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 Nov 7 2004, 06:29 PM
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 A.K.A. Simplicityxx  Group: Member Posts: 1,878 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,813  |
i have family over in india ( im viet/chinese, and yes, my dads family moved to india). now 2 of my uncles and his family from there plan to move here. they plan at staying @ my house for a few months while they get everything straightened out. my family already has 4 ppl, so when they move in there will be 12 ppl altogether. i kno that they r good ppl and they will help around and cook but it is tremendoes stress on my mom. me and my brother are going 2 help her in anyway we can.
also, my dad is unemployed so having 8 more ppl move in with us is going 2 b hectic. my uncle is going to drop his kids off here and go back to india for a few weeks to finalize things. also, the same uncle is gonna get a kidney transplant. my dad is paying for all of this, plane trips, tickets, surgery, housing for my relatives, food for when they come. i have cousins up in seattle but my relatives dont want 2 move there. and what really pisses me off is that they r millionares and arent paying for anything. im worried for us financially, and the stress that it would be for my mom and dad. its bad enough i get so much homework and my brother will b off to college soon, but my cousins that are moving here will also be going 2 my skool. it mite not seem bad but for me, since this will b my first time meeting them, is gonna be really uncomfortable. does this sound confusing to you? this was pretty much to rant and get my feelings out. but ig u have any advice, please tell me. |
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Nov 7 2004, 06:33 PM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
don't worry maybe it will be all over soon, and im glad your family is helping out your mom, your dad will find a job soon. Just keep your hopes up.
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Nov 7 2004, 10:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
maybe someone should get a job in your family? it's nice how you're worrying for your family. hmm so they're just staying for a few months. i'm pretty sure you'll make it.
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Nov 13 2004, 09:19 AM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
yepp. Get a job 'n help your family. =] I'm sure things will turn out good in the end. xP
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Nov 13 2004, 10:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,266 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,600 |
Hmm.. yeah, get a job. And if you can't, don't go shopping as often and spend your money.. i dunno :P
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Nov 14 2004, 05:31 PM
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those people who are moving in should help pay for the stuff. and they should be the ones getting jobs. i give you a lot of props for dealing with this stuff. you have my sympathies. good luck with your whole family.
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Nov 18 2004, 02:08 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
i agree with shedding tears...someone or some people should get a job...and those millionaired...caca heads geez...i hope this all works out for you
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