Meeting someone great online..., What to do? |
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 Nov 14 2004, 07:11 PM
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Well since this is createblog.. im thinking this subject has come up several times and I'm sorry I'm askign advice again..
 So I play this online game.. and.. I met this really awesome guy but I never really thought about it.. i mean.. its a game o_O  Anywho.. I started noticing him when I talked to him on AIM... he's really awesome and sweet. I use to talk to him about my issues with this other guy that he met already, and he was giving me a lil advice. (and vice versa) but now.. my attention has shifted to him.. and I dont know what i should do. He doens't live far away from me either.. states are next to each other. We've gotten to know each other pretty well and he knows a lot about me now. I kind of wanna tell him .. but im afraid of what he'll do/say.. and im not really sure when to tell him.. if i should even tell him in the first place.. Should I wait til he realizes something or... what?  Help me out! 
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Nov 14 2004, 07:14 PM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
 aww thats so sweet! Well im not sure, do u think he might have feelings for you? I think if there's a chance, drop him a hint and see what happens.. 
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Nov 14 2004, 07:34 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,889 |
QUOTE(xheavenzcentzx @ Nov 14 2004, 7:14 PM) aww thats so sweet! Well im not sure, do u think he might have feelings for you? I think if there's a chance, drop him a hint and see what happens..    i hope he does.. how the heck can i tell!?? help.. anyone gonna else help me????
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Nov 14 2004, 07:47 PM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
first off let me say this, before anyone bashes it.
People who meet on the net do actually, more then less if they really mean it, get together, especally if its close. A friend of mine found his wife while playing EverQuest a while ago, go figure huh? Anyways, i belive that true love can happen online, and something eles too, when u meet people in real life they show u what they want u to see, their outwardly apperance, but online you tend to see who they really are since they dont have to worry about your reaction face to face (yes there are some sickos out there but by far most people act as they truly are). So if he's sweet and sincear, u never know. I would say to wait a little while longer, see how he reacts at "hints", then outright tell him. Of course dont tell him that you want to meet him yet, save that for later if you know what i mean. hehe. But all in all good luck i really hope it works out for you one of my good buddys is sorta going through the same thinjg *in fact i haev a thread about it* and things are going good. so good luck to your and have a good time! |
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Nov 14 2004, 07:56 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Haha just tell him you have a crush on him online. Then maybe you guys can meet and become a.. real couple?
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Nov 14 2004, 08:03 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE Haha just tell him you have a crush on him online. Then maybe you guys can meet and become a.. real couple? Yeaah. I was just going to say that. Tell him online. =P |
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Nov 14 2004, 08:37 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
QUOTE Then maybe you guys can meet and become a.. real couple? meeting him? that would be kind of scary. but if you really like him, i think you should tell him. most likely he would like you too.
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Nov 15 2004, 12:57 AM
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:hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
QUOTE(tooeffingcrazy @ Nov 14 2004, 5:37 PM) meeting him? that would be kind of scary. but if you really like him, i think you should tell him. most likely he would like you too. Meh. There's always those scary risks... but yeah. |
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Nov 15 2004, 01:18 AM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
I honestly don't think any real relationships can result from the internet. Sorry, but I just think you need to KNOW him, like actually know him. You can't tell from his body language whether or not he's lying, etc. And besides, he could be an evil stalker dude, out to get you any minute.
I wouldn't take the chance. |
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Nov 15 2004, 02:01 AM
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~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
QUOTE(barelyy_coherent @ Nov 14 2004, 10:18 PM) I honestly don't think any real relationships can result from the internet. Sorry, but I just think you need to KNOW him, like actually know him. You can't tell from his body language whether or not he's lying, etc. you never know.. and besides, not everyone is a stalker, and people can put on mask in rl too |
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Nov 15 2004, 04:51 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,889 |
 stalker!!thas kind of scary, thx for the great advice, i just feel really weird about teling him cuz i really know know when to.. if there's a right time.. hope i dont screw it up!!
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Nov 15 2004, 05:02 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
jeez, be smart. He can be a evil 66 fat old guy who wants to rape you. be logical here..
-edit- i just read the whole thing sooo idk..he can still be a...bleh.. |
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Nov 18 2004, 01:58 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
i mean love can happen newhere....so just tell him online and if he says no...forgetting him is just ONE CLiCK AWAY... he sounds really nice and you guys should meet up and go eat or watch a movie
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Nov 18 2004, 03:04 AM
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 The Original Sparx Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,370 |
If you really like him, ask him how he feels about meeting up for an informal "date". See how well you get along in person before you pursue the relationship. Like some others have said, be cautious, because it's entirely possible that he could turn out to be some crazy stalker dude. Meet somewhere in public, where there's a good chance that other people will be around. If you really like him, and he returns the feelings, go for it!
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Nov 18 2004, 07:28 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
First you need to make sure he really is who he says he is and not some old pervert. Exchange pics, webcam and talk on the phone.
Tell him you like him online and see how he responds. if he doesn't feel the same way, it's not much of a lost. If he feels the same way, you guys can always meet up. |
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