16 and no boyfriend ever, is this normal? |
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 Dec 1 2004, 11:36 PM
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 We are the cure.  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456  |
QUOTE(Vaguely Aware @ Dec 1 2004, 10:40 PM) ..=X i can't say anything about my experiences..(i'm 14 and have had 3) but it's fine if you haven't. it's actually much less of a hassle and gives you a lot less stress. besides, you can flirt with whoever you want and no one can say anything =P 
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Dec 2 2004, 12:14 AM
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 extraordinary Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,397 |
i can see where youre coming from but i say.. you dont have to worry.. anyway having a boyfriend shouldnt be your priorety.. there are so much more other things out there that you can enjoy.. nevertheless, you WILL get a boyfriend.. just wait for the right time or the right person
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Dec 2 2004, 12:16 AM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
well im ugli n 13 n iwill nevr have a bf till i get plastic surgery.
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Dec 2 2004, 12:59 AM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
first, nobody neeeds a boyfriend, but just to let you know my sister is 17 [almost 18] and she's with her first boyfriend now so i dont think its that abnormal, and you might not want to rush things so fast, you should get a boytoy/boyfriend when you know that you're really ready
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Dec 2 2004, 11:39 AM
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no its not wierd...ull get one soon..dont worry ur pretty head
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Dec 2 2004, 12:40 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
you dont have to freak...its normal. take your time to find someone good, and that you like.
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Dec 2 2004, 05:01 PM
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Wait for the perfect moment...and time don't worry you'd find someone
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Dec 2 2004, 07:08 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
Don't worry, you'll get someone soon. Just be patient. I mean, I'm 15 and only had three boyfriends. PLUS, I haven't kissed anyone yet. Yes, outta my three boyfriends I never kissed them. They really didn't last long either.. except for my first but I hardly saw him. It was weird. But still, don't worry. Enjoy life and you'll see that you'll get someone.
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Dec 2 2004, 07:13 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
Teenage girls being sad about not having a boyfriend frustrate me.
You will go one with your life, boyfriend or no boyfriend. Most likely, the boy you're going to date is not going to be your husband, so why fret about it? If guys are not dating you because you're "ugly" then be successful and they'll marry you for your money.
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Dec 2 2004, 07:22 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
aww don't worry about it. i understand pickyness...i don't care about the race, but i look to deep into their personality and all.
first, get to know guys, and let them see how great your personality is. someday you'll find mr.right 
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Dec 2 2004, 08:35 PM
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 I'd like to have u for dinner. Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,224 |
I'm not an expert on this since I'm only 13, but I think you should wait for the right person to come along. Many people who are in college have never had bfs or gfs before. Having a bf that you're dating just because there's nobody else better isn't as good as dating a bf that you waited for and actually love. Blehh. That's my advice
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Dec 2 2004, 09:50 PM
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there are no asian guys at my school...well only for this one guy..everyone picks on us just because we're asian..i would like to date a guy with a different race. i tell my friends that i would never date anyone vietnamese (MY RACE). they ask me why..well its my decision so i get to decide!
 oh yeah...wait for him he'll come to you |
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Dec 3 2004, 03:45 PM
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nothing wrong with it. i'm picky too =( haha society keeps telling us we should have a bf by now, but you know what, don't rush it. because there's no point in just settling for anything. i mean, when my friends kept telling me to get a bf, i tried to get with whatever guy that was half decent...but i always stopped myself midway b/c i realized i'm just not into them anad i just want them for the sake of having a boyfriend. it's dumb, so yea..don't worry about it =) i know people who are 20 and still don't have a bf =)
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Dec 3 2004, 05:52 PM
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My brother is currently 16. He went out with this girl when he was 15 but it only lasted for a week or so. That was it.
I think you should just wait until you find someone perfect
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Dec 3 2004, 11:20 PM
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Haha. It's ok! Don't worry about it....I have friends that I think are pretty, and they haven't had a boyfriend yet.
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Dec 3 2004, 11:31 PM
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I'm in the same boat. My 16th birthday is in two months and I 've never had a boyfriend. Most of my friends have never had boyfriends. I'm getting knida anxious, too,
 but I figure I've got better things to worry about in life now.  Like getting through school with decent grades. 
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Dec 3 2004, 11:35 PM
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just cause theyre all doin it doesnt mean you have to
no pressure |
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Dec 3 2004, 11:49 PM
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QUOTE(xSonia @ Dec 2 2004, 12:16 AM) well im ugli n 13 n iwill nevr have a bf till i get plastic surgery. lol i went to your xanga...and i live in vancouver too! well near it anyways lol~ but anywho! it's okay im 15 and yet to have a boyfriend. and im fine with it. i dont have time for a boyfriend either. if i had one i wouldnt have time. plus it's another load of stress and pressure. but for the people with boyfriends. that's good too! as long as you can manage friends,family,school work + boyfriend lol me + my friends are planning not to date till after high school when we are matured and moved away fom our parents  plus being single means you can flirt a WHOLE LOT MORE |
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Dec 4 2004, 03:01 PM
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im 14..i've had my first kiss when i was 10..but it was nothing because it was truth or dare..lol..but i havnt had a bf yet..there was this one guy that liked me and i liked him too..and i wanted him to ask me out..but he didnt..maybe because he thinks im playing hard to get..lol..but im really not
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Dec 4 2004, 03:21 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
well i'm 13 and i havent had one yet... no guy has even said he likes me! to my face anyway... and the guys that (i think) like me i never like at all, so yea... i think it's pretty normal. i know lots of girls who only start dating till they're in like college, so yea, you're normal
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Dec 8 2004, 06:49 PM
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your sixteen your still young and so even if you havent had a boyfriend yet its normal, cuz eventually you'll experience all the things other people are experiencing.
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Dec 8 2004, 06:52 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
of course thats normal... its okay some guy will fly a long.. i'm sure there are guys who are probably 18 and still haven't had a gf :s i dunno...
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Dec 8 2004, 07:33 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
don't be so desperate for it. its actually really good that you still dont have a boyfriend and you're 16. its usually the average age at dating but dont keep on expecting it. wait for it to happen unexpectedly. at least thats just my opinion..
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Dec 9 2004, 01:12 AM
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 Gackt owns you. Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,953 |
i haven't experienced the bofriend/having a relationship thing.. but my friend who's going to be 18 next year hasn't too.. she wants one and is picky too.. she prefers Movie Stars a lot though and couldn't seem to find one like Jude Law, Piersol, and Andy Roddick.. but i really think it's normal..
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Dec 9 2004, 11:24 AM
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 Mrs M. Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,136 |
Patience is the key. And, it's normal. I haven't got one too. Haha, but i'm 14.The right guy will come.
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