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 Dec 20 2004, 10:30 PM
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hm...well there's this guy...and i'm "in love with him"...problem is, he's not in love with me
 ...we went out last year but he broke up with me for someone else and it seems like i just can't get over him. It hurts cuz we're still friends and i help him out when he's upset and i've even helped him hook up with people he's liked. But i STILL can't stop thinking about him....he's told me he loves me, but its jsut a friend thing...i just can't help wishing it was more....i dunno what to do....i wanna tell him how i feel but i dont know how! And i dont want him to hurt me again like last year.... 
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Dec 20 2004, 10:31 PM
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Love hates me Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,805 |
help!!! what should i do??
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Dec 20 2004, 10:46 PM
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well first of all it's appreciated if you don't double post, but hey. Who am i to say anything?
Anywhoo.... if you don't wanna get hurt, i don't think it's such a good idea that you tell him if he only loves you as a friend. Maybe within time, he will realize that he did like you and you could take things from there, but for right now, it seems as if maybe you should just be friends. Go ahead and tell him if you like, however you may not like his response.......... |
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Dec 21 2004, 12:53 AM
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no use being in the dumps about this! if he doesn't like you, then he doesn't like you, i think you should find someone else
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Dec 21 2004, 02:03 AM
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u cant really do anything. just cross ur fingers and wish that he'll like u again.. or maybe, move on.
----------------------------------- a heart is not a play thing, a heart is not a toy; but if u want it broken, give it to a boi... if it wasnt supposed to heart ..it wouldnt b called a crush come to my site.. 
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Dec 21 2004, 10:36 PM
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 Tree Hugger Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,015 |
I say just tell him if you like him so much. Tell him how you feel, and that you realize it porbably can't be more but you're still thinking about him. And just let him think his own feelings through. :)
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Dec 21 2004, 10:48 PM
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Quit being such a baby.
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Dec 21 2004, 11:04 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Dec 20 2004, 9:46 PM) well first of all it's appreciated if you don't double post, but hey. Who am i to say anything? Anywhoo.... if you don't wanna get hurt, i don't think it's such a good idea that you tell him if he only loves you as a friend. Maybe within time, he will realize that he did like you and you could take things from there, but for right now, it seems as if maybe you should just be friends. Go ahead and tell him if you like, however you may not like his response.......... took the words right out of my grill... |
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Dec 22 2004, 12:18 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You cant force someone to l o v e you. If you don't feel that it's worth the risk of him hurting you again...then don't tell him...but if you do..there's always a chance that maybe it will work out. If it doesnt then just m o v e on. Don't try to mend anything or even stay friends out of pity or anythign like that..it normally hurts at least one side.
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Dec 22 2004, 12:58 AM
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 jellobean Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,478 |
if u wanna get over him...i think u should tell him ur feelings..tat u still like him..then he should say things tat would hurt u again..n then..u should NOT b sad..but tell urself u have 2 get over this guy coz he doesnt love you!!!!!find another guy..n u might b much happier than u think..yea??cheer up..its juz a guy!!!
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