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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
err okay so i posted a topic about not knowing what to do about quiting my skool diving team..below is what i rote on the post..but now i dont no how to talk to the coach..where to even begin.. i mean shes not even our coach.shes the swimming coach..and shes just incharge of the diving..soo i dont no when i would be able to talk to her.. because she always leaves rite when the diving is starting their practice..should i rite an email..rite her a note telling her i need to talk to her? what..plzz help me..im soo stressed rite now wit this..thanks
topic posted b4::: err..i really need help with this onee grls! okay...so a few weeks ago i made the diving team for skool.and i was sooo thrilled.but now i dont want to do it..its just not funn anymore & my hearts not in it..i mean yah ill be letting alot of ppl down..but i just dont want to do it..i mean yah ur prob. reading this and ur like okay..why doesnt she just quit.. but we i think the hardest prob. would be telling the coach..and i dont think shell understand and i dont even no what i would say..and ill be letting the team down and my family..so i dont no what to do..pluss i already paid for like sweats and shit that costs alot of money..so now i dont no if i can get my money bak..okayy soo plzz if somebodyy could help me..i need u guys rite now! thanks |
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Dec 13 2004, 07:44 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
err.. dont re-post your topic.. just look for it and reply in it again and it should go back to the top....
but yeah.. just email her or write her a note.. or talk to her BEFORE you start diving. |
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Dec 13 2004, 07:45 PM
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 original member. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,825 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,460 |
tell your couch what you told us.
or that you have no time. as for the money, you should have consulted yourself if you really wanted to be on the team before you bought your stuff. |
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Dec 13 2004, 07:46 PM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
All ya can do is just tell her straight up. If she can't respect that, then she's not a good coach. If you don't think you can do it, say something came up, maybe a family matter, or academic goal you want to achieve. I know it's not right to lie, but if you have to, then go for it. I did the same with wrestling, and I even came second in my weight class come finals, but still... I lost interest, and that's what mattered to me. I say go for it and just tell your coach straight up.
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Dec 13 2004, 09:09 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
thanks everyone..i think i just need more ppl to reply!
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Dec 13 2004, 09:23 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Write her a note.. it's less awkward than telling her t3h stuff in-person.
Just find her desk.. office.. room thing, or just hand it to her. |
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Dec 13 2004, 09:30 PM
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 Tree Hugger Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,015 |
Sometimes, when i start something, and I don't like it in the beginning, but I stick through cuz I said I was going to go through with it. I say, if there's a competition or something, you should go. And stick it through. Next year, you can quit if you still want to. But this year, if you said you were going to do it, then you should live up to your word. People will respect you for it.
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Dec 14 2004, 04:58 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
you should email her. or if you really want to talk to her, then you should go to her house????? and that's sad on what happened that you already paid everything!! wooo that's sad. a difficult thing. well if you love your family, dont hurt your family for goodness sake!! well i think you should talk with your family first and ask them what's really best for you and your life. and say like "what ifs i quit?"
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Dec 14 2004, 06:53 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
thankss guys im goin to talk to the coach tom..any last min. advice post now! thanks a bunch though!
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Dec 14 2004, 06:56 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
like when i would talk to her..how would i even start? what would be the first words out of my mouth? thanks..
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Dec 14 2004, 07:44 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
QUOTE(Mireh @ Dec 13 2004, 7:45 PM) tell your couch what you told us. or that you have no time. as for the money, you should have consulted yourself if you really wanted to be on the team before you bought your stuff. couch. haha.  anyways I pretty much agree........... Just say this "I want to quite the team" --she'll say why and stuff-- "My hearts not ni it anymore. It not fun and I'm getting really stressed out." --are you sure we can;t do anything about it? -- "No, I need to quit" --Bye then!--- "see ya sucka" |
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Dec 14 2004, 08:35 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
yah i guess..but how would i even start..what would be the first words out of my mouth?
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