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 Nov 23 2004, 06:54 PM
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 kristin  Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985  |
ok simple...simple...question....
what the f**k is going on.  what i mean is, we get a lot of "n00bs" here all of the time. many of them have never been on forums before, and don't know everything about them and all...but come on, why is everyone being so mean to them? i mean...a little mistake, like posting in the wrong forum, and about every single post in that topic is yelling at them about that. someone spells a few words wrong, and they get completely bashed. its like there are 2 sections of people here. you are either a "n00b" and constantly seem to get bashed with like eveything you say, or i suppose you are the "basher". Just because you've been here a little longer than other gives nobody any right to treat them like dirt. What I mean by this, is i understand that some people are jsut "brutally honest" in a sort of mean way...but does everyone whos been here over a month have to be like that? when i first came here, everyone was so nice. I'm serious. I hadn't seen anything negitive for a long time. then, im not really sure what happened, but its like being a bitch to everyone, was some sort of way to earn respect. but lets face it, many of the people on here are very rude to the newer people. people get so mad if a topics in the wrong spot, or they "tYp3 LyK D1s!!11!!1!one!!!1!!!11one!!" or whatever. all i ask, is can we show a little respect for one another? lets be a little bit more mature? =/ I just wanted to make this topic...because of my opinion of how i feel everytime i come here. i see so many mean things, and i want to reply, but i feel like i'll become the center of the bashing. and please respect my opinion. thanks. also- there is a difference between confronting someone if they really do make a mistake, and yelling at them. personally, i think they will listen better by confronting them in a reasonal mannor. btw- this topic was not directed towards any individuals at all. just a bunch of people in general. don't be scared to reply. |
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Nov 23 2004, 06:56 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
I have noticed that myself as well. It is rather sad
 Why cant we all just get along people hehe 
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Nov 23 2004, 07:00 PM
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 hello. Group: Member Posts: 1,105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,600 |
i've noticed it too...but i mean there not that harsh. are they?
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| *jooleeah* |
Nov 23 2004, 07:04 PM
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yeah, i agree. it happens even in the pictures forum. like, there was this one topic with the ghosts and everyone starts bashing on them and saying " IT'S NOT REAL YOU'RE STUPID" blahblahblah. gooodneess.
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Nov 23 2004, 07:25 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
I'm not a basher or a bashee. But I agree, people who bash other people piss me off. I remember one time when I was semi new some girl said that I made a topic that someone else also made even though I made it before that person, and she called me a n00b. So I started yelling at her and yea she didn't reply back.
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Nov 23 2004, 07:37 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh i do agree, its not like they do anything to bother anyone else purposely. juss some people make a big deal out of it when it really isnt nessasery.
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| *Kathleen* |
Nov 23 2004, 07:53 PM
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You're not the only one who completely feels that way. Honestly...I don't believe I've ever been mean to newbs. I think I mocked the majority of the picture threads in the picture forums once, but that wasn't directed towards newbs themselves. Gah. They can't help that they're new. I mean...we were all new at one point.
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Nov 23 2004, 07:56 PM
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 I can rot your brain ;] Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,160 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,261 |
Yes I completely agree. Some people are just so RUDE and MEAN to the noobs. They have no superiority over anyone. It's ridiculous and they look stupid because not only are they showing how cowardly they are by making fun of people over the internet, but also that their self-esteem is low so they need to bring it up by bringing people down.
I don't think I've been rude to noobs...and I don't plan to. They're new and I mean, would you go back to a place where they treated you like scum? I don't think so. :P |
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Nov 23 2004, 07:59 PM
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yes I do agree. Like somebody said "I'm not a basher or a bashee" ..well same with me. This does need to change but oh well just deal with it.
But sometimes..there are people that just piss others off. 
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| *tweeak* |
Nov 23 2004, 08:00 PM
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sorry, didnt mean to double post
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Nov 23 2004, 08:02 PM
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QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Nov 23 2004, 6:54 PM) btw- this topic was not directed towards any individuals at all. just a bunch of people in general. yes it was, you can admit it. so i say some stupid stuff when im mad. ive just been really stressed lately, and i have a tendency to take it out on other people, sorry. i should really stay offline when im in that kind of mood, but its my stress relief, because otherwise i end up bitching at friends, which comes with bigger consequences. so ive definitely been taking it too far, and ill try not to, youre right QUOTE It's ridiculous and they look stupid because not only are they showing how cowardly they are by making fun of people over the internet, but also that their self-esteem is low so they need to bring it up by bringing people down. but i do have low self esteem, and ill be the first to admit it. oh well. i will make an effort to stay off forums until im in decently humane moods |
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| *krnxswat* |
Nov 23 2004, 08:03 PM
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Yeah; I concur. I hate bashers.
Oh, the irony! |
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Nov 23 2004, 08:05 PM
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I can rot your brain ;] Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,160 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,261 |
QUOTE(my_papaya @ Nov 23 2004, 5:02 PM) yes it was, you can admit it. so i say some stupid stuff when im mad. ive just been really stressed lately, and i have a tendency to take it out on other people, sorry. i should really stay offline when im in that kind of mood, but its my stress relief, because otherwise i end up bitching at friends, which comes with bigger consequences. so ive definitely been taking it too far, and ill try not to, youre right but i do have low self esteem, and ill be the first to admit it. oh well. i will make an effort to stay off forums until im in decently humane moods I wasn't...directing it at you. :[ Aww...*tries to boost up your self esteem*  :]
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| *tweeak* |
Nov 23 2004, 08:07 PM
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good, because i really think everyone hates me now
 of course, i dont think kristin ever liked me, but thats not the point |
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Nov 23 2004, 08:08 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
soo lyke true.
I mean, people probably look at wellknown people around here and think, wow theyre being mean to noobs. and they probably think thats cool. so then, they try to put other people down, and think thats the way to be. no. |
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| *krnxswat* |
Nov 23 2004, 08:09 PM
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Actually no, I don't think I'm cool because I put others down. I do it because it's fun.
Anywho, it's not like I'm always bashing members. I sometimes give useful advice, it's just that they tend to take it the wrong way. |
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| *tweeak* |
Nov 23 2004, 08:10 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Nov 23 2004, 8:09 PM) Actually no, I don't think I'm cool because I put others down. I do it because it's fun. Anywho, it's not like I'm always bashing members. I sometimes give useful advice, it's just that they tend to take it the wrong way. it is fun, isnt it? ...but i digress |
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Nov 23 2004, 08:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
The truth hurts
 jk. But I guess that I bash.. in my head? I don't say it out loud... |
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Nov 23 2004, 09:07 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
thanks for everyone that agreed.
i suppose if hurting other people makes you smile, keep it up anyway, no nikki, it wasn't directed towards you. particially, just in recent posts and all...but it wasn't all you at all. it was jsut my opinion how most the people are acting now.. not just you.. |
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| *tweeak* |
Nov 23 2004, 09:10 PM
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i thought it was in resonse to that thread in pictures. of course i knew it wasnt just to me, because i have of course noticed other people as well, i just thought i spawned it
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Nov 23 2004, 09:11 PM
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QUOTE(my_papaya @ Nov 23 2004, 8:07 PM) good, because i really think everyone hates me now of course, i dont think kristin ever liked me, but thats not the point i dont hate you. i find you rather entertaining. |
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Nov 23 2004, 09:14 PM
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QUOTE(autumn. @ Nov 23 2004, 9:11 PM) i dont hate you. i find you rather entertaining. well thats good to know :] |
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Nov 23 2004, 10:15 PM
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Eh, Nikki, i don't hate you. I'm sure few cB members do...
anyway. why aren't other people posting in this topic? |
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Nov 23 2004, 10:31 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
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Nov 23 2004, 10:35 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
ugh i so agree
its mostly the newer kids who are jumping on peoples backs....im all hello, im probably an older member then you, dont disrespect!! |
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