i like my friend......help!, i need guy & girl opinions |
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 Dec 16 2004, 09:43 PM
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is it better 2 stay friends, even if i want more, or try 2 get more & risk our relationship? we're pretty good friends right now, but not like BFF close. i kinda want 2 strengthen our relationship more, but i wnat a 2nd thought. last time i started liking 1 of my friends, i went 2 fast. & this time 1 of my friends likes him 2. so i just feel like im screwed. so, tell me, wat would u do? i wnat both male & female positions on this plez.
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Dec 16 2004, 09:47 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
When a hunter wants to catch his prey, he stalks it first...
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Dec 16 2004, 09:49 PM
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ok, i only go 2 public skool. i dont understand that sort of metophor stuff. PLAIN ENGLISH PLEZ
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Dec 16 2004, 09:50 PM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
The point of a relationship is to get closer to someone. Worrying about breaking the friendship through a relationship defeats the purpose of getting into a relationship in the first place.
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Dec 16 2004, 09:58 PM
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You should just stay friends.
1. If you go out with him, it could ruin your friendship with the guy. 2. Your friend likes him. 3. It's most likely that you'll end up losing a friend like this. So what? Don't risk your friendship for a relationship. If you do, you'll probably get hurt someway. |
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Dec 16 2004, 10:18 PM
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I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
QUOTE(eyes__half_open @ Dec 16 2004, 6:49 PM) ok, i only go 2 public skool. i dont understand that sort of metophor stuff. PLAIN ENGLISH PLEZ Umm... I go to public school too... Honors English 10, AP European History, Honors Algebra 2, Spanish 1 (stupid counseling office...), Biology Honors, Yearbook. Not a bad schedule for a sophomore I might add. Anyway, it makes perfect sense what comradered said, at least to me... |
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Dec 17 2004, 06:21 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i would just stay as good friends i mean what if the relationship doesn't work out and your friendship ends, and your friend likes him she might get mad that you got to him first and you might lose another friend
but then its up to do on wht you want to do good luck |
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Dec 17 2004, 07:12 AM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
You can always buy more friends.
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Dec 17 2004, 07:30 AM
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Listen to ur heart
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Dec 17 2004, 05:02 PM
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I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Dec 17 2004, 4:12 AM) You can always buy more friends. Or just find better ones. |
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Dec 17 2004, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(pympgangsta4real @ Dec 16 2004, 8:18 PM) Umm... I go to public school too... Honors English 10, AP European History, Honors Algebra 2, Spanish 1 (stupid counseling office...), Biology Honors, Yearbook. Not a bad schedule for a sophomore I might add. Anyway, it makes perfect sense what comradered said, at least to me... ok, im only in middle skool. neways, thanx 4 the advice guys. im just going 2 stay friends 4 now, even if the chick that also likes him isnt really a close friend. thankies! XOXO |
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Dec 17 2004, 09:38 PM
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I actually had the same exact problem.. Except the fact that I understood that and that mine can actually be made into something as he is 16 and I am 14, so he can drive. But my advice is to wait til high school.
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Dec 18 2004, 12:37 PM
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woah deja vu... i had that problem too like 3 years ago. but he was my best friend and everything and we were really close. the fact that we were best friends made it better though.
we aren't together anymore, but we are still as great of friends as we were before we went out. you just gotta take the chance. if he likes you too, that is. once it happens, the rest is up to fate. in my case for example: fate was in my hands and we stayed best friends; his parents even want us to get married, so we kinda have something there, and plan to do what his parents want. but that doesnt really relate to it. but anyways, as i said, give it a chance, late fate take control. you might even turn out like mine did. |
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Dec 18 2004, 04:15 PM
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I'm sort of in a problem like that... I say wait a while. Who knows, maybe you'll get over it, or maybe your friend will... If you guys have a strong enough friendship, it can last through anything. ^_^
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Dec 18 2004, 05:05 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
do u gamble? cuz this is what it comes to, go on with a normal friendship and feel limited or go for the extra distance and risk what u have now.
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Dec 18 2004, 05:48 PM
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STAY FRIENDS.
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Dec 18 2004, 05:49 PM
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Your cool
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Dec 19 2004, 12:04 AM
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just wait a little longer. but since there's someone who also has their eyes on him, then if you really really like him, go for it.
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Dec 19 2004, 02:44 AM
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'If you lub someone tell them...because broken hearst are often shattered by words left unspoken'
just tell him there are onli two possibilities --he likes u...or he doesnt like you and if you reeeaaaaaallli wanna be safe and not tell him ask him who he likes first ...you said he'z your frend so he'll probably tell you....and if he says he lieks you then u tell him he likes....and if he doesn't then jsut keep quiet about it...at least you know the truth.  so...go for it gurl 
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Dec 20 2004, 02:19 AM
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you should just stay friends. it's not worth it to risk the relationship you have with him now. trust me i know
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Dec 20 2004, 10:09 PM
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 Love hates me Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,805 |
aw....that's tough, but i /perosnally/ wouldnt go for him....like you said, you dont wanna risk the friendship you have PLUS your frind is crushing on him too. Unless she supports you going for him, then it's probably not a good idea
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Dec 21 2004, 03:41 AM
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I screwed up two GREAT friendships by letting it go to the next level. Just have fun flirting and keep it easy. :)
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