asking out online.., what you think about it? |
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 Nov 14 2004, 02:39 PM
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 The Bone Collector  Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162  |
asking out online is very low. its not only low, but it makes you lose your self confident like you said. and if you ask online, then when you guys acually go out together.. then you will get really shy, and then the relationship is not even a real relationship
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| *instantmusic* |
Nov 14 2004, 04:13 PM
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no. (period)
 only exception is if your 4'10 and 230 lbs. |
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Nov 14 2004, 04:26 PM
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 my <3 is in Ohio Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599 |
i don't really like it because you can see the person face to face and see if they're being honest about it or not. i dunno i just think it's better in person but hey what do i know?
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Nov 14 2004, 04:32 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
online...
ehh. it's a tricky business there. i would advise anyone not to do so unless you're sure you're ready for a long distance thing. |
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Nov 14 2004, 05:40 PM
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what i think about asking out online..shows how cowardly you are. you're not really seeing their expressions or with them in person, so it's easy. you can just simply say i g2g, and sign off if they said no.
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Nov 15 2004, 10:23 PM
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 xinistical member Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,328 |
i asked someone online once and he rejected me...so i'm kinda glad that i didn't ask him in person...it hurts more but that also means that i'm too coward to do it in person...actually it was over the summer and i couldn't see him neways.
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Nov 15 2004, 11:03 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
i think its kinda lame....if thats how you choose to do it, you may not have balls =)
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Dec 15 2004, 02:21 AM
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yeh askin online wuld be easier..but the person hu was asked wuld feel that you don't care enough about about him/her to gather ur confidence and ask her out in person...????/ ok i didn't make any sense
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Dec 16 2004, 02:36 PM
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john, will you go out with me?
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Dec 16 2004, 04:52 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
i think asking some one out online is stupid. i mean if u can't ask them out in person then wat confidence are u gonna have when u are with them? im a shy guy and i mean really shy but i have never asked out any one online and never will.
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| *FreeStickers* |
Dec 16 2004, 05:11 PM
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Asking someone out online seems kind of lame.
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Dec 16 2004, 07:33 PM
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 Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
I'd say it would be appropriate if it were just like hanging out at the movies and what not, but i mean if you were asking them to the prom or soemthing, i'd choose the phone or maybe even better, in person
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| *x____duckii* |
Dec 16 2004, 09:21 PM
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I'd never go out with someone that I'll barely see and met from the internet. It's just too sketchy.
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Dec 16 2004, 10:12 PM
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Tinay Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,050 |
Oh i thought you meant asking out a friend and talking to her online about. Jeez i'm slow
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Dec 16 2004, 10:26 PM
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true story:
guy on AIM: will you go to the dance with me? girl 1 on AIM: ....wtf? next day at school, girl 1's friend goes up to that guy in person. friend kicks guy in balls. then says, "just making sure you have some" so yeah, don't do it. it's soooo much better in person. online is so impersonal. |
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Dec 17 2004, 04:41 PM
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 love sucks...big time jessir.. Group: Member Posts: 661 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,644 |
ive been asked out on messenger the last guy i went out with to be exact and he asked me there because he was SHY obviously..if he has a fear of rejection things wud go easier online then in person..( and we were talking on the phone and online when he asked me )
and he dumped me online too..but it hurt les..u kno..without having to hear his voice..( he asked if i wanted to know online or on the phone though..) we know eachother personally..he goes to my school. |
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Dec 17 2004, 06:17 PM
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Ii think it's better when u ask someone in person cuz dis is a really important thing and u don't really want to mess it up and its not really nice when u don't get to see da person and atually talk to her ...it's more important when u actually see her and ask her dt way so yeah
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Dec 17 2004, 06:53 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
my current bf asked me out online. i really don't like it when guys do that though, b/c it's more personal in person. but oh well. at least they ask.
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Dec 17 2004, 11:48 PM
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dkjfdk . Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,854 |
People do that to me sometimes, I think it`s stupid. First off, YOU DON`T EVEN KNOW WHO THE HEKK THIS PERSON IS !! Which is gay .. So my answer`s no. NEVER do that.
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Dec 17 2004, 11:56 PM
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what's love anyways.? Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,198 |
i think it's dumb... very pointless asking them out. i feel the point of askin out is to express how u feel personally. so if it's not face to face, then it's not really worth anything. it's just not the same... it doesn't show u don't really care as much as u think.
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Dec 18 2004, 12:01 AM
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 hi, my name is brianna! =] Group: Official Member Posts: 5,764 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,114 |
I don't really think it's dumb, but it would be better to ask someone out in person. But yeah, I think that it's a lot easier for me ask them out online, because it's like..you don't have to look at them, and you might feel nervous, since it's your crush, or whatever..><;;
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Dec 18 2004, 01:00 AM
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 Tree Hugger Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,015 |
It is easier... Thats why I like it when guys DONT do it online, cuz it shows that they have enough courage to face you and tell you. And if they dont have courage to tell u this to ur face, then what will it be like if the person actually says yes???
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Dec 18 2004, 01:07 AM
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hi, my name is brianna! =] Group: Official Member Posts: 5,764 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,114 |
QUOTE(remini @ Dec 17 2004, 10:00 PM) It is easier... Thats why I like it when guys DONT do it online, cuz it shows that they have enough courage to face you and tell you. And if they dont have courage to tell u this to ur face, then what will it be like if the person actually says yes??? Wow. You have a way with words. 
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Dec 18 2004, 02:05 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
It's easier, but true, it will be more awkward. But hey, it's better to have it awkward first. Getting to know each other online.. It's like.. you are not for sure what that person will say. I can't trust the internet too well.. I mean, what if someone else was on his/her screen name?
 That would be embarrassing. I remember I THOUGH my boyfriend was talking to me and that he messed up during his 6 hour behind the wheel last year and got his permit revoked. Turns out, it was his BROTHER who said that, so really, he didn't get it revoked and passed. I was pissed, lol.At least when one talks to another in person, there's eye contact and one is sure that the other is listening. And I agree with remini... asking in person shows that the guy/girl has the courage :] |
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Dec 19 2004, 12:15 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
for a moment, i thought you were this one guy i know.
anyways, if you're reaaaaally shy, maybe asking online is okay. but, i say you be brave and ask her out face to face. that way, you'll see her reaction and her smile if she does say yes. |
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