About my friends..., I just don't know what to do about them. |
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 Nov 27 2004, 01:50 PM
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Lately, my friends have been ignoring me lately. At lunch, whenever I'm alone, they never even dare to ask me what's wrong and never try talking to me, and when they go to me when I'm alone, they just sing these annoying songs they know I get annoyed by. They never could tell when I'm sad. They never try to talk to me and make me feel better. I always have to be the one that tries to talk to them. Most of the time, whenever I'm saying something, they always have to end up cutting me off and ignoring me. Okay, and whenever I call them to talk on the phone, they usually make up an excuse to not talk to me such as 'I gotta go', 'I'm doing my homework right now', 'can't use the phone', 'I'm about to go to sleep', and many more excuses. It's like they're trying to avoid me. Whenever I tell them they're getting on my nerves and tell them to please stop, they never do so. But when I do something that annoys them, they always have to tell me to stop and get mad at me. Seriously, I'm thinking that I should just leave them and find some other friends, but I'm afraid that I'm might start to regret it. I really dunno what to do
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Nov 27 2004, 02:08 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK?  Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i know how you feel. about a few weeks ago my friends were doing the same thing. you have to talk to them about how you're feeling, gotta make them listen too. if they dont realize that you're hurt and havent listened to you these arent your real friends anyways.
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Nov 27 2004, 02:12 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
I nkow how you feel, but those are not the type of friends that you want! Really you'd be better off with a new group. Tell them how you feeland if/when they don't listen just forget them. It may be hard but I'll be worth it.
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Nov 27 2004, 03:14 PM
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Two years ago, I was best friends with two girls, but these two girls hated each other. Suddenly, halfway into the school year, they started being all mean, arguing with me, ignoring me, and making me feel really bad inside. One time I even cried but they said even more mean things to me. It was obvious they wanted to ditch me. At that time, I was in grade 5, so I made new friends. I was practically friends with everyone else except those two girls. I realized that I was capable of meeting better people. One of those girls moved away, and the other is a loner now. Get new friends if they continue to hurt you...
You'll get thru this 
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Nov 27 2004, 05:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
i say ditch them and find some real friends. It will be their loss!
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Nov 27 2004, 05:38 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Lose them ...they're not good enough for you.
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Nov 27 2004, 05:41 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
LoL! sorry for the luaghter, buts its funny. cuz this is the exact thing thats been happening to me too lol. especially when u said during lunch im alone and they dont go to me and ask whats wrong. i know how it feels yo. i dont know what u should do, but im just replying so that u dont feel alone in this situation. cuz im having the same problem too =\
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Nov 27 2004, 08:27 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
O god.... same happened to me...
Well, my regular "friends", last year they sorta like, ditched me.. and then hated me at like the same time? So, i go and meet this girl.. and i thought she was my friend.. like, we would talk when we're alone ( online or cause we were the only people in my english group ), but in front of her friends she wouldn't... so summer vacation past and throughout vacation, we've talked nearly every day. And now that school's started, she ignores me now... and we got in huge fights and stuff... and she said that she doesn't talk to me cause we have nothing to talk about.. Back to your problem... they don't sound like real friends to me... go make new ones |
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