Psst... People! Start acting!, Roar! |
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 Nov 30 2004, 01:33 AM
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Stalking Createblog...  Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300  |
Okay, since they're so many topics about "breaking the shy-barrier" and "not knowing how to approach him"... why don't we make this simple.
Breaking the Shy-Barrier Think about it. You both are in love, you think it's going to last forever, you're happy happy happy, lalala. So. What did you want from that relationship? The narcotical feeling of flying around in circles? The reason for intimacy (cough, it comes with love... 2 in 1 package...) is the so-called "friendship" development + more! We define true friends as the people we can tell anything to, be blunt (in a progressive way...) to their problems, and all that other stuff(vagueness!). So what does this have to do with love? Intimacy + Friendship + That extra affection that makes you go insane = love. Mhm. So when you're "very close and personal" with your girl/boyfriend, it should be parallel to a best-friend-relationship. Uh-huh. So what's up with the shy-barrier? I don't see any shy-barrier between you and a best friend.  That was very vague. This is open-sourced, so feel free to add and criticize. Not knowing how to approach him! Gasp! ...Or Her. Sigh. I'm tired. Not going to finish this... probably edit it later. But for shortness: 1) You're not going to approach him? Well, he doesn't know how to approach you, perhaps. Spare him.  2) Same as the shy-barrier thing. Sheesh. You wanna go out, then act like it. 3) Lalala. I'll do this later... Again, you may criticize and build. |
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Nov 30 2004, 05:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,077 |
was one of your points that you should be friends, and then it shouldn't be so hard to confront the person about liking them because friends should be able to communicate?
If so, i agree!!! :-D |
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Nov 30 2004, 06:00 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
It's just all a matter of self-esteem and self-confidence when it really boils down to acting upon it.
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Nov 30 2004, 07:02 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
I agree. We should be friend first. That's what i'm trying to do.
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Nov 30 2004, 07:44 PM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
Yes, jecissa, but I was more of implying trying to develop very close friends [ie best friends. duh!] so that you'll be able to know how to confront people with harsh problems. Also ties in with despise's point.
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Nov 30 2004, 07:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,077 |
ah.. that is a good point.
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