Stalkers, *shudders* |
 Nov 9 2004, 08:39 PM
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 Yum. =]  Group: Member Posts: 888 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,139  |
I used to have an ex boyfriend who stalked me, until he got arrested.
But now I have an online stalker on my xanga page, his username is aznfuxhotties or something like that.he wrote poems about me and he leaves wierd comments on my page. he even made a blogring about me. of course, i blocked his name before, but he keeps making new screennames, and i got tired of blocking his name. Now, this is in the Gals' Locker Room because the question is directed towards girls. Have you ever had a stalker? Online or off? And what should I do about mine? He keeps on saying he  s me and everything. It's really creepy. 
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Nov 30 2004, 07:58 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
get a new xang. new email.
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Nov 30 2004, 08:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,077 |
QUOTE First tell him you looooveee him and want to date. Then, say you think he's cheating on you. Then tell him you know that he's cheating on you. Then tell him he's broken your heart and you never want to see him again. YES!! HAHA. But maybe not. It was funny though. |
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Nov 30 2004, 08:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,077 |
oh, and making a new xanga won't necessarily help because he can still look at your friends' subscriptions modules to find you.
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Nov 30 2004, 10:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,498 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,711 |
*scared* o_____o maybe ignore him. report to xanga!!! [lol maybe thats a little extreme]
i never had a stalker. i like lookin at ppls xangas cuz they look nice. :D |
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Dec 1 2004, 12:47 AM
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 team late night queen Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
well.. i went inside a japanese mini mall in seattle, called uwajimaya. its awesoem. but anywasy .lol. abck to the story . i walked in with a whole buncha bags after workin for my uncle. then me nd my sister went to go buy some fuze. it's a drink .nd then we went to go eat. nd i walked back into the bookstore with my sister.. nd this guy [he's kinda old.. like.. late 50's-60] nd he goes. "dang, you still haven't killed that?" so obviously, he just stated that hes been following me nd watching me drink nd stuff.. so then im like.. "no." i walk away with my sister nd is like.. cmon chau, lets go get some chicken. nd on our way out. she stops to look at a poster. nd i lok behind us. nd then the same guy was standing there nd he tried to hide. so i just grabbed her nd walked out nd went home. it was so scary. but yeah.. if that ever happens to you.. just walk into a place with a bunch of people. so that if he tries to kidnapp you.. you can scream nd thered be someone there to help you. or walk into a store nd ask the salesperson to tel lthe dude to stop bothering you. yeah. its pretty creepy. that whoel night i felt like someone was still behind me.. even when i went to sleep. =|
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Dec 1 2004, 09:15 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,077 |
QUOTE "dang, you still haven't killed that?" what does that mean? killed what? |
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Dec 1 2004, 07:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,739 |
dont giv n e information!! start a new xanga, with info completly different, even lik where u liv, nd ur email nd stuff
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Dec 1 2004, 08:00 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Yah i had a stalker. He would call me 24-7 and come by my house. he was a bug-a-boo. jeez, so i told him to leave me alone or i would get a restraining order on his ass. Didn't work. It was funny how he finally left me alone...he called my house one day and i used a fake accent saying that "i'm sorry but katie has moved, and left no forwarding number or address" and when he came to my house i asked a neighbor to answer my door and yell at him never to come back. It worked
 he's not too smart  lol, the problem was with my cell...so i just used him as an excuse to get a new one  but online stalkers sux. i had one of them too. i had to change my email address but i didnt' want to change my xanga, so i got all my friends to spam on his email addresses and his xanga site, and he finally left me alone. 
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Dec 1 2004, 08:05 PM
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 a dorkie lil gurl Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,392 |
 whoa... I had a stalker before... this dude used to wait in front of my class everyday and all my friends in the class will b telling me; your stalker is outside! *shudders* but he finally stopped when he knew he had no chance with me anymore!  but seriously... bout your problem.1) change your xanga name 2) close down your xanga 3) tell the mod at xanga 4) play along with the game 5) do nothing! hope you make up your mind! =P GOOD LUCK! |
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Dec 1 2004, 10:54 PM
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 raaawr. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,242 |
just make a new xanga but don't link it on your new xanga. also, comment on who ever you want to know's xanga and make all of your former blogs on your xanga enabled of comments and eprops.
your stalker seems a bit immature, if you ask me, but not a really serious case. don't worry, this loser will get a bit tired in a while. |
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Dec 1 2004, 11:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,077 |
QUOTE Yah i had a stalker. He would call me 24-7 and come by my house. he was a bug-a-boo. jeez, so i told him to leave me alone or i would get a restraining order on his ass. Didn't work. It was funny how he finally left me alone...he called my house one day and i used a fake accent saying that "i'm sorry but katie has moved, and left no forwarding number or address" and when he came to my house i asked a neighbor to answer my door and yell at him never to come back. It worked he's not too smart lol, the problem was with my cell...so i just used him as an excuse to get a new one LOL. That was a great story! Thanks for sharing! And to the one who started this thread... Just keep doing what you're doing (ignoring him) and he will eventually get tired. If you give him attention, he'll keep bothering you. That's all he wants is attention so do not give him it! No need to close down your xanga site. |
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Dec 2 2004, 02:27 PM
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team late night queen Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
QUOTE(jecissa @ Dec 1 2004, 9:15 AM) what does that mean? killed what? he meant like.. "damm! you still havent drank all of it yet?" lol. yeah. it was creepy. |
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Dec 2 2004, 02:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,077 |
oh.. yeah that is cweeepy!!
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Dec 2 2004, 03:17 PM
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 ApunBindaas Group: Member Posts: 221 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,464 |
Wow that's a creepy story. I never had a stalker problem and I don't want to experience it either.
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Dec 7 2004, 08:11 PM
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 =) Group: Member Posts: 201 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,624 |
That must be scary. Maybe you should talk to your parents about it.
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Dec 7 2004, 08:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
omfg... good thing is, that means your really attractive.. bad thing is.. you know what happened..
man, yeah you should make up a new xanga... |
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Dec 7 2004, 08:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 219 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,958 |
quit using xanga if this is happening again, if you cant then try not to post anything personal about urself on ur xanga then cuz the more he knows about u the more obessive he'll be about you. tell ur parents if this keeps up
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Jan 5 2005, 06:12 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
you should just ignore him! read his comments but not do anything... don't go to his page and read what he says... don't comment backa nd don't say anything about him... OR you can tell him to f**k off and that ur not interested and that he's wasting his time!
and i've been stalked soooo much!!! actually one incident - i'm being stalked right now. and that B*TCH is annoying the hell out of me... and then her bf calls me to say sorry for her and tell me not to do shit to her! OMG obviously he's scared for her cause he knows i'd fcuk her up. i swear if he wasn't my ex i'd beat the eff outta her already. |
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Jan 5 2005, 08:10 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
there have been weird ppl like that online to me, saying they love me and they dont even know me. i try to block & ignore everything they do and say. there's a guy that used to like me and kept following me until i told him to stop but thats not as major. --the online guy for you, what i'd do is try to ignore him and delete comments, block him as much as possible until eventually he'll get bored lol.
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Jan 5 2005, 08:47 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
ack..that's scary
 but no..that's never happened to me...hmm..reminds me of old memories...baad, funny memories
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Jan 5 2005, 10:19 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Ew, that's really scary... He seems way too obsessed. So annoying.
I've had stalkers before, both online and in real life, but the real life ones were more annoying than scary. Lol. I just kind of... ignored until they got the message. Unfortunatly, most of them didn't get the hint... -_- |
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Jan 6 2005, 01:40 AM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
ok wow thats creepy. you better watch out..
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Jan 6 2005, 01:51 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Haha, I was once with my sister at the mall, and this dude.. was like.. hitting on her or following her. And my sister is nine years older than me btw.. And I was about like.. 9 years old? Fcuk, that guy was like.. annoying and just kept on asking her questions like if she had a boyfriend and shit like that. Man, I felt like kicking his ass! But I knew what was happening.. and I was like "Judy.. I think we should go now." For some reason, I was just really angry.. felt like going ape shit on that guy.
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Jan 6 2005, 03:33 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
err, can u report him to xanga or sumthin? iono. change ur xanga if it gets worse.
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Jan 7 2005, 02:38 AM
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 La-La. Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,638 |
oh stalkers. mmm. I've had one 'stalker' who jacked my poetry and made my [online] life hell. eventually he'll go away. and if he doesn't you have to tell someone and that would be the xanga officials.
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