my mother doesnt give me any privacy!!! |
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 Dec 10 2004, 08:36 PM
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i got in an argument with my mom today about privacy. all i said was "can u develope my pictures today? please dont open it b4 giving it to me". i mean, shes done that b4 and i feel like shes trying to catch me doing something wrong or she doesnt trust me. so she brought out all this "what wrong with me looking at them. not like u have anything to hide from me". so we start going at it and she doesnt seem to understand that its not that i have anything to hide from her, but thats how she makes me feel. as if i AM hiding something from her. honestly, who liked it when their parents go through their things like they're looking for something. ugh, its driving me nuts.
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Dec 10 2004, 08:47 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
3 words: She's your mother.
Think about it. |
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Dec 10 2004, 09:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,630 |
so does that make it right for her to always doubt me and not trust me?
am i supposed to b ok with her intruding my privacy? |
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Dec 10 2004, 09:15 PM
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 whatever d00de Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
that's what i asked my mom and i didn't trust her so i got my friend to develop my pictures. my mom don't trust me that much i guess..
she don't respect my privacy either..err..i need to talk to her...but you could try explaining it to her by saying "oh you were young once and you wanted privacy.." and stuff like that |
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Dec 10 2004, 09:18 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Pass protect all your stuff.
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Dec 11 2004, 01:53 AM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
I know what you mean by mothers... at least yours isn't a psychologist. I don't even have any privacy in my own damned brain! Hah hah, well anyway, that's how moms are. The best way is to just let it be and prove that you don't need the privacy, and don't let her know that it bothers you that she hunts through your things. It's like the bully syndrome lol, just ignore the problem and it fades away.
Oh, and might I suggest a digital camera? 
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Dec 11 2004, 12:31 PM
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Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
QUOTE(HaN4RaNg @ Dec 10 2004, 9:01 PM) so does that make it right for her to always doubt me and not trust me? am i supposed to b ok with her intruding my privacy? And.. how old are you again? |
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Dec 11 2004, 12:51 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i haaaate that. my mom reads my xanga when i leave it open and she reads all my conversations that i leave open. i can catch her doing it cause on my away messages i put "hide all messages", and when i come back, that's deselected and scrolled down to stuff i haven't read yet. uggggh.
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Dec 11 2004, 12:55 PM
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whatever d00de Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
QUOTE(Vaguely Aware @ Dec 11 2004, 12:51 PM) i haaaate that. my mom reads my xanga when i leave it open and she reads all my conversations that i leave open. i can catch her doing it cause on my away messages i put "hide all messages", and when i come back, that's deselected and scrolled down to stuff i haven't read yet. uggggh. my mom does that too. And today i found out she took my money. I put 30 dollars in my drawer on wednesday and yesterday i found my clothes in the drawer messed up. And 2 mins ago i called my mom at work and she said yea i took the money. I'm all like can't i have any privacy now and she said we'll talk about it when she got home..i can't wait till she gets home 
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