what do u do, if a girl asks u out?? |
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 Nov 20 2004, 12:24 AM
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 shaving ryan's privates.  Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,902  |
ok..this girl asked me out and i'm really good friends with her. i kno she's liked me but then she just asked me out. i dont kno what to do, cuz i just see us as friends, and i dont "like" her, help please. CONFUSED!!
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Nov 20 2004, 12:31 AM
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 The Secret Hacker. Group: Member Posts: 1,780 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,712 |
i understand, cuz i feel that way sometimes if a girl would like ya, then ya feel confused, im a guy, and i kno that even though i am single all my life cuz it makes u feel confused.
just explain to her that you love her as a friend but dont wanna go out because you never thought about it that way. believe me, im hecka confused if i was in that situation, but just explain that u love her has a friend. |
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Nov 20 2004, 01:41 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
Just do it. You might find you actually really do like her. And besides, it's not like if you two hung out before at a different place, ya?
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Nov 20 2004, 01:18 PM
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 T0M0MI <3 Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,578 |
maybe yOOh shOuld give her a chance..and if things dOnt wOrk Out..
just tell her yOoh like it better wen yOoh were just frends.. |
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Nov 20 2004, 07:42 PM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
Just tell her the truth because I would rather hear the truth then a lie. its gonna hurt her anyway so u might as well give her the truth
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Nov 20 2004, 10:51 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(xheavenzcentzx @ Nov 21 2004, 8:42 AM) Just tell her the truth because I would rather hear the truth then a lie. its gonna hurt her anyway so u might as well give her the truth i agree. tell her the truth even though it may hurt both of you. but if you lie to her, it'll end up much much worse than telling the truth. good luck |
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Nov 21 2004, 05:21 PM
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 There is a light that never goes out.... Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,044 |
Tell her the truth. But, at the same time, if you do like her, give her a chance as well. But make it clear at first, that you see ehr as just friends, so then if you do decide to go with it, it wont be so bad if you break up, because you were easing into it. And it wasn't some exravagant lie that would end up hurting both of you.
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Nov 21 2004, 05:28 PM
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 The Original Sparx Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,370 |
Give it a chance, then if you don't think things will work out and you want to stay friends, tell her the truth. Don't lie to get out of things, 'cause I promise it'll come back to bite you in the butt.
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Nov 21 2004, 05:32 PM
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 Knight of the Black Flames Group: Member Posts: 428 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,166 |
*Clears Throat*
[SIZE=14] SAY YES!!!!!![/SIZE=14] lol this doesn't happen to everybody. Try out a date and see how everything works. |
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Nov 21 2004, 05:38 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
give it a try, but make sure she understand that it's not her fault if it doesn't work out
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Nov 21 2004, 06:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
keep on bein friends with her
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Nov 22 2004, 12:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,520 |
if i were the girl, of course i would want u to like me back
but i wouldnt want u to do it just bcuz i asked. thats not right.. i would rather go out with someone who REALLy likes me instead of someone who really doesnt but just saying yes to try it out . |
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Nov 26 2004, 01:24 PM
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shaving ryan's privates. Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,902 |
QUOTE(kiSHBall @ Nov 22 2004, 12:00 AM) if i were the girl, of course i would want u to like me back but i wouldnt want u to do it just bcuz i asked. thats not right.. i would rather go out with someone who REALLy likes me instead of someone who really doesnt but just saying yes to try it out . thanks 
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Nov 26 2004, 02:19 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
give it the ol one two.
give her a chance, go on a date, see waht u think. u never know |
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Nov 26 2004, 02:38 PM
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 whatever d00de Group: Member Posts: 1,349 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,060 |
yea just give her a chance you might start to like her
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Nov 26 2004, 02:41 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Threads like these and stupidity like that makes me want to hrul.
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Nov 26 2004, 03:13 PM
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Isn't it obvious what to do?
She likes you, you don't like her. She asks you out, then you say ______. Choice A: Yes. Choice B: No, I only see us as friends. I wish we can still remain as good friends. Choice C: I'm so stupid I had to make a thread on createBlog to ask what to do in this type of a situation. Unfortunately, it seems like you chose Choice C. |
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Nov 26 2004, 04:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
tell her the truth..dont feel sry for her becuz of what may happen becuz for one..it'll be worser when the relationship has started...a heart cant break if it never had a chance to bloom in the first place.
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Nov 26 2004, 06:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
if you dont like her then the obvious answer is no and not lead her on
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Nov 27 2004, 01:20 AM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
ummmmmm say no...... DUH if u dont like her den y should u go out wit her? thats rilly stupid but jus say it in a nice way jus b like i really like u as a frd and i dont c u as a b/f but plz dont let this ruin our friend ship
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Nov 28 2004, 05:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Aww, tell her that you really care about her... but you don't see her as anything more then a good friend.... hehe just make it so she knows that you care about her and stuff...
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