i dump people after 1 day, like this is gettin annoy.. Options

[DoOdOox3]

iv had a few of bfs that i dump after just 1 day..
itz really queer cuz itz nobodyz fault
sometimes i just feel that i dont deserve the guy
or hez just so much of not a cheater that im afraid i would hurt him in the end
cuz i kno that i wont put in my whole heart... i just wont. cuz im too afraid to get hurt so i wont put all of my heart into anyone.

if itz once or twice itz ok.. but itz gettin way too many times.. pplz gonna start 2 think im weird man... ='[
well for one thing i dont wanna reject anyone.. but itz not like i accept everyone...

nd now my current bf.. itz been 2 days.. nd i start to havin doubtz nd worri that imma hurt him. hez actually the singer of a f**kin band.. i thought id be the one who gets hurt. but hez 2 nice nd sweet nd he just... he doesnt f**k around at shows... or anywhere... but im scared again... im almost 95%certain.. imma end this again..

this is gettin really annoy..
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[Looow]

It's time for you to take a break.

[diezelbabygrl_xo...]

I'm the same way, actually.


DON'T EVER think that you are not good enough for a guy. Because it shows. The last thing you need is to have a man treat you like a dog.

Maybe you have a problem with commitment?

It's okay to get hurt...so don't be afriad. The reason you go through relationships is to learn what kind of person you want out of life, so everyone gets hurt once and a while.

I think you should lay off guys for a while, and sure you can go through a couple of 'flings' (i.e. just dating around, I'm not saying mess around w/ everyone) just don't be so serious. Then I think it'll be off your chest once everything becomes serious.

[*krnxswat*]

Stop thinking too much.
Geez, take a break.

[gnawxela]

yeah it does get annoying...i agree with x uHoH iTs Lo x if your current bf dumps you too, take a break

[DoOdOox3]

tru that i cant keep commitments
but iv laid off for a while now
itz to the point that im numb i dont eve kno if i like the person

i really want to have the feeling like "omg i love this boy/girl.. " those excitements [not necesarrily obssessions] but im just feelin so numb. itz always like "ok you like me. thatz great" or "o you wanna go out wit me? cool."

iv gotten hurt so many times b4.. i really wanna trust pplz nd put my heart into someone. but itz not happening.

nd i kno that im lack of self confidence sometimes.. but i really dont show those.. if anything.. they say im aggresive nd confident. so i really dont have to worry about that part. but thanks for replyin.
=]
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[*krnxswat*]

Have patience, my friend.

There was a boy who ran into the fields with the hope of catching some lady bugs. After hours and hours, he couldn't catch a single lady bug. He soon gave up and, from all the running, he was tired and lied down on the field, falling asleep. Few hours later, he wakes up, and there they were, sitting on him.

Yeah, not exactly told at it's best.
But yeah, you get my point... or atleast I hope you do.

[DoOdOox3]

Have patience, my friend.

There was a boy who ran into the fields with the hope of catching some lady bugs. After hours and hours, he couldn't catch a single lady bug. He soon gave up and, from all the running, he was tired and lied down on the field, falling asleep. Few hours later, he wakes up, and there they were, sitting on him.

Yeah, not exactly told at it's best.
But yeah, you get my point... or atleast I hope you do.

hahha thanks! thatz a cute story actually

but nah itz not like im impatient about this.. im gettin a bad name outta this.. pplz start to say i hurt them or play with them.. i cant even explain.. cuz nobody would believe me.. cuz i really donno y i dump pplz after 1 day. like i can stay with him. but itd be mean nd retarded to just... let his feelings grow while you kno you aint gonna stay with him for long. now thatz gonna hurt him..

i hurt pplz without dating them.. i hurt pplz when i date them...

i actually really hope he can break up with me. so id be the one feelin stupid or something..
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[xquizit]

DON'T EVER think that you are not good enough for a guy. Because it shows. The last thing you need is to have a man treat you like a dog.

Good tip.


Perhaps you're just not ready for a relationship yet.

[gnawxela]

oh woops...sorry i didnt read your post right...i think you should ask yourself why you dump them? i dunno, maybe you've already asked yourself that question. if you're not ready for relationships, then you should probably wait until mr right comes along

[christiee_nax]

your still young anyway and you dont seem to want commitment. who needs a boyfriend? mwahahahah! go and be free! just remember to use protection


sorry if my post seemed wrong. i didnt read all of your post

[DoOdOox3]

your still young anyway and you dont seem to want commitment. who needs a boyfriend? mwahahahah! go and be free! just remember to use protection


sorry if my post seemed wrong. i didnt read all of your post

i like that
haha!

well yes i dont think im ready for commimentz. but i realy dont wanna screw around 2 much. cuz i hurt pplz like that. itz really bad. i hurt them if i dont go out with them. i hurt them if i go out with them. i can just hurt pplz even if i dont do anything...

i really hate it.
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[christiee_nax]

i hurt them if i dont go out with them.

well! thats how the cookie crumbles i guess! just go out in a hanging out sorta way. not as in going steady. its not like your planning to get married anyways

[houjin_himo]

ahha....take a BREAK....you probably werent really "in love" with them....it was probably just affection or lust

[jambaJUICE]

Just.. Breathe.
Stretch.
Shake.
Let it go.


It's okay. Just don't feel so insecure, and if you need help to think less, just think more, but use the thinking in video games

[Dusck]

too many boy friends in soo little time gives you a bad rep too! soo calm down, and be GOOD friends wit peopel

[shortiiex]

i think you should stop dating for a while and just think

[inthemudhole]

Uh?!?
You seem a bit immature to be dating.
I don't care how old you are.. you seem very immature.
If you're going to end relationships without really even getting to know the guy as a boyfriend.. that's just.. kind of odd.
Maybe you need to think about things a bit more before you end or continue the relationship.. either that, or you're just immature and need a break from dating. Just hang out with friends.. you don't necessarily need a boyfriend.

[straightedge9]

like InTheMudHole said... you seem very immature to be in any relationship. you shouldn't be going out with these people if you don't even know/like them. good grief just stop dating for a while...

[MeanBastard]

There are other options in the world besides guys since you are afraid.

[betrayedbytheduc...]

well you know you can't have every f**king guy in the world.You can't handle a relationship if you can't last more than a day. And sorry, but it's already too late if you don't want to be known as a player. As everyone else said, STOP THINKING TOO DAMN MUCH.

stop feeling sorry for the guys. some of them might only want to get in your pants. the others will get over you.

[DoOdOox3]

yeh i get w/e u guys were tryin 2 say..
i think i just never really liked anybody...
i got a bf the day b4 yesterday... nd altho i kno i dont LOVE him. but hez cool nd i like him.. nd ihope it lasts.....
i kno who i really want nd like... but i never wanna express it cuz i dont want us to go out and end like most relationships do.. i just wanna stay close friends nd be together forever...

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