wtf s wrong about being a COMPLETE virgin? |
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 Nov 9 2004, 10:43 PM
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 durian  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860  |
It's better that you are a "complete virgin" as you migh put it. That means whoever is special and lucky enough to be your first boyfriend and get your first kiss, then he'll be the perfect guy for you (hopefully). Wait, how old are you? 15 or 16? Anyway, I think it's great that you saved your first kiss. There's alot of people I know that have dated when they were in middle school, especially when they were only 12-13. At that time, everyone went on a dating spree and went out with others and had those 1-week relationship things. I can't have those; I've only been in 2 other relationships besides the one I'm in now and the shortest was 1.5 months.
I respect you because you don't care about wanting a boyfriend right now because you do have your whole life to find a significant other. I wish I had saved my first kiss because I regret wasting it.. Every day, I regret wasting it. 
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Nov 25 2004, 12:00 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
i think theres plainly nothing wrong with being a virgin....everybody's unique and has different beliefs...your friends are semi-caca heads :D
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Nov 25 2004, 12:08 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
There's nothing wrong about it.
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Nov 25 2004, 01:03 AM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Nov 4 2004, 8:50 PM) Nothings wrong with being a virgin. Maybe they`re just surprised that since you`re pretty, and a cheerleader, they figured that you shud have had a boyfriend and done stuff*shrugs*. But there is a lot of stuff wrong with being female.  i agree completely. looking at your pics, i would have thought you would have had a bf before but i guess looks REALLY CAN be deceiving. theres nothing wrong with being a virgin |
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Nov 25 2004, 01:35 AM
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QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Nov 4 2004, 7:05 PM) i mean.. am i seriuosly a loser now just cuz i am the way i am? no you're not, be proud of your virginity becuase so many people these days have lost it, i mean thats great you have morals and stuff...so no your not a loser for that  <~ you deserver those
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Nov 25 2004, 03:52 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
there's nothing wrong with. as using the way you use it, i'm a "complete" virgin too and so are many of my friends. and i'm a junior in highschool too.
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Nov 25 2004, 10:24 AM
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I don't see anything wrong with it, because I too am a complete virgin.
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Nov 25 2004, 05:16 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
theres nothing wrong with u , its just that ur frds doesnt know u dat well . dat makes up a big deal dat u hadnt had a bf yet . its not ur fault . =)
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Nov 26 2004, 12:28 PM
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 dream* Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,061 |
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Nov 26 2004, 12:34 PM
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 ApunBindaas Group: Member Posts: 221 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,464 |
Nothing is wrong. I give you more props for that. It's just that people like to talk and you just happen to be the victim.
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Nov 26 2004, 01:23 PM
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QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Nov 4 2004, 7:01 PM) don't let anyone make you think you're less of a person for protecting yourself. you have self-respect which is so much better than any acceptance to some rediculous fad. don't let them get to you. Yes, I agree. You're just trying to protect yourself, and you probably wouldn't want to take things too fast. Do what you want to do, not what others are doing. |
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Nov 26 2004, 01:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
There's nothing wrong, i don't think. You'll have a boyfriend when your ready, and when you find someone who cares about you. Don't let them get to you. You don't have to do anything with a guy to be heard or cool.
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Nov 26 2004, 01:45 PM
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 Save a guitar, bang a guitarist. Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,916 |
There's nothing wrong with being a complete virgin, but there comes a time when you **should** have a boyfriend. I mean if you're like 15-16-17etc...its kind of abnormal, but thats your choice. I mean you can always have a bf but not have sex with them....which would make you still a virgin..totally up to you though. And, btw, getting an STI or STD is very slim..unless that person has one first and mono...is very unlikely....
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Dec 7 2004, 08:22 PM
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there's nothing wrong with it, it's just society is changing.
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Dec 8 2004, 12:57 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
so what exactly is mono?
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Dec 8 2004, 01:18 PM
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QUOTE(177emories @ Dec 8 2004, 12:57 PM) so what exactly is mono? Mononucleosis (often called "mono") is an infection caused by the Epstein-Barr virus. Signs of mono include fever, sore throat, headaches, white patches on the back of your throat, swollen glands in your neck, feeling tired and not feeling hungry. Sometimes. The main serious concern with mono is that the spleen will enlarge and even rupture (tear open). The spleen is like a large gland. It's located in the upper part of your abdomen on the left side. It has functions that relate to your blood. Although a ruptured spleen is rare in people with mono, it's wise to be aware of the signs and call your doctor right away if you notice any of them. Signs of a ruptured spleen include pain in the left upper part of your abdomen (under the left chest), feeling lightheaded, feeling like your heart is beating fast and hard, bleeding more easily than usual and having trouble breathing. ------------------------------------------ So yeah. I hope that helped. |
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Dec 8 2004, 02:05 PM
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No, I'm actually really glad to hear that there are others out there like me. I plan on staying a virgin until marriage, and that is no reason to look down on someone. If they will treat you differently because you are a virgin, then they are not real friends at all. Pardon me, but that is immature and retarded of them.
Ok I'll shut up now. But you rock, keep it up girl!! Ta. |
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Dec 8 2004, 07:00 PM
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no ur not a loserr and sometimes its a good thing that you havent had a first boyfriend or your first kiss yet cuz you can save something like that for someone you really like, so later on in life when you reflect you can tell ur kids or ur friends that your first boyfriend or your first kiss meant something important to u cuz he was special and set an example for them.
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Dec 8 2004, 07:21 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
ok theres nothing wrong with that at all....
not being a virgin is wats wrong! just cause theres like more girls who arent virgins then there are virgins doesnt mean its supposed to be bad for the virgins.. im a virgin and im proud of it. |
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Dec 8 2004, 08:34 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
dont rush into things!
n ps, u dont only get mono from kissin! i got it n i had kissed ne1 in that time period. but it sux. n they arent good friends if they treat u like that! |
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Dec 8 2004, 08:41 PM
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 my <3 is in Ohio Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599 |
ur not weird! ur normal actually. you'll get a boyfriend when you find a guy who you really care about and he cares about you back. and bsides it's ur decision not ur friends.
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Dec 8 2004, 09:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,498 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,711 |
nothing being a complete virgin. im a complete virgin *high fives*
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Dec 9 2004, 01:01 AM
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 Gackt owns you. Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,953 |
QUOTE Tell them, "At least, I won't end up being pregnant with a man who'll leave me and end up not going to college and living in some beat up trailer because my moma disowned me and won't let me back in the house." that's true right there.. i mean ... me too.. few guys have been asking my phone numbers and i kinda threw some harsh phrases on them like "I DON'T HAVE A PHONE NUMBER..WE GOT DISCONNECTED" to get them out of my way.. and also i didn't like them.. and also.. that happened to me .. my friend was so -->  but then.. she said.. "that's okay" and said "you don't want to end up with a man who'll leave you pregnant and stuff.. not finishing ur education and live in a ghetto trailer for life and ur children's gonna do the same thing as you did.." and i felt really relieved..  kind of like the quote from above! 
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Dec 9 2004, 11:37 AM
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 Mrs M. Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,136 |
You're no loser, i think your friends who stared at you like that O.O have more advantage of being the losers. :)
uhh..Did that help? |
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Dec 9 2004, 12:49 PM
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QUOTE(oO_BrItTiShBaBe_Oo @ Dec 8 2004, 2:05 PM) No, I'm actually really glad to hear that there are others out there like me. I plan on staying a virgin until marriage, and that is no reason to look down on someone. If they will treat you differently because you are a virgin, then they are not real friends at all. Pardon me, but that is immature and retarded of them. Ok I'll shut up now. But you rock, keep it up girl!! Ta. heck yes. you rock I am also waiting til marriage. |
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