Do u think.... Options

[caram3l_luver]

well i like this guy right his name is Michael.. but i found out that he has a girl friend name Danella... she moved but he still really likes her he still wears the necklece that she gave him.. shes planning to come and visit our school too... BUT i found out that in the past she had backstabbed him and went out with his friend.... she even made up lies like in Gym.. she was like Michael is a B!tc* my friend told michael.. and michael wanted to break up with herr... so then Danella told my friend to tell michael that my friend was just lying about everything.. wich is such a lie.. she really did call Michael a ....
anyways i was wondering if i should tell him.. but if i do.. what if he thinks im just making up lies. he doesnt know i like himm... and im soo mad im sitting here doing nothing.. i dont even no if i should tell him or not...

P.S Me and him are friends.. and well they havnt actually talked to eachother in a while.. but i know he still likes herr..

[pympgangsta4real]

I think you should tell him... but you're right, it would make you look bad, especially rumors might circulate if you tell him this, and then get with him... but nonetheless wouldn't telling him be the right thing to do? You care about him, and you don't want him to hurt with her when you know you can treat him better...

...I know how that feels...

Regardless of my feelings on my own problems, I say go for it and tell him. It's the right thing to do, regardless of how it makes you look to other people... they don't matter, and they're stupid for getting involved if they do, so just remember, you did the right thing, and that alone sets you above those people.

[caram3l_luver]

haha thanks. but .. if i do tell him theres so many risks?.. what if he'll hate me for that? what if he thinks im jealous or something haha

[audory]

just stick by his side as a good friend. let him confide in you when that danella person backstabs him again. sooner or later he'll realize that it's all about you.



or you could just outright tell him how you feel. but, knowing myself, i wouldn't take such risks of breaking a friendship. it all depends. good luck!

[pympgangsta4real]

I'd say just calmly reply to it, telling him what's up. If he thinks you're jealous, just tell him to believe what he wants... the truth still stands when he's ready for it. Try not to sound as cruel as I just did though hah hah. If he hates you, and he finds out you're right... he'll appreciate it. Trust me, I know how a guy feels when a girl tells him something about a person they care about, it's not fun, and our first instinct says to doubt it, so there's likely to be some denial... unless he's very understanding, or very fed up with being mistreated. He sounds like me, so I'm going based off of my past experiences. Give it a try, and if something bad happens, I'll be here if you want more help... or just someone to talk to. It most likely will just take some time, so don't get too discouraged from the get go. I hope for the best!

[AsianUniQ]

There is going to be alot involved. Something I call Drama. Such an involvment would include fights, or rumors; given the obvious, your reputation perhaps should be in stake. Such selfish actions is not worth risking for.

You however, are not apart of this. If you somehow tell him, then you would immediately get pulled in. It is not really your business, so all you can do is hope as you stand at a distance to see what will happen. And my apologies for answering your question with another question, but, do you really want to risk it?

if it was me, I'd wait out. I know I see that person everyday, and I have all my changes to talk to him. Then i'd wait out. Now isn't just the time. Thers more chances. Besides, he'd prob had tons of other freinds(or if the words havent gone throught the school already) that have told him about his gf already.

[caram3l_luver]

haha uhm.. i dont no if i wanna risk it i mean.. what if in the future he finds out that i knew that she backstabbed him and i didnt tell him.. what would he think of that? haha

[caram3l_luver]

I'd say just calmly reply to it, telling him what's up. If he thinks you're jealous, just tell him to believe what he wants... the truth still stands when he's ready for it. Try not to sound as cruel as I just did though hah hah. If he hates you, and he finds out you're right... he'll appreciate it. Trust me, I know how a guy feels when a girl tells him something about a person they care about, it's not fun, and our first instinct says to doubt it, so there's likely to be some denial... unless he's very understanding, or very fed up with being mistreated. He sounds like me, so I'm going based off of my past experiences. Give it a try, and if something bad happens, I'll be here if you want more help... or just someone to talk to. It most likely will just take some time, so don't get too discouraged from the get go. I hope for the best!

awww haha thats so nice =D thanks

[pympgangsta4real]

Hah hah no problem ^_^.

[misoshiru]

There is going to be alot involved. Something I call Drama. Such an involvment would include fights, or rumors; given the obvious, your reputation perhaps should be in stake. Such selfish actions is not worth risking for.

You however, are not apart of this. If you somehow tell him, then you would immediately get pulled in. It is not really your business, so all you can do is hope as you stand at a distance to see what will happen. And my apologies for answering your question with another question, but, do you really want to risk it?

if it was me, I'd wait out. I know I see that person everyday, and I have all my changes to talk to him. Then i'd wait out. Now isn't just the time. Thers more chances. Besides, he'd prob had tons of other freinds(or if the words havent gone throught the school already) that have told him about his gf already.

that's true. if you tell him, there will definitely be a lot of drama. she/Danella would probably tell him that you're lying and it might turn out that he'll stop being friends with you. i think you should wait a while first..get to know each other better before you tell him

[_sarcastic_]

haha uhm.. i dont no if i wanna risk it i mean.. what if in the future he finds out that i knew that she backstabbed him and i didnt tell him.. what would he think of that? haha

then tell him she did or something.

[sheddingtears]

why would he still like her if she called him a b!tch and backstabbed him?

he's blind. just be a good friend and once he realized that he's chasing after the wrong girl, just be there.

[bad_girl]

u should tell him. it's for his own good anyways. it would be his problem if he didnt believe u.
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[*ilalaloveyou...]

someone is jealous! muhaha just tell him...you'de be a true friend...but then again he might think ur lying and hate...but its all in the name of love right?

peace out

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the one who knoes nothing about this sort of thing

[Shattered_Hope]

If you tell him, you risk him getting mad...meh, that's almost always the case....many people want the t r u t h but not many are r e a d y for it. However, if you don't tell him...he'll blame you for not coming c l e a n. It's a lose lose situation..but I guess you can go either ways and still like get the blow but still stand by his side....then if he's hurt in the end by her again...you'll be there to pick up the pieces....