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 Dec 13 2004, 12:44 AM
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 Mrs M.  Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,136  |
If she is, don't run away from realilty. And don't abort. It's not right.
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Dec 13 2004, 01:54 AM
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 Pfft, your mom. Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,358 |
Like many other have said- If she is, don't run away from her. Accept it and be willing to help. It takes two to do the deed. Remember that. Now what you do from here on out (if she is pregnant) is up to you. But be ready to deal with the consequences of whatever action you take.
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Dec 13 2004, 08:02 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
assuming that she's pregnant, stay by her side and support her. it's your 'accident' so you've got to take responsiblity for it.
don't abort, the baby has a right to live. depending on how old you guys are, you might want to give your child up for adoption, it's better for the child to grow up in a strong enviroment. besides, you still want to have some sort of a life, don't you? it'll probably be really hard, emotionally, to give it up for adoption, but consider it. there are plenty of loving families waiting for a family. once again, this all depends on how old you are, and if she is actually pregnant. |
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Dec 13 2004, 08:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
see, another example of think before you act, you can't really do anything now, just wait and see
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Dec 13 2004, 08:11 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(BoogythatBe @ Dec 13 2004, 1:54 AM) Like many other have said- If she is, don't run away from her. Accept it and be willing to help. It takes two to do the deed. Remember that. Now what you do from here on out (if she is pregnant) is up to you. But be ready to deal with the consequences of whatever action you take. It takes two to do the deed, but only one to take the consequences. |
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Dec 13 2004, 09:58 PM
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Forget part of my second post. Forget what most of these people are telling you. It should be yours and your gf's choice whether you have an abortion or not, not theirs. Some say it's not fair to the baby, even though the baby is not living technically. I personally wouldn't want to grow up knowing I was an accident, a tear in a condom, and my mother is barely older than me. But hey, it's your choice, and your girlfriend's choice, and your two's only.
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