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QUOTE(xdr3amerx @ Mar 26 2004, 2:29 AM) Waccoon off ur xanga... """Waccoon Productions does not take any responsibility for any relgious disbelief, insanity, or harm caused by viewing this weblog.""" haha stupid sh*t. so its okay for you to offend people in your xanga which random people can see because you made your xanga available to the public but its not okay for the girl to offend someone??? and she wasn't even being serious. can;t you tell with the LOL's you blind f*ck. or is it okay to say stuff that is offending as long as we have a disclaimer on the top of whatever we write. well here's my disclaimer Dr3aMer Productions just flat out doesn't want Waccoon and some certain mods to read whatever i write because all they will do is complain about how it offends someone. by not skipping over my post and reading what i have to say you agree to not B*tch about what i had to say. Dr3aMeR Productions does not take any responsibility for any relgious disbelief, insanity, offending, or harm caused by viewing this post oh and you damn atheist!! no wonder you thought the girl was being racist, its cause you a dumb person. how can you look at the world and think that there wasn't a God who made everything. you believe in that sh*ty evolution or is it the big bang. even albert einstein was asked wheather he believed in a God or something. you know what he said. he said that he chooses to because once you look at the world it is impossible that all this stuff is just random. not verbatim but you get the picture. but remember i am not responsible for offending you, damn HYPOCRITE oh boy, am i going to have fun with this retaliation. first of all, that was an inside joke for my friends, you know - the people you wish you had. haha, stupid shit. "and she wasn't even being serious. can;t you tell with the LOL's you blind f*ck." yeah, she was. retard. "or is it okay to say stuff that is offending as long as we have a disclaimer on the top of whatever we write. " once again, it was a joke. and if you are offended by my posts, hey - i didnt tell you to look at my xanga. Dr3aMer Productions just flat out doesn't want Waccoon and some certain mods to read whatever i write because all they will do is complain about how it offends someone. by not skipping over my post and reading what i have to say you agree to not B*tch about what i had to say. first of all, i really doubt there is a dr3amer productions, because frankly - you suck. it's people like you that make up the ass-kissing, useless pieces of shit in the world. oh and you damn atheist!! no wonder you thought the girl was being racist, its cause you a dumb person. how can you look at the world and think that there wasn't a God who made everything. you believe in that sh*ty evolution or is it the big bang. even albert einstein was asked wheather he believed in a God or something. you know what he said. he said that he chooses to because once you look at the world it is impossible that all this stuff is just random. not verbatim but you get the picture. but remember i am not responsible for offending you, damn HYPOCRITE oh, you damn dense piece of shit. no wonder you can't comprehend what i'm saying right now. i can just picture you, poring over a dictionary, trying to figure out half of what i'm saying. how can you look at atheism and just outright insult it? just because you don't believe in it doesn't give you a right to insult people who do. and you're going to try to turn this against me - hey, i was christian, a very devoted one. you were NEVER an atheist. albert einstein believes in god? so what? he came up with theories. he doesnt decide if there is a god or not. why would i care what he believed in? he came up with theories, great - he contributed to the advancement of the human race. i dont see how i am a hypocrite. and you know what? you can contribute to the advancement of the human race too. you know how? go die. |
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QUOTE(Idyll @ Feb 23 2004, 6:24 PM) People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry? WAIT, PEOPLE THESE DAYS? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? WHERE THE FREAK DO U LIVE?!! let me fix that saying, people these days, especially where i live, just don't care anymore!!! hahaha ...even when i had my very first boyfriend which he and i dated for 2 years, and spilt because he had to move. but his race was latino/african american. Now with my 2ndboyfriend, which i've been with for a year, hes dutch and taiwanese. homeboy got green eyes!!!!! and er... i have brown/hazel eyes cause i'm not fully vietnamese. |
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okay, now settle down. Yes, dr3amer is not making sense, don't let it get to you. Don't cuss so much, pg-13 rating. Settle down or this topic might be close...
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you rock my undies x] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 182 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 269 ![]() |
QUOTE(Podomaht @ Feb 23 2004, 6:31 PM) i guess....asians are racist. especially koreans, they dun like whites... -___- This is so not true. I am Korean. I have no problem with whites. This just ticks me off. Excuse me for ranting about this, but I know plenty of Koreans that have no problem with whites. Please don't say this if you don't know. FYI, ASIANS ARE NOT RACISTS. I admit, some are, but you can't just label them like they're all racists. That's like saying Whites are mean or something. And I know they're not. And you have to know that there are plenty of Koreans that hang out with whites. I don't know where you're from, but you're not being fair. PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU THINK BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING. There are plenty of Koreans, and not to mention Asians in this forum. QUOTE ahahhahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.... how many times should i say sorry fer what i said?? racism is a joke at our school... and technically... usually what i say aint serious...im jus kidding...foolin around..tryna be funny..ya know??..fraid not.. why do ppls jus have to take the internet so seriously..?geez.. Also, ThePrincessofTKD, I've noticed a lot of you posts around here. They aren't very nice, at least to me. Why can't we take the internet seriously? And if you think about it, most of us do not go to your school. We won't know that your "racism" is a joke. I am also 13. I'm in 7th grade. You might think this is wierd coming from a girl younger than you, but think about the others around you. You aren't the only one in this forum. QUOTE dude, honestly, thass so sad. ur asian pride, eh? i was once like that too. that is, until i realized there is no point. being asian sucks in some ways. 1, you cant be involved in politics as much as white people and black people are. cause theres racism up there. whats the point of contributing to racism? seriously. it only makes it harder for people who are against racism. i mean, you probably are against whites discriminating against asains, so why discriminate white and black and other races? i personally find it useless. anyhows. i think mixed people are absolutely handsome and pretty. i wish i was mixed... ( i am sort of, but i look full korean haha i think i only have like 1/12 chinese blood in me... ) man... dont say nikkuhs... dude thasss so mean. and so racist. its like some black dude calling you pee- colored. (yes, i have experienced that no matter how corny it may seems. ) I love you xjjajeengx!! Now, back to the subject. There's no problem with it at all. The love is all that counts. Just.. My parents think that marrying/ going out with a guy the same race/ethnicity as me would help me on the long run. Just because the practices and the cultures are so different from each other. Take Americans and Asians for once. Some Americans [NOTICE THAT I SAID SOME] don't take off their shoes in their house. Asians on the other hand take off their shoes. The food style is also different. But if you think about it, we can all get used to it. This is only what I think. |
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QUOTE(pan50 @ Mar 1 2004, 11:54 PM) uhh..hey guys..u forgot about !!indians!! in the midst of debating about asian white relationships, cuz we ALL know that indians are kewl..right? i suppose indians are alright. i don't know, for some reason, all the indian girls at my school look like they're related. well, indians are okay. LOL i remember my friend named Atit (ahtee) but i'll just pronounce his name the way its spelled, which is 'A TIT' LOL |
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i am not gonna speak for all asian ppl sayin if we're racist or not. i can onlie say personal experiences.. . from wut i know, koreans are REALLY against interracial marriages n dating... i can definitely see it in my family n in other korean families. its hard to say exactly why buh i know what my family thinks. my family wants only korean n thas it. my family wants to be able to speak to my bf or spouse in korean cuz their english ish sOOo horrible. also, they want that pure korean blood continuing. . . if i ever married n had kids wit a non korean, i would be "breaking the chain" of pure blood koreanz.. O_o there are asian families that say its okai to date within the race buh my family do not want me to date any other asian nationalities either.. . for my family, dating whites and other asians would be juss as bad... its so stressful sometimes. many korean families may look down on other asian nationalities too... its a wierd circle. eben tho i dont look down on them, i can understand what my family thinks ebeN tho its juss realliee.. woA... some families are juss more traditional than others
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but to say that all asians are racist is juss generalizin too much. it may be the case for some buh definitely there are asians who are totally against it.
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QUOTE(jennyyy_xp @ Mar 31 2004, 7:35 PM) Take Americans and Asians for once. Some Americans [NOTICE THAT I SAID SOME] don't take off their shoes in their house. Asians on the other hand take off their shoes. The food style is also different. But if you think about it, we can all get used to it. This is only what I think. whoaa, explain that to me. i'm asian and i don't have to take off my shoes in the house. ![]() |
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QUOTE(jennyyy_xp @ Mar 31 2004, 7:35 PM) This is so not true. I am Korean. I have no problem with whites. This just ticks me off. Excuse me for ranting about this, but I know plenty of Koreans that have no problem with whites. Please don't say this if you don't know. FYI, ASIANS ARE NOT RACISTS. I admit, some are, but you can't just label them like they're all racists. That's like saying Whites are mean or something. And I know they're not. And you have to know that there are plenty of Koreans that hang out with whites. I don't know where you're from, but you're not being fair. PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU THINK BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING. There are plenty of Koreans, and not to mention Asians in this forum. Also, ThePrincessofTKD, I've noticed a lot of you posts around here. They aren't very nice, at least to me. Why can't we take the internet seriously? And if you think about it, most of us do not go to your school. We won't know that your "racism" is a joke. I am also 13. I'm in 7th grade. You might think this is wierd coming from a girl younger than you, but think about the others around you. You aren't the only one in this forum. I love you xjjajeengx!! Now, back to the subject. There's no problem with it at all. The love is all that counts. Just.. My parents think that marrying/ going out with a guy the same race/ethnicity as me would help me on the long run. Just because the practices and the cultures are so different from each other. Take Americans and Asians for once. Some Americans [NOTICE THAT I SAID SOME] don't take off their shoes in their house. Asians on the other hand take off their shoes. The food style is also different. But if you think about it, we can all get used to it. This is only what I think. okay, i guess your not a FoB? i would say it, because i know what im talking about. charlotte, NC, gets alot of FoB asians, and i talk to them alot, and most of they are racist against african-american and white. they are scared of african-american. i must of not said it clearly, sorry. but judging by your english ( maybe ) you lived in the US for a long time. ( 3years+? ) then your used to the diversity. FoBs arnt. oh yeah, you see some african americans, in korea, you see some whites ther, but its not dominant like USA. and all the plenty of korean people hanging out with the white people, know english. they're used to it. and i DID think before i said this. and if we took a poll, most asians here dont really care about racism. why? because they are USED to it. in this forum, they speak english and they can communicate with whites. all the Fobs dont go here unfortunatly. |
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yes no?
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aye nothing rong wit interacial its prty koo... kuz yah find out whats ur fortay in life... i use to b strickly dating same race... see.. im stupid... dunt make mistakes... c if i still went wit that whole same race shet i wouldnt meet my grl i b dating... i wouldnt b loving her... by today... c so interacial b a good thang dunt worry whad ppl say bout yall dey dunt matta.. jus u him/her
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may i ask why are we just focusing on asians and americans? and saying asians are racist, that's just wrong. i'm asian and i'm not against any other race. and we take off our shoes in the house? ehhh what about slippers o.0
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QUOTE(i_am_shoe @ Apr 1 2004, 4:37 PM) may i ask why are we just focusing on asians and americans? and saying asians are racist, that's just wrong. i'm asian and i'm not against any other race. and we take off our shoes in the house? ehhh what about slippers o.0 okay. im gonna answer your question with an answer. how old areyou, and how many years have you lived in the USA? |
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QUOTE(Idyll @ Feb 23 2004, 6:24 PM) People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry? WHY IS IT ONLY ASIANS AND WHITE WHAT ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE LIKE ME?!?!?! DO WE NOT MATTER ON THIS SITE?!?!?! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i have to go poo ![]() |
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i know from experience that a lot of people are against interracial dating between asians and african americans as well, because i am dating an african american. people still stare at us funny, shake their heads, and even point at us. i remember one time, there was a filipino couple talking about us nearby, and i guess they didn't realize that I understood tagalog.
as i said previously, i think the meshing of two different backgrounds and cultures is a beautiful thing, and there is more to learn from each other. it's a shame that there are still so many close minded people who disapprove of interacial relationships. unfortunately, even years from now, i don't think everyone is ever going to approve or be open to interacial relationships... these people are missing out. |
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QUOTE WHAT ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE LIKE ME?!?!?! DO WE NOT MATTER ON THIS SITE?!?!?! of course yoo matter. ish juss that marriage among whites and asians are more common than with black people. i do hab a couple of half black/half korean people at my church, they should talk about this. QUOTE okay, i guess your not a FoB? i would say it, because i know what im talking about. charlotte, NC, gets alot of FoB asians, and i talk to them alot, and most of they are racist against african-american and white. they are scared of african-american. i must of not said it clearly, sorry. but judging by your english ( maybe ) you lived in the US for a long time. ( 3years+? ) then your used to the diversity. FoBs arnt. oh yeah, you see some african americans, in korea, you see some whites ther, but its not dominant like USA. and all the plenty of korean people hanging out with the white people, know english. they're used to it. and i DID think before i said this. and if we took a poll, most asians here dont really care about racism. why? because they are USED to it. in this forum, they speak english and they can communicate with whites. all the Fobs dont go here unfortunatly. ish true that a lot ob fobs hab wierd relationz wit other races. i lived in america for a good time. buh my hearts still in korea, etc./ eben tho when i wasnt used to other races, i learned quickly about racism becuz ppl saw me as different. so when i went to skool first time in america, i was onlie used to these other races for only 1 year. shooo. its hard to judge whos a fob n twinkie on this site just on their views on racism. cuz its gonna be different for eberyone. no one can say if people care about racism or not cuz its all in the eye of the beholder. erk. i dunno if thish make any sense? sorrie if yoo guys cant understand.. >_< nom hee |
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im very aware ob racism buh im not neccessarily total FOB FOB. so its hard to say that all asian americans are not aware ob racism. buh then im not total twinkie either. i dont want to label myself. but sometimes i feel people are making me make a title for myself.
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QUOTE(Idyll @ Feb 23 2004, 3:24 PM) People these days seem to against interracial dating, especially between Asians and whites. Is there something wrong with dating someone with a different skin color or ancestry? Honestly, I have nothing against interracial dating, nor should I.. Mainly considering I'm the child of a Filipino mother and an American/German father. I'm also dating a white boy. :) Neither of my parents care who I date, as long as they're respectful and all that jazz. Though, my dad seemed quite happy he was white.. Hmm.. Nah, JK. I was more worried that his parents wouldn't like me, because I'm part Asian.. and seeing how they're from the south and I'm a yankee, too.. (See, we all have misperceptions of others..) Luckily, they don't mind.. and frankly, it seems our generations (ehm.. i'm 16) are more tolerant of interracial dating.. (As well as homosexual relationships.. but that's a different subject.) It's just the older more tradtional generations are less tolerant.. they'll come around eventually.. I hope. Let's just put it this way.. In the distant distant future, we'll all be the same color. Just deal with it. I mean, it's going to happen one way or another.. so just give up trying to stop the inneviatble. The sooner, the better, in my opinion. ![]() |
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QUOTE(Podomaht @ Mar 31 2004, 8:19 PM) okay, i guess your not a FoB? i would say it, because i know what im talking about. charlotte, NC, gets alot of FoB asians, and i talk to them alot, and most of they are racist against african-american and white. they are scared of african-american. i must of not said it clearly, sorry. but judging by your english ( maybe ) you lived in the US for a long time. ( 3years+? ) then your used to the diversity. FoBs arnt. oh yeah, you see some african americans, in korea, you see some whites ther, but its not dominant like USA. and all the plenty of korean people hanging out with the white people, know english. they're used to it. and i DID think before i said this. and if we took a poll, most asians here dont really care about racism. why? because they are USED to it. in this forum, they speak english and they can communicate with whites. all the Fobs dont go here unfortunatly. I have lived in the U.S for 8 years. Even if there were FOBs, they should seriously adapt to the American lifestyle. Or at least not show that they're "racist," and the shoe thing, I'm speaking generally. Most Asians take their shoes off because that's usually what I've seen, since I've lived in an Asian community before I moved to a more Americanized community, and I know there are FOBs, but they aren't racist. I'm not saying there aren't Asians that are racist, but I'm sure myself and many others would rather not be labeled as "racist" just beacause they were Korean or Asian. |
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my dad is in racism-_-;; so sad.. i wish he stops-_-;; he only likes korean and americans-_- but i wont say i disagree.... and im not say im racism...it's jus the ppls around him made him so mad-_-;;
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i def dont think theres nothing wrong!!! my bf is west indian and im asian...and his parents and mine dont care..
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interracial dating is so HOTT! wow, and now that i thought about it, i never dated anyone of my own race (brazilian). came close those though (portuguese). still. How did this happen to me? I dated every other race but my own. How ... how cruel!
and whats this about asians taking their shoes off? everyone does that dont they? i mean, when i get home... first thing my mom says is "take those friggen shoes off". |
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QUOTE also, even the FACT that I'm even dating or talking to boys would DRIVE MY PARENTS CRAZY! If they found out i was even dating a guy, my dad would kill me ^^ me too!!! im not allowed ta have guy friends or friends that arent chinese, its insane, this one time my black guy friend knocked on my door n my parens jus flipped n thought he was my bf, n i have a 6pm curfew, theyre disgustingly racist, mostly against black ppl, one of my big bros best/close friends is black n hes really nice but my mother always b*tches bout him in chinese wen hes around, n wen he sleeps ova, my mother locks her door, my parents r f*ckin nuts ![]() u should b allowed ta date whoeva u wana date regardless or race, religion, gender, w/e i date a pr guy ![]() ![]() QUOTE I actually prefer inter-racial dating. i am white but i love asian guys lol. plus, mixed race kids are always soo cute!! ^^ i noe ![]() ![]() |
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I am all for it... I think asian girls are sexy... I'd date one if I had the chance
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Well, to me interracial dating is all good....because mixing is what us americans need to do....and stop the hating....i mean sometimes parents don't want their kids dating other races because of the whole tradition and heritage thing.....so it depends....but if a couple of two completely different sides want to be together they will be together no matter what happens....all it depends on when it comes to interracial dating it is basically deciding what you want in the world.
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