Alone, Why do i feel this way? Options

[TreesTurnMeOn]

Okay..I just broke up with my boyfriend that cheated on me because I just didn't feel the same and everytime i saw him I cried. Yet I still feel and emptiness inside of me, like a never ending pit and it can't be filled until I feel his love again. i am the one who broke up with him so why am I supposed to feel like this? I want it to go away. And it's weird because I used to be depressed and he brought me out of it and back onto my feet again, and it feels like he just dropped me on my ass and back I plunge into the never ending darkeness again. How am I supposed to get rid of this feeling?

[yeseulx3]

i think that you made the right decision...
the guy cheated on you, for god's sakes.
but right now, i think that what you miss is the idea of being around him, and him being with you.
i'm sure you will find someone else that'll put you back up on your feet again.
good luck...
hopefully you'll get over it, and you will soon find something or someone else that will make you happy again.

[ApocalypseAelis]

Find someone else to pull you out of your darkness. He's not the only one capable of doing so.

Hope you feel better soon...

[misoka]

You'll find someone. If you've had the chance in being with someone and sharing that happiness and love together, you'll find something far better than this...someone who won't leave you for someone else. Remember that.

[B1onde_1ns1de]

i kinda feel like that too..but he broke up w/ me so i duno..but it must b just as hard cuz he cheated and stuff..

[lovescream]

Agreed.
You made the correct decision.
You feel empty probably because deep down you feel guilty about dumping him after what he did for you, and what you did for him.
^^; you'll recover.
You're better off without boyfriends.. you should appreciate single-ness as long as you can.

[pympgangsta4real]

I don't know... I kinda agree and also don't agree. I believe in second chances... sometimes even thirds if the situation is right, and I don't mean I'll be cheated on twice, oh hell no... but I mean if you two really loved each other, then maybe you should have worked through it, as I did once, but on the flipside, if he really loved you, then he would never have cheated on you. That... and being a guy, I know how they think. Well most of 'em anyway... "Quantity over quality" minded. Idiots I swear... hah hah anyway, I can't really say whether you did the right thing or not. Only time will tell. I hope ya feel better though, I know what the heartbreak of that situation is. If you want someone ta talk to, my AIM's archangelptx, drop in whenever. Take it easy, ya hear?

[*Azarel*]

You gotta learn to rely on yourself and live for yourself before you get into another relationship. -_-;