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 Dec 19 2004, 03:00 AM
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okay..well..mai friend ..lets call her..."kelsey"...she got with this guy last year...umm..we can call him "craig" anyways..she got with him..last year..he was new...but the broke up like..in a couple of weeks..but i knoe she never got over him and all..even though she says so..everyone can tell that she still likes him..but over the summer..she kept telling me shes over him and its OFFICIALLY over..but she still talks about him ..well..now we go to different schools..but we still talk like everday and stuff..online..and well.."craig" goes to my school..and we're pretty close..ive liked him ever since they broke up kinda...i liked him..it got out and she found out..it was okay though..but ever since the break up.."craig" didnt care about her..or like her..or even want to have anything to do with her anymore...and so "kelsey" started talking sh*t about him on the internet and stuff like that..but now..shes just like.."oh i love him" etc etc...so its just really pissing me off...thats not really the problem though..
its just that..well..the word got out that i like him..i ono HOW but this one girl found out..i dont even talk to her..i dont really even knoe who she is..but yeah..and shes been spreading it...she even told my friend that everyone knew i like him...and so..he asked my friend did i like him [[ by the way..im pretty shy]] and she wasnt suppose to tell anyone that..so she say i ono..well..its pretty obvious now..that he knoes i like him...but if he felt the same way i did..i dunno wat to do..cause then should i get my friend "kelsey" mad at me? we've been in a fight before..not physically but like..i hated her for a while..last year..i never forgave her..but she just began talking..so yeahh..so now..i have no idea where to go..either on "kelseys" side..or with the person i cant live without...i knoe it sounds easy but i dont wonna cause any trouble between me and "kesley" ... so..advice please? lol.. |
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Dec 19 2004, 03:08 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
well..didn't "kelsey" say she was over him?
 because it sounds to me like she likes him but shes jealous..hmm..well have a talk with "kelsey" about how you feel, and you hope that it doesn't effect your guys' friendship..hope everything goes well 
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Dec 19 2004, 04:01 AM
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 You make me sad. =( Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,818 |
hmm... that's kind of strange. i mean, your friend kelsey that is. she has problems.. =.=" no offense, but your friend kelsey should make up her mind. love him or over him? anyways, if she was a real friend, she'd understand that you like craig, and not get jealous. everyone has the right to date or like whoever they want. x_x if your friend doesn't understand that then she's not a good friend. get a new friend. she's not worth it.
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Dec 19 2004, 08:26 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well 'kelsey' shouldn't be mad at you, she told you she was over 'craig'. if she's a great friend, she should understand
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Dec 19 2004, 10:18 AM
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QUOTE(Wishful Thinking @ Dec 19 2004, 4:01 AM) hmm... that's kind of strange. i mean, your friend kelsey that is. she has problems.. =.=" no offense that is true, you need to talk to your friends about her issues with her ex |
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Dec 19 2004, 03:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(Wishful Thinking @ Dec 19 2004, 4:01 AM) hmm... that's kind of strange. i mean, your friend kelsey that is. she has problems.. =.=" no offense, but your friend kelsey should make up her mind. love him or over him? anyways, if she was a real friend, she'd understand that you like craig, and not get jealous. everyone has the right to date or like whoever they want. x_x if your friend doesn't understand that then she's not a good friend. get a new friend. she's not worth it. I completely agree with her. They broke up anyway and plus if Kelsey still likes Craig, she wouldn't be talking smack. |
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Dec 19 2004, 03:37 PM
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 Love hates me Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,805 |
hm...i know how you feel, and it's tough. but yeah, "kelsey" should understand that you have feelings for him and she shouldn't try to keep you from being happy just because she cant be with him. it's really confusing but you should DEFINATELY talk to her about what she feels. would this hurt her? or is she gonna keep acting like she's over him? ask her to be honest especially if you don't wanna hurt her. She sounds like the jealous type, and i'm just worried that she'll talk sh*t about YOU if you go out with "Craig". ultimately though, it's YOUR choice, and you can't let others make the decision for you. There's no right or wrong choice. Just do what you think is right! i'm sure everything wil turn out ok
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