Boys are fighting over me...., What shall I do? |
 Nov 28 2004, 05:26 PM
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 dude i got gas  Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,119  |
I have been having this trouble for awhile now.
There is this guy Adam, he's a junior and I have been dating this guy Alex for 6 months now. Well, Adam the other day told me he loved me. I have no idea what to do. I'm only a freshmen in highschool. I mean I think I am in love with Alex...but I am starting to like Adam a lot. We hang out a lot, we have kissed a bunch of times on *accidents*...I told Alex the truth about everytime we kissed and I don't think he cares...Someone help me please! Email me! |
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Nov 28 2004, 05:53 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
Decide which you like more...and go with that. Simple.
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Nov 28 2004, 05:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
sit down ane enjoy...
i m jk, ok.. um. yeah wat picaso smile said, but if u can't decide.. just.. i mean look for who s better |
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| *krnxswat* |
Nov 28 2004, 06:15 PM
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Wow. A mistake on your part: why'd you kiss another guy "accidently" if you had a boyfriend already?
A mistake on your boyfriends part: Why didn't he do anything about it when you told him you kissed the other guy? I don't think it's love for either of you; but, whatever. Enjoy! |
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Nov 28 2004, 06:20 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
1. Love? Love my ass.
2. *Accidental* Kissing? Might as well just hump him. 3. You have a boyfriend. 4. You need to stop being shared. You can't be just going one boy after the other. That's just wrong, you're telling everyone that you ARE a piece of ass, before you know it, you`ll be considered a "whore" or "slut" among some people's terms. 5. With all those *accidents* for all you know, your boyfriend could be doing the same thing, since you do it, why cant he? Right? Right. |
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| *krnxswat* |
Nov 28 2004, 06:37 PM
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QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Nov 28 2004, 6:20 PM) 1. Love? Love my ass. I LOVE YOUR ASS |
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Nov 28 2004, 07:23 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Nov 28 2004, 6:15 PM) Wow. A mistake on your part: why'd you kiss another guy "accidently" if you had a boyfriend already? A mistake on your boyfriends part: Why didn't he do anything about it when you told him you kissed the other guy? I don't think it's love for either of you; but, whatever. Enjoy! ^ I totally agree. Accidentally kissing! Ha! Thats a nice lie. QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Nov 28 2004, 6:20 PM) 1. Love? Love my ass. 2. *Accidental* Kissing? Might as well just hump him. 3. You have a boyfriend. 4. You need to stop being shared. You can't be just going one boy after the other. That's just wrong, you're telling everyone that you ARE a piece of ass, before you know it, you`ll be considered a "whore" or "slut" among some people's terms. 5. With all those *accidents* for all you know, your boyfriend could be doing the same thing, since you do it, why cant he? Right? Right. ^^I agree with that too, you're just gonna give everyone the impression you're a whore. And I really dont believe you are.  You must not have loved your boyfriend much if him only saying "I love you" is going to sway you that much. And he must not care too much for you if he doesnt care. It would break my heart if my girlfriend kissed another guy.
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Nov 28 2004, 07:28 PM
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Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Nov 28 2004, 6:37 PM) I LOVE YOUR ASS Damn straight. |
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Nov 28 2004, 07:30 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
hmm..there are only one accident....and you dont like this "adam" becuz he's a junior do you?? anywayz...yur b/f doesnt care becuz maybe its an accident and he cant do anything about it....but you should know what to do..if yur b/f isnt doing anything wrong..then tell adam that ur taken and not interested...and no offense...but u seem to be flattered that this is happening....
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Nov 28 2004, 08:10 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should think about who you like the most, and which one is better. but isn't Alex your bf?
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Nov 28 2004, 08:45 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
How can you accidentally kiss someone?
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Nov 28 2004, 09:56 PM
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dude i got gas Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,119 |
Thanks for helping but my boyfriend and I ended....Oh well. Thanks for the help! And I'm not a whore, if I was, do you think I be going behind his back? I told him the truth now didn't I?
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Nov 28 2004, 09:59 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i like how u put the title
'boys fighting over me' way to go. |
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Nov 28 2004, 10:02 PM
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There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
Just because you told him doesnt mean that its ok! You still went with other guys, and thats cheating. It doesnt matter if you kill someone on broad daylight or do it in some dark alley, you still murdered someone. It's the same thing with going around with other guys. Whether you told or not, you still ran around!
 But hell, no use going on about it if you two split. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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Nov 29 2004, 09:25 AM
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dude i got gas Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,119 |
I didn't cheat on him. Do you even know what cheating means? It's when you go have sex with the other guy! No I did not cheat on him! I know better than to cheat with somebody. Those kisses meant nothing to me. You dont' even know me!
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Nov 29 2004, 04:06 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i dont think its love between u & your man because if it was then he would care about your so called "accidental" kisses.
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Nov 29 2004, 04:21 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(lilsweetdevil08 @ Nov 29 2004, 9:25 AM) I didn't cheat on him. Do you even know what cheating means? It's when you go have sex with the other guy! cheating doesn't nessersarily mean having sex with another guy, it could be going behind ur bf's back.  well good luck on what ever you choose to do now
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Nov 29 2004, 04:29 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
incidentally kissed another guy?, when you had a bf? "accidentally" eh?
you don't deserve him. 
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Nov 29 2004, 07:05 PM
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 a dorkie lil gurl Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,392 |
1) you had a bf and yet you still "accidently" kissed someone??? <-- right...
 2) your bf and ur relationship wasn't really close I presume... since he didn't really cared about you and ur "kissing"-s so ending it off wasn't really surprising 3) cheating doesn't always mean that you had "sex" with someone 4) it's unfair to Adam... how you're leading him on... 5) MAKE UP YOUR MIND ALREADY! >< |
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Nov 29 2004, 07:14 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
"boys are fighting over me..." psh. bitch please.
+ "accidental" kissing?!?! lyke omg it was lyke so sudden because i just fell and lyke landed on his lips!!11!!!11! not possible. an 'accident' is when a baby craps his pants, not when he climbs on a guy and craps on his face, ok? + your boyfriend doesn't care about the kissing? he doesn't love you. and you obviously don't love him or else you wouldn't have had an "accident" + he may not love you, but it's still unfair to lead him on like that. don't be a whore. + cheating does not necessarily mean that you have sex with someone else, genius. + boys are NOT fighting over you. it doesn't exactly seem like your boyfriend is putting up any kind of fight to keep you  i suggest you make up your damn mind... and keep an eye on your crotch because you might have an "accident" with that too. |
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Nov 30 2004, 02:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,077 |
^ Yes, very well said. I second that... Only I would have said it nicer if i said it myself. But it would have the same meaning!
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Nov 30 2004, 03:00 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
there are going to be many guys that are going to seem like "possibilies", but you just have to ask yourself if the guy that you are currently with now is really worth it all, or if you are more interested in going solo and having fun then you should do that. you just gotta find out what is more important, staying with the guy that loves you, or dating other people
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Nov 30 2004, 04:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i think Adam does care but is trying to win you over....he is not letting his jealousy come out
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| *krnxswat* |
Nov 30 2004, 06:07 PM
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Haha. I love how people are so harsh these days.
 Go me. |
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Nov 30 2004, 06:34 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
*cheers for seon*
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