talk about people, behind their backs? Options

[lovescream]

do you talk about people behind their backs?
Not nessicarly your friend, but you say you like them and lie about it, then call them weird to a friend, and then you find out then you're so effing bummed.
Aha, that just happeened to me. This girl, Michele, called me weird, which I loved her for that fact, and she lied to my best friend saying that she doesn't takl about me.
Well, have you or has someone talked about you behind their backs?

[*x____duckii*]

I used to do that, but then I stopped. I realized that talking about people behind their backs is stupid and makes you seem scared of them. Now when I say something, I say it in their face.

[Euphoria Rose]

Yeah, I had someone talk about me behind my back. But I'm not naming names since I know who did it. But I talk about people behind their backs. But I only did it to two people. One of them knows I hate her now, I think, so she avoids me. I know she hates me. She's not even my friend, but I hate her. Everyone of my friends hate her but won't say it to her face. I didn't tell her but I did things like ignoring, talking back, and making sarcastic remarks to what she says. She keeps hanging around us because she has no friends. Freak. Loser. B*tch.

[heyyfrankie]

yeah. i don't mean to, but everyone at my school get all pissed off if you say the wrong thing. so i just tell my friends.

[xj_liana_tx]

not anymore, i feel like i am too nice, i can't really say anything mean to people... anyways, when i was in 7th grade i use to talk A LOT behind people's back and vise versa..

[Just_Dream]

Of course.. alot of peopel talked behind my back.. Doesn't bother me anymore.. I realized that they don't know me at all if they're going to talk smack about me behind my back.. They're just too chicken to say it to my face... Maybe they're jealous or something, to make up rumors about me. I could care less anymore, unless they were a close from of mines.. It's like, I never (tried to) hurt them or anything, so why would they try to make people hate me? exactly, lol.

And anyway, talking smack won't get you anywhere, except in a fight and you'll get confronted.. and THEN what will you say? ;x lol

[lovescream]

And anyway, talking smack won't get you anywhere, except in a fight and you'll get confronted.. and THEN what will you say? ;x lol

you say she started it.
Like the movies.

I just found out my friend, not really a friend but someone i dont like, likes my crush and tonight at the dance, she slowdanced with him. I totally got jealous [i wasnt at the dance though] because my friends were telling me that he likes me so ima spread rumours bout her

[Saeglopur]

a) We've talked about people behind their backs without even noticing we do.
b) .. well, of course?

[Flip-o-Matic]

ppl talk bout me behind my back...it's just typical high school jealousy i guess...

[jr0h]

that's life dude. who doesnt go through that.

[Heathasm]

im trying desperately to not do this :l i hate when im talked about behind my back especially when its not true, so i try not to make assumptions about people then talk about it behind their back!

[Chaos13]

sometimes but we always dissed each other and talk cr@p. sometimes we end up fighting and i always win! got experience with martial arts and boxing!

[kellyannie]

the only time i talk BAD about people behind their backs is when we have this joke about it, but I don't make up lies and stuff about them. but if I wanted to talk shit on someone i'd do it to their face what's the point of saying it behind their back? lol

sometimes us girls can be so mean

[KissMe2408]

I try so hard not to talk about ppl behind their back, but if i do have a problem with them then i'll say it to their face. I hated getting talked about behind my back in school, and i don't wanna be like those girls that used to do that to me. So now if i have a problem wit someone or my friend has a problem wit someone then i just tell her or him. and i mean suprisingly it works alot betta

[sweetdreamsx3]

I try not to, but it's impossible when this 19 year old kid who calls everyone a bitch on createblog and talks smack about me. And I shouldn't care since it's online drama, but screw it.

And I don't do so in person...at least I don't think I do. Just criticism.

[ApocalypseAelis]

Yes...I talk about people behind their backs-but only if I'm really pissed at them. It's a screwed up thing to do. :/

And of course people have talked behind my back before. Haha. It's expected of them. Nobody's perfect.

[Tung]

f**k i hate people who talk behinds peoples back. thats just loserness. if you want to say something to somebody say it upfront. be straight about it. and tell them how you feel. dont be all scurd and talk behind someones back. you just dont do that shit.

[Ladii_D1809]

i use to before this year, then i went to school, and realized that some of the stuff i said really hurt some people and so then i stopped, and also i stopped because this one girl talks about people all the time, and now her whole face is broken out in acne and stuff trece gross

[*stephinika*]

i have before. i try not to though.

[lovescream]

f**k i hate people who talk behinds peoples back. thats just loserness. if you want to say something to somebody say it upfront. be straight about it. and tell them how you feel. dont be all scurd and talk behind someones back. you just dont do that shit.

i agree.
but anyone in my school talks shit, we get a detention.
the teachers are suspicious because the guys are bullying others and talking about "negative" stuff.
so yah...

[misoshiru]

i just went through alot about my ex-crush talking behind my back. i b*tched at him and everything...and then i found out that part of it probably wasn't even true. well, we're friends now.

anyways, everyone talks about other people behind their backs. its called gossip. i've talked about people and they've talked about me.

[inthemudhole]

Yeah.
I have before.
People have done it to me.
I'm sure all of us have.

[xxruinedsoulxx]

all people do that. i have done that. but after doing so, i feel guilty for telling others instead of just telling it right to their face. i try to minimize doing that though. lols

[angel-roh]

yeah when they make me mad, i do.

[iheartsimba]

i try not to...but yes i do sometimes. but i've never had a friend that hasn't talked bad about someone before either..