A big topic, in a young age., How do we reconize love? |
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 Nov 14 2004, 05:49 PM
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QUOTE(MasteRxKiD @ Nov 3 2004, 3:30 PM) Love is an emotion. An emotion that is blind to age, and can be experienced by anyone. Just like every other emotion. I agree. There IS no "right age" to fall in love. Some people have been together so much, they probably DO love each other. Just because some are younger, doesn't mean they don't know what it's like. Say you've known someone for two years and you've always liked them, then you find out they feel the same. In that case, is it naive and wrong to love them especially since you've loved them as a FRIEND for so long already? Is that worse and more immature than someone you meet at a club for a night, go out on a few dates, and immediately go out with them? However, I agree that when some people go "OMFG I LOVE YOU SOO EFFIN MUCH!" and then break up few weeks later, are just pathetic. But Im pretty sure that happens at every age, it's just adults are more careful about when they would actually do that and kids tend to say it more and do it more because they don't wonder about the future as much. It doesn't really matter each age.. someone can be 25 and still act like a little kid whereas someone whos only 13 can act like theyre 19. |
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Nov 15 2004, 06:12 PM
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New member! But already awsome Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,345 |
I really think that you really hafta no yourself before you can go out on dates!
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Nov 15 2004, 10:42 PM
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true love is overused, and some people dont really know what love is, but they are usually influenced into thinking its something u can just throw out there
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Nov 16 2004, 12:01 AM
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 Lookie Se7en!! Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,534 |
well....I'm 12 so I'm about the age you guys are talking about and yea i don't think people my age really know what "love" is haha i probably don't either
 but people at my school they like go out but then break up because theire friend broke up already....its odd  but yea i don't think people my age are ready yet...though love doesn't really have an age boundary whoooo i'm on both sides 
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Nov 16 2004, 01:24 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Eh. Well I guess anyone at any age can experience true love .. ? except if you're like .. 8 years old ... but yeah. i met this one guy before and he became one of my closest friends and i felt like i actually loved him ... it wasnt like one of those stupid crushes where i "melt" whenever i see him or whatever .. or i try to dress up all cute to impress him.
but some of my friend's crushes are so stupid. they see some guy they've never talked to, think he's hot, and they're all like "i love him sooo much .. i love him forever ... he's the greatest .. i can't stop thinking about him.....!!!" lordy, once my friend told me just because her crush said "hi" to her, she got all hyper and happy and crap. -_- |
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Nov 16 2004, 03:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Ohh, I sorta agree with you... sorta not. I mean, yeah, I know, I'm 12... But that doesn't mean I'm to immature to be in a real relationship. Although, I do see a lot of people in my grade... maybe a grade higher too, break up with someone in a few days... for stupid reasons.
And hmm, when you're older than another age group.... you sorta just seem to underestimate them... I know I do it 
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Nov 16 2004, 08:55 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I fell in love whe I was 14. Maybe at that time, I was wrong to claim what I had with my boyfriend to be love... But right now I really AM in love with my boyfriend. I still get butterflies when I see him, but mainly if I'm alone with him becuase nothing seems to matter. I feel a sense of security when I'm with him and just the sight of him makes me happy.
Love does take time to develop, but you can't just say that people who are young don't really know what love is. Just because the majority aren't odl enough to really know what love is, they still have love for their family. Actually, I think kiddish love, or "puppy love" IMO, would still count because maybe they do know what love is. My half sister has been with her boyfriend (now fiance) since she was in middle school, or so I've heard. She's 30 years old now. She's still with him and they're living together in New Hampshire. I bet she was in love after a month of dating him; she really cares alot about him and he really cares alot about her. Yea sure, there's alot of young people that think they're in love and in reality, they are not, but there's still a tiny percentage of young couples that do fall in love and DO know what love is. I hate it when the words "I love you" are thrown around and then the couple breaks up.
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Nov 17 2004, 12:03 AM
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Yeah, I agree with ya. ;D I didn't start "dating" 'til I was about 14. And even then it's just playing around and holding hands. Nothing serious.
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Nov 18 2004, 12:20 AM
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True love mean u dun always have to have tat person, just as long as u noe dey are happy den u are happy, and if s/he just want to be friend right now u will respect their decision and be the best friend u can be, dun go around crying about tat u got rejected. and no matter how long u have to wait, u will still wait for dem. tats is what I thought true love is about.
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