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eversosweet
post Nov 13 2004, 08:06 AM
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my bf seems to like making me jealous...see cause we're in an oversea kind of relationship. i only see him three times a year. he is juss starting to change
so he tells me he's going to this friends house (never knew it was a girl until later _dry.gif )then when we see each other online, he starts telling me stuff he did over there at first i thought ok, fighting on the floor it's a guy stuff. then suddenly the word SHE came out after that he keeps going on and on bout how cute she was and how much fun it was ARGH i can't take it nemore

what should i do? cry.gif sad.gif
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 08:33 AM
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hun'..i think you should juss..drop him. I mean..he keeps on goin' on abou' how cute she wuz 'n how much fun..well..hes sorta giving hints too..
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 12:48 PM
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never have an over seas relationship... you never kno what there doing without you there
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 01:12 PM
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break up with him or give him ataste of his own medicine.

shuhld b in relationships
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 01:16 PM
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I agree ^. Make him jealous, show him how it feels. Make him feel bad about what he did. And if he is giving hints then break up with.
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 01:32 PM
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if you have a problem just go tell him, he should understand
but don't say he shouldn't hang out with her anymore
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 02:20 PM
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Talk to him about it.
It might not be worth it if it's overseas.
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 04:14 PM
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you should talk to him about it or just dump him. oversea & long distance relationship never quite work out. so yeah. you will never know if he's cheating on you over there.
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 04:30 PM
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drop him if hes really that insensitive i would kill my bf if he eva did that happy.gif gud luck though i hope he realizes his ways and he changes
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 05:16 PM
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Yeah either dump him, or talk to him about the situation.
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 06:00 PM
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this should be in relationships i think rolleyes.gif
well, anyways. if he's trying to make you jealous...just dump him. you don't derserve a guy like that _dry.gif
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 10:22 PM
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thanks guys i've tried talking to him about it, he says she's juss a friend, n nth will happen between them etc etc stuff like that. and he says he loves/likes me more, idk if i should believe it.

sorry if i'm ranting too much. i just need to get this out of me cry.gif
 
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post Nov 13 2004, 11:38 PM
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QUOTE(eversosweet @ Nov 13 2004, 10:22 PM)
thanks guys i've tried talking to him about it, he says she's juss a friend, n nth will happen between them etc etc stuff like that. and he says he loves/likes me more, idk if i should believe it.

sorry if i'm ranting too much. i just need to get this out of me cry.gif

if you doubt him, then what`s the point? you should be able to give him your full trust. _smile.gif
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 05:30 PM
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dont try and make him jealous, it will make things worse

if you cant trust him, the relationship should end. if he wont talk to you about it, dump his ass.

overseas/long distance relationships are hard, im in one right now. sometimes they really suck but if you think you can make it thru then be my guest.
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 05:42 PM
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QUOTE(eversosweet @ Nov 13 2004, 10:22 PM)
thanks guys i've tried talking to him about it, he says she's juss a friend, n nth will happen between them etc etc stuff like that. and he says he loves/likes me more, idk if i should believe it.

sorry if i'm ranting too much. i just need to get this out of me cry.gif

wow... he said he loves/likes you more, but that might mean he likes her too wink.gif sad.gif well maybe you should give hints that it's really bugging you when he talks about her, and go from there. you should trust him if you're willing to do a long distance relationship
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 05:56 PM
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tell him to stfu and dump him.
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 05:59 PM
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wow... he said he loves/likes you more, but that might mean he likes her too wink.gif sad.gif well maybe you should give hints that it's really bugging you when he talks about her, and go from there. you should trust him if you're willing to do a long distance relationship


oh.. i didn't see that ^

but i agree..

love you MORE??? that means he love her too! dump him!!
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 06:55 PM
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go visit him and talk to him about it
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 07:17 PM
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how RETARDED. having an oversea relationship is something you should really take care of! I think you should just get rid of him because he obviously doesn't see how lucky he is to still have you, even though he's far away. If he was a good bf, he should be missing you, not talking about some chick far away. I guess i kinda agree pink_tootsie .. you could talk to him. Maybe he doesnt knoww that you dont like to be jealous?
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 08:40 PM
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tell him ur pissed off...
communication is vital especially ur not seeing each other that much!
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 09:13 PM
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i wouldnt have even began the relationship, since ya'll live overseas from one another.
 
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post Nov 14 2004, 09:37 PM
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i do trust him we've known each other for bout 6 years? , its just that sometimes he lies about stuff and i spoke to him today, he said that he is sorry and didn't know what he was doing and doesnt want to ruin the relationship, that girl was his ex, now his best friend. she makes/asks him to go to her house (i'm starting to dislike taht girl even though i haven't met her before)
 
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post Nov 15 2004, 02:57 AM
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dump him. just be friends. next time you see him, have a fight with him on the floor.

a real fight.
 
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post Nov 15 2004, 03:01 AM
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either do sum major pay back, or break up with him. long distance relationships never work out in the end.
 
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post Nov 15 2004, 05:21 AM
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surely u should break up!
he told u those things on purpose
overseas relationship is really hard to keep
 
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