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 Nov 28 2004, 08:41 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,157  |
I like this guy.. anddd I think he likes me. We've kissed several times over the last week or so... but.. he hasn't asked me out, and I'm not used to kissing someone I'm not dating. I think that I'm really falling and I want to know if he really likes me and wants to go out, orr if I'm just a friend with benefits. It's confusing .. and yeah.
I know what more than half of you are going to say. Just tell him. We don't really talk about "us" because I think we're both kind of nervous. I also don't want to scare him away or say something that may make him feel weird around me. How can I let him know that I want to be more than friends without being obvious? |
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Nov 28 2004, 08:43 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Show more interest, maybe..
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Nov 28 2004, 08:46 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,157 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Nov 28 2004, 8:43 PM) Show more interest, maybe.. I don't see how I could show anymore interest than I already am. I know that he knows I like him. |
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Nov 28 2004, 09:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,733 |
ah guys are always confusing. especially when it comes to friends with benefits vs. an actual relationship. it's not always easy to tell what the other person wants. and, like you mentioned, the easiest thing to do would be to talk to him about it. i know, i'd be scared to death to, but if neither of you brings it up, nothing is going to happen. next time you're kissing, or together, you could say something like "so, what exactly do we have going on here?" in a light tone, so you're not subjecting yourself to revealing feelings you may not want him to know about. there's obviously some attraction there, but he could easily be just as confused as you. hope this helps!
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Nov 28 2004, 10:49 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
ah..ur friends with benifits with him... i c...like when he wants to do stuff with u..push hmi away and b like...i want to be more than this..i want to be your girlfried
or something i dont know |
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Nov 28 2004, 10:53 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Nov 28 2004, 10:49 PM) ah..ur friends with benifits with him... i c...like when he wants to do stuff with u..push hmi away and b like...i want to be more than this..i want to be your girlfried or something i dont know ^thats actually a good idea, ha ha. i mean, not forcefully, but maybe enough to give hima clue. To be honest though, it is a cliche, but just telling him is the easiest and possibly best way to go. Good luck. 
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Nov 28 2004, 10:58 PM
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y not ask him out?
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Nov 28 2004, 10:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,651 |
he hasnt asked you out yet and you've been kissing many times that week? how far did the kissing go?
personally, if i had a friend, and i was making out with her, i would definitely be dating her. just tell him, and if he doesn't take it well, i guess he really isnt a great friend in the first place. |
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Nov 29 2004, 06:43 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,203 |
well, i'm definitely not one with the balls to say anything in those kind of situations...so i guess what i would do to gauge the possibility of it becoming something more is check the way he handles ur relationship, or lack thereof, publicly?
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Nov 29 2004, 09:27 AM
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 dude i got gas Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,119 |
lol i always wanted to say this to somebody ask him out in a different language ahhahahha...or ask him why he hasn't asked you out in a different language and just walk away pissed
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Nov 29 2004, 05:51 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
make the first move or tell him " hey you know i like you" and see how he reacts to it
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Nov 29 2004, 06:36 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(xD_toooften @ Nov 28 2004, 10:59 PM) he hasnt asked you out yet and you've been kissing many times that week? how far did the kissing go? personally, if i had a friend, and i was making out with her, i would definitely be dating her. just tell him, and if he doesn't take it well, i guess he really isnt a great friend in the first place. yeah, i agree. if i'm making out with a friend, i would think that we would be dating... anyways, just ask him out or something. |
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Nov 29 2004, 09:43 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Either you ask him out, but remember, mother always said, not to chase the boys ;)
Or, just stop kissing him, and become close friends. |
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