Take charge or no?, making the move 1st? |
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 Nov 23 2004, 11:39 PM
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 a dorkie lil gurl  Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,392  |
So yea... I like a guy and we seem to be pretty good friends. He's like 1 year younger than me but I don't care ^_^ So I started to drop hints I like him (like it was obvlious<-sp? to our friends) but I don't know if he gets it. The other day my friend and I made a bet that I couldn't hold his hand for 2 mins but I did it anyway and he didn't pull away. Is that a good thing or bad thing?
 I'm even more confused because I found out that he likes a girl but that girl already has a bf so should I just continue being his friend or what? Thanks! 
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Nov 23 2004, 11:56 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
It's a good thing. [about the hand-holding thing]
Hmm.. Well. The other girl's off-limits.. Maybe he likes you. [shrug] Talk to him about it. 
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Nov 24 2004, 04:29 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,957 |
The best thing to do is always ask, but if he say no your friendship will kinda be messed up, so maybe try to get a friend to ask? But if the other girl is not available, u would probably have a chance.
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Nov 24 2004, 12:33 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
take a step for all the ladies who feel shy and awkward when asking a guy out or taking charge. go girl. hmm who knows..you my get what you deserve and want. good luck.
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Nov 24 2004, 09:03 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
hmm...just tell him how u feel
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Nov 24 2004, 09:21 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
jus tell him you like him
that did me kind of good. that got my crush to hae me as his girlfriend.. maybe it'll do you that good. but relationships are relationships... i think you should make the first move because you two have been good friends. unless you tell him and ask him out and he says no because he likes it better if you two were just "friends" |
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Nov 24 2004, 09:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
umm yeah that means he's not grossed out by you! hehe
 But did you mean obvious which means everyone knows it or oblivious which means well..it's not obvious. Because some guys don't get any hints, and for them to actually find out you have to tell them to their face. You should certainly still be his friend, even if he likes someone else, but try to talk to him about this, or at least let him know how you feel. Hope that helps! |
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Nov 24 2004, 09:48 PM
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 if i was a rich girl.. Group: Member Posts: 703 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,836 |
if you really like him, then yeah, go for it
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Nov 24 2004, 10:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,769 |
Go 4 it girl! U can do it! It seems lyke he lykes u. Yup
i mean....my crush doesn't even hold my hand longer than 2 mins!!!!
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Nov 25 2004, 06:03 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
my advice - just go for it. what do you have to lose?
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Nov 25 2004, 08:00 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
that holding hand bit was a good sign. maybe he likes you.
you should go tell him how you feel about him |
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Nov 26 2004, 12:54 AM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
You should deffinitely ask him. I think he likeeeees you. *makes the kindergarten WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoOOo sound*
heh, come on, be revolutionary and tell him how you feel |
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