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 Nov 10 2004, 11:40 PM
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 doot doot doot  Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954  |
y dont u give u and him a period of time like a week, 2weeks and see if he can really keep up wit his words.
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Nov 11 2004, 06:46 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
QUOTE(nyCzxfOx @ Oct 27 2004, 3:05 PM) DUDE DONT DUMP HIM!!!!!! IMAGINE HOW THAT MIGHT RUIN HIM!! >_> he hit her. imagine how that ruins her. dump him, if he TRIED to hit yooh, he doesnt deserve yooh. or.. if yooh want, talk to him first, but break up with him afterwards. b/c its better to be safe then sorry. better to be safe nd not w/ him, then hurt nd w/ him. |
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Nov 11 2004, 07:58 PM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
well if you really really like him, you need to confront him about your feelings and how he really needs help. If that doesn't work, then I suggest to just leave him because you don't need to put up with this. You always need to think about ur own safety and hapiness first...if he doesn't make you feel safe and happy then it's not a healthy relationship.
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Nov 12 2004, 10:25 PM
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 life can be unfair to you & me Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,963 |
well if you truly love him, believe him. if he says that he won't do it again, then that means he won't do it again. if you like him so much, why don't you believe? and if he does the cutting part again, tell his parents about it in a secretly way so he doesn't find out that you are telling stuff to his parents. or ask him what's going on with his life that what he really wants to do with your guy's relationship. try to work it out by having a conversation. that's the best step.
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Nov 12 2004, 11:03 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
babi.. jus leave him hes just saying this but wen u forgiv him he gunna do it all over again jus break up with him its for da best
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Nov 12 2004, 11:40 PM
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dont u ppl get that he'll get upset and start to cut even more?
talk to his sister or parents.. more importantly, talk to him.. get him to wear pink.. bandage up his boo boos.. it seems hard.. but if he loves u, he would sacrafice anything even though it sounds like he doesnt fully love u as if like.. 100% if he tried to hit u. i would run away from him, and lock the doors but thats just me.. |
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Nov 13 2004, 08:45 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
don't be with him; it'll put too much stress on you.
call up his parents or something, get him some help.. suggest antidepressants perhaps.. he's def not doing too well. =/ i know you care about him, and you don't want to break up with him..but it's not good for you to undergo that. |
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Nov 14 2004, 02:38 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
i agree with everybody....u would be better off if u broke up with him and maybe not even be friends. cuz then theres no point, its gonna make u feel awkward
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Nov 14 2004, 11:01 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
it doesn't matter that he cuts himself, that is his choice, if you still care about him go back with him, he said sorry so he must care about you too
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Nov 14 2004, 05:52 PM
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hmm..do you and him still talk to each other? he's an idiot for getting mad at you for that reason in the first place. give him a second chance and if he continues to be stupid, then you know that it isn't gonna work out.
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Nov 14 2004, 08:46 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
i highly encourage you to leave him. he isnt worth your time. he has no respect for you. he is a bad influence on you. but if you do leave him, he will start cutting again. which is a little scary. you should tell someone to talk to him about his problems. cause if you acually do stay with him, theres a high possibility that he will hurt you mentally and physically. but if you want to take a chance with him one more time, js take a 1-2 week break. if he agrees on that, you not only see him progressing, but you can see if he is truly sorry.
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Nov 16 2004, 02:11 PM
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first, try and talk to him .. tell him that you wont him to stop doing all the bad crap thats he doing .. and just try and help him as much as you can .. if that doesnt work, then there isnt anything you can do .. you cant make someone want help, so if he doesnt want help .. just leave him alone .. tell him that you want him to change, because u dont think hes doing the right things .. if he doesnt listen, then just leave him .. if he really loves you and wants to be with you, then he'll stop what hes doing
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