured...do it when you feel like your ready...if your friends and your bf really care bout you..then they wouldn't try and get you to do it w/o your own will
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Dec 21 2004, 04:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
hey i'm in the same boat. i have maybe 3 friends who are still virigns. But it doesn't intimidate me one one bit. if they were ready, that was their choice, but they control whether or not theysave their virginity, not mine. Your boyfriend is just plain horny. if he really cares for you, & you tell him you wanna wait, he should understand
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Dec 21 2004, 04:48 PM
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 You're a blue eyed lightning bolt. Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,896 |
don't give into peer pressure..you're really lucky that you are able to talk to your guy about it tho..my only advice for you is that it's your choice, do it if YOU feel like you're ready, not if your bf is ready..
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Dec 21 2004, 04:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
Gahhhhhh, I hate peer pressure. Don't let that get to you. Do it when you're ready because right now, it seems like you aren't.
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Dec 21 2004, 04:58 PM
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 Nymphetamine Girl Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,433 |
When you want to do it.
Do it. But be entirely sure that your ready for everything that follows. If your boyufriend knows your a virgin the blood shouldn't be a problem. Don't just do it because of friends. Having your virginty can be a proud thing. So, really don't worry about it. If your not ready. Your definetly not ready. |
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Dec 21 2004, 04:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,950 |
see we have talked about it and my bf says that he will wait he doesnt wanna rush me into anything i dont wanna do, i want to but then again i dont... its weird
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Dec 21 2004, 05:08 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
im scared if i will lose my virginity too
 im only 16...good thing i survived so far... T_T;; it's hard...
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Dec 22 2004, 01:45 PM
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 KATHY WiTH A "K" Group: Member Posts: 441 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,184 |
YEA, EVERYONE DAT POSTED iS RiGHT. DO iT WHEN YOU`RE READY
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Dec 22 2004, 02:01 PM
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i know you want me... Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,918 |
well even if your friends lost their viginity you don't have to and plus if your boyfriend knew that you weren't ready he wouldn't talk about it with you and you should save your girlhood until you get married because that's the only way you for sure know that it's with the right person...
 and guys are just ready to hit that and i know as a girl that you love him and what not but hold it in you and be sure that he is the right one to lose your virgince to... QUOTE in scary movies, virgins live!!
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Dec 22 2004, 02:30 PM
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 Physic Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,700 |
Listen to the ppl who say when you are ready. I don't relly know for I'm only 13
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Dec 22 2004, 03:03 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
it sounds like your not ready so ya know what? dont do it! you should do it because you want to not your friends cuz virginity is something that you can never get back...may not seem special now but if lost with the wrong person then you can have that morning after regret and stuff....
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Dec 22 2004, 03:31 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
WAIT WAIT WAIT..
By looking at your birthday, You're ONLY 14!  Don't you dare lose your virginity! Especially if you're scared. You might regret it later! You're not sure that you'll spend the rest of your life with him, so don't give in! And how can riding hourses break yoyur hymn or whatever it's called? How do you know your boyfriend isn't just dating you to score and get in your pants? 
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| *tyedyefroggy* |
Dec 22 2004, 03:48 PM
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Ya, dont let peer pressure get to you. You must wait until YOU are ready.
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Dec 22 2004, 03:51 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
if your afraid, then your not ready.
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Dec 22 2004, 05:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
14? don't do it. how long have u been dating? *you answer* i dun kare.. u'r stil 14.. dun do it. DUN DO IT!!
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| *stephinika* |
Dec 22 2004, 05:27 PM
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exactly. you are only 14...i'm 16 and i'm not even THINKING about losing mine yet. just wait...it'll be worth it. and the fact that you're even questioning yourself means that you simply just aren't ready yet.
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Dec 22 2004, 06:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,950 |
 thanks for helping me out ppl i neede the advice, im gunna wait for a while  i feel stupid for even posting this...
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Dec 22 2004, 08:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 |
peer presure is a royal pain in the ass.
If your scared...thats probably a sign that your not ready yet. |
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Dec 22 2004, 08:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,498 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,711 |
like what ze other people said
if you dont want to, dont. |
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Dec 25 2004, 10:14 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I think you should wait till you're older. And more ready.
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Dec 25 2004, 10:16 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Don't feel pressured..
If you do, then don't go through with it. Wait until you're older.. or at least wait until you're ready to enjoy it. |
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