When a guy..., is he using you? |
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 Dec 4 2004, 10:08 PM
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Ok so my boyfriend broke up with me for another chick and he says that I was obsessed with him and all and he wasn't in "TRUE" love with me how should I react? And the day before he moved he invited me over to his house and we like made out and stuff and then he took me home and then we went over to his girlfriends house....was he just using me for like what I give him?
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Dec 4 2004, 10:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,520 |
ANYONE?
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Dec 4 2004, 10:31 PM
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omg, WHAT? u knew he dumped u for another girl, and yet u went over to his place to make out with him? if thats the case, u shouldnt have done anything with him at all. uhh, i dont xactly know what ur question is, but if i was in ur situation, i would have given him some attitude when he tried to make a move on me. get smart with him and remind him that we're not together anymore and he has a gf. but now since he's moved, what can u do about it?
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Dec 4 2004, 10:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,520 |
Well actually it was more like i went over to his house and made out with him and then he broke up with me. I was like so confused. But I can do alot about it now he's moved because he still comes into town to see his girlfriend or whatever she is to him
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Dec 4 2004, 10:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,630 |
oh, then i think he wanted a last make out session with u b4 breaking it off.
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Dec 4 2004, 10:41 PM
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THATS JUST, JUST.....STUPID! Don't ya think?
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Dec 4 2004, 10:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 239 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,630 |
with that "its not true love" xcuse, he sounds pretty dumb/immature. hes trying to make himself look like a good guy in the relationship when he knows his reason for breaking up is because of another chick. i know i shouldnt b jumping to such a conclusion, but with what hes given u, i dont see any reason not to. good luck with him and watever u decide to do. =]
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Dec 4 2004, 10:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,520 |
Yeah, thankyou. By the way, I was just posting here because I wanted to see if everyone was right so...yeah.
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Dec 4 2004, 10:55 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
wait... so you made out with him after he broke up with you?
if that's the case, then you'd be the stupid one. but if he dumped you after the "makeout session", then... ... he's an ass. kill him. |
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Dec 4 2004, 10:57 PM
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it was we made out and then he broke up with me. But now that he has a new girlfriend he's been really depressed, and she controls who he talks to and she dosen't like him talking to me because she thinks that I might steal him back. But my question right now is....should i tell him his girlfriend is too controlling even if its gonna hurt him or he's not gonna care what I say?
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Dec 4 2004, 11:01 PM
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Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
QUOTE(caity_bug2005 @ Dec 4 2004, 10:57 PM) it was we made out and then he broke up with me. But now that he has a new girlfriend he's been really depressed, and she controls who he talks to and she dosen't like him talking to me because she thinks that I might steal him back. But my question right now is....should i tell him his girlfriend is too controlling even if its gonna hurt him or he's not gonna care what I say? NO NO DONT TELL HIM NO NO. ... let him get hurt. men deserve it. you should lay back, relax, and enjoy yourself. word up? |
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Dec 4 2004, 11:03 PM
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Ok but...the thing is ok, he's like changed for her and everything and it's getting to be bull! He's a gothic and she's Catholic and she forces him to go to church with her. Should she be able to do that? I mean if a guy forced me to do something I didn't want to, f**k him! And I don't want to see him hurt because he's like kinda my friend now, it's like an on and off thing
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Dec 4 2004, 11:04 PM
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Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
QUOTE(caity_bug2005 @ Dec 4 2004, 11:03 PM) Ok but...the thing is ok, he's like changed for her and everything and it's getting to be bull! He's a gothic and she's Catholic and she forces him to go to church with her. Should she be able to do that? I mean if a guy forced me to do something I didn't want to, f**k him! And I don't want to see him hurt because he's like kinda my friend now, it's like an on and off thing ... ok? do whatever you want, then. someone should close this now... |
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Dec 4 2004, 11:12 PM
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I'd slap that immature a-hole for being such a goddamned jerk. ('Scuse the language!)
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Dec 4 2004, 11:13 PM
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It's Ok bout the language. I just...hate being hurt and he's always like well why do you still care bout me and stuff? But I dunno why I still care, I'm like that with everyone actually so....yeah. I know I probably sound pathetic saying all this crap but....its true. Lol
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Dec 4 2004, 11:16 PM
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 iMmA reAl gUrL Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,191 |
i personnally think he just wants to be friends with you...
dont worry youll find the perfect guy soon and someday.... DONT BE HATIN |
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Dec 4 2004, 11:18 PM
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But i mean we were going out for 9 1/2 months and he like proposed to me and everything, and he said that he would always love me and he still says he loves me just not like that. So, i dont know what to think or say when he says these things? Especially about the proposing thing. That kinda thing is serious.
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Dec 4 2004, 11:48 PM
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iMmA reAl gUrL Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,191 |
like i said before maybe he just wants to be friendz....
hez not usin you so dont think he is... if you know him a lot you would probably know what kinda guy he is but youll meet the perfect guy someday... hez not the only person you like is he? |
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Dec 5 2004, 03:23 AM
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puffy clouds in my head Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,074 |
he is muy stupid.......... i think he was playing a game n chose da wrong grl to go out w. ........ im sry bout wat happened to u
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Dec 5 2004, 11:05 AM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
too bad you can't dump him first.
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Dec 5 2004, 11:30 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE But i mean we were going out for 9 1/2 months and he like proposed to me and everything, and he said that he would always love me and he still says he loves me just not like that. So, i dont know what to think or say when he says these things? Especially about the proposing thing. That kinda thing is serious. and ur how old exactly? if u r in the teens, then its all BS. I learned that the hard way. kinda seemed like he had feelings for u but then it kinda dissolved? I was like in the sam situation as u but except that last make out thing. I dont think he was using you. He probably just grew apart from u -edit- i just saw ur profile and it says ur like 14 or something. comeon now FOURTEEN!!! stop being naiive cause it will just bring u down more when u believe Bulls*it like this. gettin married at 14..thats funny.. QUOTE It's Ok bout the language. I just...hate being hurt and he's always like well why do you still care bout me and stuff? But I dunno why I still care, I'm like that with everyone actually so....yeah. I know I probably sound pathetic saying all this crap but....its true. Lol I guess it might be true now but later on, u probably will realize that it isnt. give urself time and find another guy who cares for you. he aint worth ur time NE more. |
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Dec 5 2004, 12:53 PM
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rueyaroo Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,776 |
yes.........
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