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 Nov 30 2004, 08:23 PM
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 hi!  Group: Member Posts: 483 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,363  |
Talk to him to see what is wrong. But if he does hit you or abuse you again end it....
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Nov 30 2004, 08:51 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
get him some help! an anger management class is good. talk to him how you feel too. if he really does love you he would think of what he was doing... and thought of you first, but instead he took action before thinking. but hey, it might be better to leave him...
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Nov 30 2004, 08:53 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
http://www.scarleteen.com/crisis/articles.html
(ooh, i'm advertising) but really, i suggest you read some of the articles there. it's a great site. |
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Nov 30 2004, 09:25 PM
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 [.:Wolf's Rain:.] Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,407 |
You sure this guy doesnt have any metal problems??? Not trying to be mean but my brother is bipolar and he beat his girlfriend ad possibley even raped her too...
Get outta the situation before he kills you! It may sound harsh but someone like that could do serious damage!!! |
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Dec 2 2004, 05:29 PM
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QUOTE I'm still kind of confused. Every time he hits me, and I begin to cry, he puts his head in his hands and gets all depressed and sad. I don't know if it's an act or what?? Maybe he just can't control himself. maybe he has all this anger and he aciddently takes it out on you. and after he sees you crying, he realizes what he's doing and such. i still agree with what i said earlier. you need to talk to him. but make sure someone's next to you just incase he decides to absuse you again. |
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Dec 2 2004, 05:44 PM
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Leave him.
Now. I've been there, done that. If you don't leave now it WILL get worse. I'm sorry to see it happen to someone else. Good luck to you. |
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Dec 3 2004, 03:51 PM
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you need to break it off with him now! if he loves you, he wouldn't hurt you like this, what if he ends up killing you? think about it. listen, there's other guys out there. you shouldn't be with him just b/c you've gone out with him for such a logn time. but seriously, END IT. and he needs help.
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Dec 3 2004, 04:17 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
this relationship is not worth it... read this book: dreamland by: sarah dessen.
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Dec 3 2004, 06:57 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
what will happen if he gets really angry and....well....(i dont wanna freak you out or anythingy but...) kills you, i mean if he can hit you now and you go back maybe he would try more and more stuff just cuz he can get away with it, but i dunno just be careful and dont be alone with him (easier said than done but still) just try
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Dec 3 2004, 09:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,855 |
QUOTE(jooleeah @ Dec 2 2004, 5:29 PM) Maybe he just can't control himself. maybe he has all this anger and he aciddently takes it out on you. and after he sees you crying, he realizes what he's doing and such. i still agree with what i said earlier. you need to talk to him. but make sure someone's next to you just incase he decides to absuse you again. thats horrible advice we just had this in lecture yesterday in my Soc 350: Soc of marraige and family class ABUSE DOES NOT STOP! it is chronic, not a 1 time thing he WONT change, he WILL still get mad and abuse you he NEED help and JAIL TIME I have been a firefighter and EMT for starting my 5th year now, and every abuse case I see I see again...it is NOT a 1 time thing |
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Dec 3 2004, 10:51 PM
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I would end it. Your friends and ur parents don't want 2 c u beaten up lyke taht. health comes before luv. I don't think he'll change. people's personalitiy are very hard 2 change. Trust me on this one.
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Dec 3 2004, 11:13 PM
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I seriously think you should end it even though he says sorry and everything....do you really want to continue to get hurt all the time? I'm sure you can do better than that. =/
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Dec 3 2004, 11:52 PM
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end it now.
doenst matter if he regrets it after or cries about it and begs for his forgiveness. he still did it. |
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Dec 4 2004, 12:03 AM
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I think you need to get out of there, girlfriend. And fast! Your parents are already worried about your injuries, how do you think they will feel when he, God forbid, knocks you into a coma, or kills you? Tell your parents about it, tell someone you trust, call 911, do something! Just because he regrets his actions doesn't make it ok.
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Dec 4 2004, 12:05 AM
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 ferrero rocher<3 Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,255 |
ew ... wth is wrong with him. report him
 if i ever met him i would take a bat & beat him down .. then kick him in the balls and skip away. no offense if you love him and all, but he deserves it  there are other fish in the sea. leave him asap. no one wants to learn that you were seriously injured 
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Dec 4 2004, 12:25 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
hm...talk to him about it first...but if he does it one more time after you talk to him..end it I'd end it right now..but..since you "love" him...talk to him......for your own good
good luck
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Dec 4 2004, 12:29 AM
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beat the shit out of himm ...wat the f.cuk u doing just taking all this!?? o_O
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Dec 4 2004, 12:36 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
END IT...NOW
he might get all depressed and what not AFTER he hits you, but that doesnt take away a broken arm and a bruised cheek. he is messed up. get him counseling. he was probably abused as a child or something, and now he's taking it out on you. get away from him. and tell him to get some help. but mainly get away from him |
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Dec 4 2004, 01:03 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
 wow... you really shouldn't take that from him. i dont see how he could to that to you if he loves you... maybe it's cuz from being in the army's affected him? either talk with him about it, go to counceling (kind of drastic but still) or just let him go... you could get even more hurt
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Dec 4 2004, 05:28 AM
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i wish goddamnit, we'll make it if you believe. Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,650 |
Doesn't he have enough violence in his life already from the damn military?
But anyways.. end it ASAP. If he really wants to be with you, then he wouldn't hit you and he wouldn't rape you. You need to call the police and get his ass in jail.. and if/when you break up with him, have someone with you in case he gets violent and tries to hurt you. I'd also suggest getting a restraining order against him. Good luck |
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Dec 30 2004, 05:45 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
QUOTE beat the shit out of himm ...wat the f.cuk u doing just taking all this!?? o_O He's a really big muscular guy...He could kill me if he wanted to... 
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Dec 30 2004, 05:58 PM
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 i`M N0T A TEASE; JUST A REMiNDER 0F WUT U CAN`T HAVE!! Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,700 |
i think he loves you, seriously, like loves you deep down inside. but he really needs help. if you love him and are willing to stand by him, then maybe you should help him.. like counseling or something..
btw, no one should be abusive towards you. take action now, cuz it mite get worse. |
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Dec 30 2004, 06:00 PM
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i`M N0T A TEASE; JUST A REMiNDER 0F WUT U CAN`T HAVE!! Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,700 |
o yea, and i think you should tell your parents. SOMEONE needs to know.
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Dec 30 2004, 06:03 PM
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 BANNED Group: Member Posts: 2,419 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,387 |
1. He might be bipolar.
2. I know you love him but get out. 3. He will never change. As much as he says he will HE WON'T. 4. Leave him for the sake of your daughter. It's the best for her. |
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Dec 30 2004, 06:47 PM
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 ::i love jesus ramirez:: Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,957 |
you should end it and tell the police cuz i think the can go to jail 4 that ..... good luck!
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