i keep on thinking about this guy...., i want to know your thoughts... :/ Options

[angelrevelation]

i keep on thinking about this guy at school. he's really popular, and i'm not, but we really bonded over the summer. then when school started again we grew apart. and somehow in both classes i have with him, he either sits right in front of me or right besid me! is it some cruel joke the teachers play?? cuz i think he likes me (cuz i see him looking at me a lot and stuff) but he like... is popular! how could he like me?? i mean i'm not sure if i like him either. and i know that i'm worrying too much about it, but -_-. and in my blogger he commented that i'm as hot as (h...) yea... so i dont see how that's possible. he was just joking right? i just wanna know what you guys think about it. cuz i seriously dont think i'm his type lol srry this is long....

[jambaJUICE]

Popularity doesn't matter shit.

So how's about you just straight out ask him, "Do you like me... as in more than just a friend?"

[xpressionist04]

first off...how do you know you're not his type? just b/c hes popular doesn't mean that he only dates people in the "in crowd" ...you never know he might be different from other people. I think this guy likes you or he could be a jerk and just messing with your head but i think he likes you...but thats just my opinion. Make sure that this guy likes you for you and not what you can be! make sure he isn't embarassed to show you off around his friends or afraid to be with you in public...if he is then maybe he doesn't really like you.

[mz anita xP]

wow !! that was lik me before i dated my ex, MY GOD HE IS SO FREAKING HOT and yeah he was popular. everyone seems to know him or who he is. i was jus some shy girl and so totally unpopular. but pretty ironic that he actually like me and stuff. we dated like 9months, so its not like those movies that show popular guys playing the unpopular girls lol

[angelrevelation]

i think i'm not his type because all the girls he's dated in the past are totally not like me at all

[angelrevelation]

and one moment i think he likes me and the next moment i think he's playing with my head...

[lilJdawg]

popularity doesn't really matter. just go tell him straight up. " do you like me? " yeahhhuuupp. that will give you your answer.

[pbear]

have some confidence in yourself.
just gather up your courage, hope for the best, and ask him straight up.
what's the worst that can happen?

[angelrevelation]

hmm.... can i make this topic go all the way to the top again? anyways... i would never be able to do that like just ask him 0_0 it would be SOOO embarassing if he didn't like me and it was all in my head 0_0_0_0 i'm wayyy too shy (about that sorta thing)

[sunissed14127]

well it doesnt really matter if he's popular....and if u keep on thinking about him,you are either bugged about something that has to do with him,or you might be forming a little crush.at least thats what usually happends 2 me. sometimes it even takes me a while to admit to myself that i like someone,because it;s almost like i'm saying to myself,no,i dont like him,or i dont want to like him. and if you want to know if he likes you,ask him. or ask some people to sk him or something.

[XDarkDestinyX]

Popular doesn't matter, but I shouldn't be saying that since I'm slightly in the same problem. I have a crush on this guy and he is sky high on the popular list. But all you can do and should do is talk with him, and don't care about the popular. What I do is talk with him, even though he is popular. There is a chance that he likes you if he looks at you~

[xPartyGrlDx]

forget about popularity
anyways, do you like him back? well if you do you should flirt with him too...tell him you like him...'cause he may be just scared to tell you!

[ThePrincessofTKD]

have some confidence in yourself.
just gather up your courage, hope for the best, and ask him straight up.
what's the worst that can happen?

^^i agree. and the fact is, you`re in denial.

ask yourself these questions:
do i like him?
is he worth it?

[angelrevelation]

lol hehehe *blushes* well i never said i DIDNT like him... i just said i'm not SURE..... and i'm not exactly the outgoing type

[pink_tootsie]

popularity is not a factor, if you really want to know how he feels for you then ask him if he has feelings for you too

[angelrevelation]

the thing is everytime i start thinking about doing that something comes up. like for instance, just now, he indirectly told me that he likes this girl... and yea... i wouldnt want to bring this up when he seems to like her a lot

[ThePrincessofTKD]

the thing is everytime i start thinking about doing that something comes up. like for instance, just now, he indirectly told me that he likes this girl... and yea... i wouldnt want to bring this up when he seems to like her a lot

omfg. give it up. if he likes someone else, he`s totally unavailable. what can you NOT see from that?

[jennifish]

iono. maybe its ur luckkkk.

[nlgrl]

dont worry if he's popular or not... be happy he likes you and down look at your self so low^^

[layourfeavergurl]

.. uhmm ... i have a problem .. i liek this dude named Vj and he has a gf ... but we like alot to eachother ... we have 2 classes togethr ... and in the morning he is holdin her hand... but he turns around and smiles and me ... i dont knoe wat to do .. i mean i fancy this dude soo much ... i dont knoe wat to do ..

*sigh* OB- brightnes mi day!

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[layourfeavergurl]

whoa thats big !! sry! ... but also we play with each othe r.. like smile and just talk non-stop ... and kinda touch .. i dobnt knoe wat to do ...

[jambaJUICE]

What dps we have here..

and whats with the hideous ob pic?

anyways.. have you done anything about it yet? or are u still hiding in your little corner? because quite frankly, if you don't step up to the plate, someone else will eat right off it before you even get a chance.

don't let your "popularity" factors and some other girls that are LONG GONE get in the way of your happiness.

[kiSHBall]

i would never go for a guy who seems to be liking another girl at the same time, or seem like the type that would just leave you once they get sick of u / find someone better even if i like him
my advice to u is.. boost up ur confidence!!
if he looks at u and stuf he obviously doesn't think you're ugly or anything.
popularity is bs.. trust us.

[lonelydevil426]

well i like this guy right now who WANTS to be popular and so he hangs out w/ all these popular girls and the ones he like are all popular too but then during the summer we were really really close and he was all like i wanna be there for u, and stuff like that. but after school started, we grew apart and at first we were still walking home together and talking but then later he stopped and told his friends that he thinks that i'm creepy cuz i like him. so unless u really know that that guy likes u back, i don't think u should ask him cuz then if he doesn't, he's gonna ignore u cuz it feels weird when someone likes u but u don't like them back. when he told me that he looks out fer me and stuff, i really thought that he mite like me but it turns out that he only liked me as a friend. and now we can't even be friends just cuz he knows that i like him.

[angelrevelation]

wow lonelydevil426 that's exactly what i'm thinking is gonna happen, so... but we still talk sometimes so i'm ok with that