he has a girl, what to do? Options

[miss barnes]

ok- theres this boy who wants to mess around with me and vice versa but, there is one small detail. He has a girlfriend. Now, normally I could care less about a dude having a girl but, for some reason it's bothering me. I don't like him in a boyfriend way (for now) . I just wanna f**k around w/ him...lol...like a booty call. His girl most likely would never find out (and if she did, she aint gon' do shit to me).

What would you do? I just have a sexual attraction to him. Do you think the sexual attraction could lead to me having feelings for him? Or do you yall think I'm a hoe...cause i aint

[177emories]

the reason your considering how he has a girl is probably because you think you will be attracted to him other then just his looks... but honestly thats just not right fcuking around with someone who has a gf....

[Nicolatofu]

deff. a hoe
















haha i'm j/p w/ u. well if you and him keep up a sexual relationship, you may end up getting actual feelings for him. Which may lead to hurt feelings since he already has a girl. But who knows? he may feel the same way with you. You feelings about someone can change over time..

[*tyedyefroggy*]

You two mess around and he has a girl?






Can we say hoe? j/k.




Seriously, honestly I dont think you should mess around with each other since he has a girl. But if you two keep it up, then yeah, you might get feelings for him...but who knows? Try not to get too much into it, keep it 'low' for a while and just see what happens. Be careful though, who knows what his girl can do when she finds out, even if you say she cant do shit to ya, you never know.

[Saeglopur]

Get a male prostitute.

[sweetdreamsx3]

You guys deserve each other. One's a slut (I didn't say hoe) and the other is like a player. Perfect in each other's arm.

[*krnxswat*]

Yes, "hope" would be the correct term.

Or, since you didn't want us to call you that, perhaps slut, dirtbag?

[miss barnes]

You guys deserve each other. One's a slut (I didn't say hoe) and the other is like a player. Perfect in each other's arm.

Yes, "hope" would be the correct term.

Or, since you didn't want us to call you that, perhaps slut, dirtbag?

umm....i see no reason for the name calling. Its not like i do this all the time. This is the first time this has ever happened to me. Yall probably think i'm a "slut" or "dirtbag" because i said that i usually dont care..which it true but, that dont mean shit.

oh and name calling doesnt hurt my feeling....sorry to bust your bubble

[yummy_delight]

i'm not going to say that you're a hoe... but if you "normally don't care about a dude having a girl"? that is pretty damn hoe-ish.

don't get involved with him if he has a girlfriend. how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and you found out he had a booty call? besides, everone deserves a meaningful relationship based on more than just sex. even YOU. acting like a ho.

[*krnxswat*]

sorry to bust your bubble

No bubble to begin in the first place.

[miss barnes]

i'm not going to say that you're a hoe... but if you "normally don't care about a dude having a girl"? that is pretty damn hoe-ish.

don't get involved with him if he has a girlfriend. how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and you found out he had a booty call? besides, everone deserves a meaningful relationship based on more than just sex. even YOU. acting like a ho.

thank you. u gave me your opinion...unlike other people and didnt...nvm...just thank u

[sweetdreamsx3]

I did say my opinion. What did you want me to say? You're a freaking angel? I don't think so. Maybe you just can't handle the truth very well.

And if you don't care about the name calling, why did you post a reply to it in the first place?

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I just wanna f**k around w/ him...lol...like a booty call.

If you don't call that being a hoe, what exactly is it then? Whore?

[Shattered_Hope]

That's not exactly what you would call a hoe...but yea..I guess it's OK to have umm feelings for ..errr....mess around with him...I mean when a guy is with someone...i guess he has a more sexual appeal??LOL...LMAO. *ahem*
But...I dont think you should mess around with him since he's already with someone...

[cheezy_mi]

well..u should stop seeing him in e 1st place coz u'll b ruining a relationship..im gonna have 2 agree with yummy_delight coz she/he's right..u wont 1 ur guy 2 flirt around outside..yepz..or i would suggest u wait till u're ready 2 go on a serious relationship with him..then u tell him..hmm..but i dun noe whether it'll turn out well..hahaha..so...gd luck!!

[bad_girl]

leave him alone.

[miss barnes]

I did say my opinion. What did you want me to say? You're a freaking angel? I don't think so. Maybe you just can't handle the truth very well.

And if you don't care about the name calling, why did you post a reply to it in the first place?

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If you don't call that being a hoe, what exactly is it then? Whore?

i wasnt even talking about u....and yea the name calling doesnt bother me but i still see no reason 4 it.

wow..whore? people still say that word?

[shortiiex]

then he is cheating on his gf if he fooling around wif you, so ask him to be a pimp or break up with his gf

[tooeffingcrazy]

Friends with "benefits" just isn't going to work out. Stop messing with him, cause that just isn't fair to the girl. You wouldn't want someone messing with your man, now would you? This does lead to the slutish area, so i think you should stop what your doing, unless you acually like him. Messing around can lead to liking him.

[xj_liana_tx]

whatever you feel like, get him or lose him. Or you can wait for them to break up?

[stitch132]

i think that it isnt right for someone who has a girlfriend/boyfriend to mess around with someone else. i mean put yourself in the girlfriend/boyfriends position ... you wouldnt want the person you are dating to do that to you ... now would you?

[Flip-o-Matic]

if u care so much. leave him alone. plenty of fish in the sea.

[royalfreshness]

deff. a hoe
















haha i'm j/p w/ u. well if you and him keep up a sexual relationship, you may end up getting actual feelings for him. Which may lead to hurt feelings since he already has a girl. But who knows? he may feel the same way with you. You feelings about someone can change over time..

I only thought you're one as soo as you said "i just want f**k around" Hmm.

Just don't hang around him, you don't want to get caught in the middle of thei break-up or something.

[abebedreamer]

Wow i was qoin thru the samethinq but now the quy nd his qf broke up nd i dunno if i still have feelins for him..i totally get wanting to mess aroun wit him but not date him. if he nd his gf are serious jus leave it nd qive em sum time who knows they miqht break up too...jus dun qet ur hopez up lolz

[sweetdreamsx3]

i wasnt even talking about u....and yea the name calling doesnt bother me but i still see no reason 4 it.

wow..whore? people still say that word?

Yeah, people still do. Can't read? And if you aren't talking to me, then don't quote my comment.

[ComradeRed]

ok- theres this boy who wants to mess around with me and vice versa but, there is one small detail. He has a girlfriend. Now, normally I could care less about a dude having a girl but, for some reason it's bothering me. I don't like him in a boyfriend way (for now) . I just wanna f**k around w/ him...lol...like a booty call. His girl most likely would never find out (and if she did, she aint gon' do shit to me).

What would you do? I just have a sexual attraction to him. Do you think the sexual attraction could lead to me having feelings for him? Or do you yall think I'm a hoe...cause i aint

Seduce him into kissing or having sex with you and "accidentally" arrange it so that his girlfriend finds out. They break up, you can date him. There you go.