asking out online.., what you think about it? |
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 Nov 9 2004, 11:43 PM
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it's supposed to be easier when you ask someone out online.. but like yea it'll make you less confident when you actually meet. so yea.. what you think?
edit:: do you guys think i'm doin this? it seems like you're giving me advice to see if i should do it or not.. i'm just askin what you think about it This post has been edited by jnukes: Nov 14 2004, 01:44 PM |
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Nov 9 2004, 11:45 PM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
i think asking is easy online but going would be the hard part. but in person asking is hard. but the rest is easy. so i think in person is betr or easier.
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| *stephinika* |
Nov 9 2004, 11:53 PM
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yeah i've been asked out over msn messenger a few years ago...lol but then we ended up deciding we were better off as friends...
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Nov 9 2004, 11:55 PM
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 I'm your worst nightmare... Group: Member Posts: 391 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,600 |
i think its better if a person asks you out in person. i mean like sometimes, you might not now if the person is actually fooling around with your emotions. like if you want to say something or ask them something, say it to their face
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Nov 10 2004, 12:10 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
dont ask people out online.
this one guy asked me out online and i said no, b/c i wasn't sure if he was serious. if he was kidding, and i said yes, i'd look stupid. but... he was serious =/ |
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Nov 10 2004, 12:17 AM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
QUOTE([X) poised,Nov 10 2004, 12:10 AM] dont ask people out online. this one guy asked me out online and i said no, b/c i wasn't sure if he was serious. if he was kidding, and i said yes, i'd look stupid. but... he was serious =/ that happened to me too... and i wouldn`t believe him because people do shizz like that to me all the time. |
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Nov 10 2004, 12:19 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Nov 9 2004, 11:17 PM) that happened to me too... and i wouldn`t believe him because people do shizz like that to me all the time. haha yknow what though? i wouldn't go out with someone who asks me out online. it shows they've got no balls. |
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Nov 10 2004, 12:30 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
theres nothing really wrong about it, but its not really charming either.
I suggest if ur gonna do it, mite as well do it in person, because it does have a big impact on how u choose to meet people and such |
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| *wind&fire* |
Nov 10 2004, 12:40 AM
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it shows that they dont realy like you enough to say it to your face...
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Nov 10 2004, 12:43 AM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
hahahahahahahaha...dont ever do that.
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Nov 10 2004, 12:45 AM
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Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
QUOTE([X) poised,Nov 10 2004, 12:19 AM] haha yknow what though? i wouldn't go out with someone who asks me out online. it shows they've got no balls. Heheh. Yeah i know, and plus, probably even if you had said yes, and he wasnt shitting you, you`re relationship would probably be through aim @.@ |
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Nov 10 2004, 01:16 AM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
I don't think it's as personal as ...in person. But i do think it's an easy way out. Just in case they don't feel the same about you, you can just...get off the computer without embarassment.
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Nov 10 2004, 04:35 AM
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asking other ppl out is easy
but for the person who is asked i think iz kinda stupid to go out because it might be a trick only if thats the case maybe u should first chat thru the phone~ |
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Nov 10 2004, 07:47 AM
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 creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
hahah yeah i know....call them or some thing if you cant do it in person
asking them out online would be kind of awkward @_@ |
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Nov 10 2004, 08:10 AM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Asking out people in real life is much better.
I mean sure, online could work, but why not just suck it up and ask it face to face? If you cant handle the person enough to ask them out..then you probably shouldn't start dateing them just yet. |
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| *Weird addiction* |
Nov 10 2004, 11:30 AM
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online is not bad but its very easy,i mean u can lie bout ur age,hehe,some advantage tho
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Nov 10 2004, 05:18 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
It's hard to tell if they're serious or not.
I've been asked out [through AIM] a few times.. but I'm not sure if some of them were geniunely serious. I know one of them was.. [sigh] I would probably ask someone out through AIM.. I'm really shy.
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Nov 10 2004, 10:54 PM
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my advice is never ask a girl out over the internet i did it myself once just a few months ago for a welcome back dance....i asked her online it was her sn but what i didnt know was that her neice(sorry if i spell it wrong) her neice was on her sn and i ended up asking her neice to the dance but she didnt go to my sckool so she didnt go but did make myself look like a fool....
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Nov 10 2004, 11:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
please don't.
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Nov 10 2004, 11:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 |
if you know the person, then hey go for it.
if not...then why bother? my boyfriend did, 9 months tomorrow.  (it didnt make him less confident of whatever, just it happened)you never know! |
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Nov 14 2004, 02:45 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
theres really nothing wrong with it but you dont feel the same because there are doubts about it like what if they're trying to be someone they arent or its just a prank cuz a guy asked me before and ahha u need a heck alot of TRUST to have an online relationship
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Nov 14 2004, 04:14 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,855 |
grow some nuts and do it in real life
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Nov 14 2004, 10:52 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, don't ask someone out online. you can never tell if they're serious or not.
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Nov 14 2004, 01:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,855 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Nov 14 2004, 10:52 AM) yeah, don't ask someone out online. you can never tell if they're serious or not. not to mention it's lame the girl should say no every time, b/c the guy obviously lacks the self-esteem or courage to do it in person..what kind of bf will that be |
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Nov 14 2004, 02:32 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i never know if the guy was serious or not. rawr
i said yes once cuz i was liike psh fine okay w/e and it was summer so i iddnt realy c nebody |
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