he's stalking me again, . Options

[islandkiss]

he's stalking me again

he somehow found my address and guess what?


he came to my house. he literally stood outside and waited there. omgosh. i'm so worried, he's a violent jerk. he'd do anything to get his way. what am I to do?.. he'll come again. sigh.

he can't cut the crap. he's been sending me tons and tons of emails. and he enclosed them with 'much love' . I feel so unsafe and paranoid.

edit.

you should have a glimse of one of our recent emails.

Date: Thu, 11 Nov 2004 18:09:35 -0800 (PST)
From: "kelly pan" <heaven_sent179@yahoo.com>  Add to Address Book
Subject: screw you. 
To: Mystuffny@aol.com

   
Oh right. You just happened to know I lived around bay terrace.

yeah, it really isn't called stalking when you, quote-unquote knock on every single freaking door trying to.. “find me” ?  (sarcasim intended)



I did tell you that I didn’t want ANYTHING from you. But remember?, you insisted on buying me something. So don’t ever say that I “didn’t tell you no”. so what if you heard my grandma and I talking. It’s not like you understood anything.


Mystuffny@aol.com wrote: o and i didnt have ur address.. i went down the whole way knocking on each and every door until i came to ur house so dont report me to the cops for sum stupid shit like stalkin

[grlzl0vemeeh]

woah this guy seems scary id call the cops but first id tell him to stop if he dosent then id call the cops. and put his emails under spam or block them.....thats all i got i feel sorry for you...

[happygoluckyng]

call the fu<king cops

[mouse_3k]

call the popo, get a restraining order on him


either tht or do the dirty work urself. shoot him/murder him, strip his cloths off, dump him in a river, dump the gun in the river after u cleaned it with a peice of his cloths, then walk away. go home, then change ur cloths and pretend nothin ever happened

[picaso_smile]

Call the police, stay at a friend's house.

[islandkiss]

call the popo, get a restraining order on him

hm.. it isn't that easy. =/


my parents will freak out and become even more paranoid.

[sikdragon]

He's probably convinced himself that he loves you. Get a guy that is bigger than him and have him say you guys are going out. The new guy should scare him off or make him shy away. The cops aren't there to actually protect you so use them as a very last resort.

[rushx]

Ahhh yes.. The power of restraining orders.

[*wind&fire*]

carry chloroform or a tazer.... he doesnt even need to know you are there to use it....

[MzShortieAlli]

call the cops and tell ure parents maybe theyll let u move somewhere far awae

[mouse_3k]

call the popo, get a restraining order on him

hm.. it isn't that easy. =/

my second suggestion is always up

[Danny]

maybe hes one of those peopel who just wants everyone... so if you go with him and get all mushy and junk... he might leave you alone... actually dont do that... haha... its not a great idea... or smart.. just tell... him to bug off and say if he doesnt youll call the fbi to shoot him or something

[nas]

hm.. it isn't that easy. =/


my parents will freak out and become even more paranoid.

That is a f**king serious situation. My friend's life's been f**ked over because of these shit faced stalkers. If you want to end up like her, then go ahead keep running and asking people online what to do.


You seriously need to tell your parents and the cops. I'd be more scared of my life in danger rather than my parents getting paranoid.

[muffin dude 292]

you should really call the cops.. if you move he would proably follow you

[Oreo_bro]

life may be hard, and it may be tough but theres only one thing you can do.

Talk to your parents.

You can call the cops without telling, but then your parents may get mad at not telling them and the cops may not take you serious.

If you tell your parents many thigns could happen. They may call your school and tell your principle about the situation, which could lead to him and his parents having a talk, and if he still doesnt talk, your mom will try and keep your dad from getting his shotgun and she may call the police.

good luck, TELL YOUR PARENTS

[xx angelbabu xx]

call the cops!!!

[xj_liana_tx]

call the cops s probably awkward since its gona spread really fast, i dono... cops r the best ways tho

[conster]

wtf is his problem lols why is he stalkin u tho..? well i mean if its that obvious that he likes u.. why would he wanna treat u like this??? i think u should ask him why why hwyh why whyhwy!

and then call the cops.

[LiLaZnGirL122]

well first rite bac saying ima call da cops on u if u dont stop ORRRRRR if u hav a older sibling go tell ur bro or w/e to go beat him up or hav his frds come wit him jus to scarehim u noe having older siblings helps alot wen it comes to this shit or to hav less trouble call da cops if i was u i would b fu*ing scared!! gurl jus do wuts rite

[Suesterrx]

ahh the joys of pepper sprays

[literemix24]

i dink you should call the cops..righ..now.

[sammi rules you]

he's freaking psycho.
tell an adult.

[whywasisostupid]

tell somebody. maybe the counselors and maybe they can get sum sense into his head

[NatiMarie]

That's crazy. Tell the cops, a friend that can help you, or the counselor.
=\
That guy has some issues he needs to resolve so maybe if he searches for psychiatric help, it's for the better.
=X

[1--GIRL]

Go stab him with a fork then yell HAII YAH and kick him in the nuts.
er.. call the police