theres this guy..., ive known for a long time |
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 Dec 22 2004, 05:08 PM
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okay. well there is this guy i have known since 5th grade, and we went out in6th many times, but borke up alot `cuz people kept interfering. but anyways, we went out one last time, but my "friend" kept bothering me telling me that she liked him and everything. so i wanted to be a good friend (plus i couldnt take it anymore). so yeah, i broke up with him (no matter how much i didnt want to) well i set him and my "friend" up and they have been going out ever since (about 2 years) and during those 2 years of them going out i moved from D.C. (where i used to live and where he lives, ect.) to San Diego. we talk everyday, and we tell eachother that we still like eachother and that we are going to get married when we grow up. and recently his girlfriend cheated on him and told him and it got him mad, but he is afraid that if he breaks up with her that she will do something drastic because she is crazy about him. and i told him that i will most likely visit him this summer, and then he said that he and i should hook up then and i said "okay" (he and his girlfriend wont be going out then)
what i want to know is if i should still hold on to him or just let him go. i REALLY do love him, and he says he loves me too...but i am here and he is there. what do you think? [edit] i know that it isnt good for a long distance relationship, and i dont want one and he knows that. but do you think that its good for me to hold on to him till i can leave and go there permanetly? (in about 4 years, a lil less) |
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Dec 22 2004, 05:12 PM
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 RRRRRr (I) AAAAAA NNNNN Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,214 |
i would say no, i dont believe longdistant relationships work well
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Dec 22 2004, 09:23 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's completely up to you, if you want to. but i would say no don't go into a long distance relationship, unless you can completely trust him and vice versa. well if you do love him like you say you do then go for it.
good luck |
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Dec 23 2004, 06:40 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
i dont think you should promise anything, just keep in touch for now and wait till youcan actually go back there to start going out or being with each other, I hoped this made some sense to you....=)
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Dec 23 2004, 07:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,555 |
yes. thank you all!
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Dec 24 2004, 07:44 AM
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 You make me sad. =( Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,818 |
ermm how do you connect? if it's the internet.. then noway. if it's the phone then it's sort of okay. x_x but i don't think long distant relationships really work out. because, they are far away.. but do you truly trust him? if you truly trust him then, go for it. =) if there's a little doubt then.. it's up to you.
 edit:: yaa.. sorry bout the internet part.. it's just people over the internet may be someone they are not. |
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