love&infatuation |
 Oct 21 2004, 09:22 PM
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 dizzy me up.  Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139  |
how do you tell the difference?
or whats the difference? yes i know.. its very different.. but how do you even know when your in love or its just infatuation? |
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Dec 6 2004, 12:02 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,840 |
infatuation= seeing only the OUTSIDE of a person
LOVE=seeing only the INSIDE of a person  does dat make sense??
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Dec 6 2004, 10:46 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
i've never really been in love. but here's how i would portray it:
infatuation: a minor form of love. there's the butterflies, the heart skipping a beat, all that glitter and shine. but chances are, you won't be in 'love' with this person for your entire life. love: this begins w/ an infatuation but grows to become much, much more. it's a feeling that can't really be told.. it's an experience thing i guess. and you'd do anything for the person you loved. 
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Dec 6 2004, 10:59 PM
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 a dorkie lil gurl Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,392 |
love- eternally loving, caring, being with that someone.
infatuation- admiring them from a distance, no actions, fades away. |
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Dec 8 2004, 09:07 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Oct 21 2004, 11:19 PM) In infatuation you have feelings for them, thats it. In love..you have feelings for them, and they share the same feelings back with the same strength and passion that you do. Why would YOUR feelings towards someone else be dictated by THEIR feelings towards you? That's illogical. |
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Dec 8 2004, 09:20 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Love - When you really care for that person, and you know you'll always be there for them no matter what.
Infatuation - "Whoa, he's hot." |
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Apr 23 2007, 06:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 138 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,625 |
Love is when your heart skips a beat when you see them. When they leave, you smile to yourself and think of every moment you spent with them. When you want to spend every minute with them until you're sick of it. Love is when you want them to know you like them but you pretend you're trying to hide it when you're not. When you want them to find out themself. Its when you like them to say I'll wrap myself up as a present and give myself to you. Or when you want them to say here, you can have my house key. When you want to stand ontop of a building and say You love them. When you want to jump of a building to show what you'd do for them.
Infatuation is just when you like being in a relatioship because of the feeling, not the person. |
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Jul 21 2007, 08:05 PM
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 I love my babyboy Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,367 |
QUOTE(teenprincess @ Oct 21 2004, 10:25 PM)  I think that if you're in love than you'll just know it. Of course I would have no clue cause i've never been in love  But that's what i hearNo that's lust lol |
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Jul 21 2007, 08:07 PM
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I love my babyboy Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,367 |
QUOTE(simplyannoy @ Dec 6 2004, 11:59 PM) love- eternally loving, caring, being with that someone. infatuation- admiring them from a distance, no actions, fades away. Well I believe that you can't be in love by yourself. It needs more than one person. However else you look at that, and it's absolutely pitiful to love someone and not have them love you back. I should know. |
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Jul 22 2007, 03:20 AM
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 BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
um im not sure.. but umm infatuation is cool too
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Jul 22 2007, 03:21 AM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(ai suck pwet @ Dec 6 2004, 01:02 PM) infatuation= seeing only the OUTSIDE of a person LOVE=seeing only the INSIDE of a person does dat make sense??haha inside lol cute but people can look at it differently:P |
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Jul 22 2007, 03:35 PM
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=) Group: Member Posts: 335 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 535,989 |
hmm love is actually a true feeling . infactuation is like a really big big big crush on someone . hard to explain .
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Jul 22 2007, 09:16 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
If you've never been in love then you can't really answer, and even if you have (and I have) its still pretty hard to explain. Love is when you realize the other person isn't perfect, but its those imperfections that make them who they are, and lets face it, you love who they are. You see them in a way no one else does, and you understand them in a way no one else does either. It's when you've found the one person you really would do ANYthing for, and oftentimes your own self interest takes a back seat, and you want to do what's best for them. You are willing to sacrifice things like your own happiness if it makes them happy, but it never comes to that because they want to make you happy too (this does take two people, yes)and feel the same things about you. Love changes your whole life, and makes you want to better yourself and just be a better person. I could go all day like this but I think I'll stop
 I'm pretty sure, though, we all know infatuation is a lot different than that. It's of course not NEARLY as strong. |
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