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 Dec 12 2004, 11:44 AM
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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
err..i really need help with this onee grls! okay...so a few weeks ago i made the diving team for skool.and i was sooo thrilled.but now i dont want to do it..its just not funn anymore & my hearts not in it..i mean yah ill be letting alot of ppl down..but i just dont want to do it..i mean yah ur prob. reading this and ur like okay..why doesnt she just quit.. but we i think the hardest prob. would be telling the coach..and i dont think shell understand and i dont even no what i would say..and ill be letting the team down and my family..so i dont no what to do..pluss i already paid for like sweats and shit that costs alot of money..so now i dont no if i can get my money bak..okayy soo plzz if somebodyy could help me..i need u guys rite now! thanks
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Dec 12 2004, 11:58 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
i'm going through the same thing with cheerleading...they can't force you to stay....you need to do what you're happy with. If you're not interested anymore, then just tell the coach. You don't want to make yourself unhappy, just to please others around you.
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Dec 12 2004, 12:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
I agree with what XKali_chik_4_lifeX said...you need to think about yourself first...if you don't quit, you'll be wasting your time and doing something you don't like for a very long time.
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Dec 12 2004, 12:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,964 |
relax. it's a school team...not a life commitment. so you want to quit. then quit! it's up to you. do what you think is best. if your heart isn't set on the sport then don't do it. find a sport that you actually like.
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Dec 12 2004, 02:31 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Maybe write a note.. it's easier than doing that kind of thing in-person.
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Dec 12 2004, 04:11 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
thanks guys! any suggestions on how i should tell my coach i want out..lol
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Dec 12 2004, 04:14 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
yea its either make urself happy or make every 1 else gurl its jus a skool ting so its not ur WHOLE life gunna b on this so think about making urself happy or other ppl. i woudl quit and keep da clothes ahaha =) memories
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Dec 12 2004, 04:23 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
tell your coach (i first typed couch, lol) what you just told us.
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Dec 12 2004, 06:38 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
i guess..but im like nervous on how i would talk to her?
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Dec 12 2004, 06:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
talk to her one on one. not with the whole team surrounding you guys. and just say how you feel
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Dec 12 2004, 07:07 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
well, then its settled.
follow your heart. you guys think she wont understand.. but try and see what happens. you'd never know anyway. she might say nothing to it. |
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Dec 12 2004, 07:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
Just talk to your coach and tell her why you don't want to be on the team anymore. She should understand. My friend was in the same situation as you and she came to talk to me before she went and told the coach. After she explained everything, it turned out that it wasn't so bad. Ok, maybe everyone will be disappointed at first, but they'll eventually get over it, hopefully...good luck. =)
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Dec 12 2004, 10:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
first, let your parents know how your feeling. then tell your coach.
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Dec 12 2004, 11:40 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
hah I quit Decathalon 2 weeks ago
 that b!tch accused me of loosing a book she'd never given me  hah..my parents were ticked with her...so just tell your parents..and toi the couch just say "When I tried out, I was really happy that I msade it..but now, my heart's not in it" or something like that....good luck
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Dec 13 2004, 06:22 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
omg u guys r great.but how would i start out ..like what would my first words out of my mouth be? lol ..plzz someone help me with the run through of the hole thingg
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Dec 14 2004, 08:35 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
thanks though for the helpp...
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Dec 14 2004, 08:41 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(alli @ Dec 13 2004, 6:22 PM) omg u guys r great.but how would i start out ..like what would my first words out of my mouth be? lol ..plzz someone help me with the run through of the hole thingg "i'm like totally outtie." |
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