If the answer is no...., is it really no forever? |
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 Dec 13 2004, 10:11 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out....  Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044  |
After a break up, I have asked after I was dumped, if we would ever be able to get together again. And each time I hae asked that, (2 out of my 3 relationships) I was told no. Is no really forever? Is there ever any chance for a reconciliation? I mean, i have been told no, then maybe, then no, then perhaps. Can it really happen? Truely? I have heard of it in movies and sch, but how reliable is that? Is it really possible?
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Dec 13 2004, 10:29 PM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
I most definetly try again... all the girls I've been with have told me they regret dumping me... and most have had their crisis' after dumping me. One had her dad die and her next boyfriend cheat on her horribly... but I always have tried to show them the mistake of dumping me and breaking my heart... and if I sound concieted I apologize, that's not my aim. Really if it's love... no is never forever. Forever to most people these days is anywhere from a month to a year or so... it all depends on the individual. It's really up to you what to do, and remember, there's no right and wrong to your decision. Good luck.
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Dec 13 2004, 11:06 PM
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There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(pympgangsta4real @ Dec 13 2004, 10:29 PM) It's really up to you what to do, and remember, there's no right and wrong to your decision. Good luck. yeah, I believe that. I mean, I still feel like if I can show her that I still care, and that I am trying to be the very best person I can, maybe she will think twice, and take me back. You know? |
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Dec 13 2004, 11:09 PM
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I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
Hah hah you think like me. Just be careful. I got my heart broken twice by the girls I kept striving for rather than just once a person. Get a friend you trust very well to watch your back, and keep you from destroying yourself, as a sort of a lifeline, otherwise you might cross the fine line and it's not a pretty picture after
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Dec 13 2004, 11:33 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
I would try again... For as long as i have feelings for a person i will always try my hardest to get back with that person. People come and go, but love often times stay
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Dec 13 2004, 11:36 PM
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I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
Two claps. *clap clap*. Cheers, you guys're great, and we all deserve wonderful ladies hah hah. Anyone interested?
    .*cricket cricket* ANYONE?!?!? Hah hah just playin'.
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Dec 14 2004, 08:53 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
their is nothing wrong to take another chance and might work out just fine. They say that love is Sweeter in the 2nd time around.
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Dec 14 2004, 06:05 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
of course it is still possible. I mean there is always room for a second chance. It is never forever.
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Dec 14 2004, 08:23 PM
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There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Dec 14 2004, 6:05 PM) of course it is still possible. I mean there is always room for a second chance. It is never forever.  Thats REALLY good to hear.
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Dec 14 2004, 08:52 PM
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Nothing is ever forever.
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Dec 14 2004, 08:55 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
Depends, why did you break up? If you were my boyfriend and you cheated on me with my best friend and then we broke up and you tried to get back together with me, NO would be my answer forever. Well, then again, maybe not forever. That's an awfully long time. All girls are different, some stay firm on their decisions while some flip flop..like john kerry
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Dec 14 2004, 09:25 PM
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There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(cleec @ Dec 14 2004, 8:55 PM) Depends, why did you break up? If you were my boyfriend and you cheated on me with my best friend and then we broke up and you tried to get back together with me, NO would be my answer forever. Well, then again, maybe not forever. That's an awfully long time. All girls are different, some stay firm on their decisions while some flip flop..like john kerry Well, i really dont know why. I mean, each time it was just out of the blue: 'Jesse, I'm dumping you."  I mean, just as blunt as that. I would never ever cheat, becuase thats low, lower than low. I shall try and say this in a modest way, but I really dont think it was my fault that my relationships came to an end. I guess they all just got tired of me.... I really dont know.
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Dec 14 2004, 11:05 PM
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it depends on how much i luved that person..if i luved him reeeli much than it would probably be a yes....if i was ju playing around with someones <3..that obviously...a no
 haha yes i am mean
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Dec 15 2004, 01:44 AM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
Given a time and place, things happen for a reason, and those reasons govern how you feel about things. So it depends how the person felt at the moment. Such as when you break up. So for what ever reason, and depends on how that person felt at that time and moment, chances are if you ask again , it would be a no. You see the key here, its time.
So jsut give that person some time. And then give it a try later. It would help tho if I know the story. |
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Dec 15 2004, 09:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
No...it doesn't mean forever.
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Dec 16 2004, 06:27 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
no doesn't mean forever...thats def a given. Ppl's feelings change alot. My dad proposed to my mom like 10 times before she said yes. Course now they're divorced...go figure
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Dec 16 2004, 06:34 PM
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There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Dec 16 2004, 6:27 AM) My dad proposed to my mom like 10 times before she said yes. Course now they're divorced...go figure damn...
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Dec 18 2004, 02:56 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Eh..
Probably not no forever.. >_> I don't know, it's best to move on. |
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Dec 18 2004, 04:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,498 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,711 |
cha probably not forever.
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Dec 19 2004, 12:06 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
If I really liked the person, then maybe I'd try again. Maybe you should ask her why.
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Dec 19 2004, 01:29 AM
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There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(sheddingtears @ Dec 19 2004, 12:06 AM) If I really liked the person, then maybe I'd try again. Maybe you should ask her why. I did. She didn't really give me a straight answer, but the impression I really got was she just found someone maybe cuter or more popular or whatever, so I wasn't really important anymore. She still maintains we should be friends, but.... if I wanted to just be friends, I wouldnt have taken it so far. Besides, it's always there at the back of my mind: "I think she just got tired of me"  I really dont know, becuase she just won't tell me.
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Dec 20 2004, 10:16 PM
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 Love hates me Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,805 |
i dont think so...its not ALWAYS forever....and forever is a long time....so you cant really count on it. Besides people change their minds. BUT, if it didnt work the first time what makes you think it'll work the second time? or the third? Sometimes you gotta think about WHY things didnt work out and is it really worth it to try and get back together, risking another break up?
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Dec 21 2004, 08:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 775 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,754 |
i think it would depend on the relationship and the people and why they even broke up in the first place.
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Dec 22 2004, 12:56 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Sometimes...if the couple was really close, then
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Dec 22 2004, 11:43 PM
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There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Dec 22 2004, 12:56 AM) Meh, but the risk is sometimes not worth taking. When it comes to her, and I, if it means I could be with her again, I would definetly take the chance. Definetly. |
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