Death Options

[jennyjenny]

Do you think it's more painful to die yourself, or to have someone you know and love die?

For me, I would have to say it's more painful for a loved one to die.
Even though no one I knew have died except my grandfather when I was 6, but for some reason I got over it really quickly.

Yeah.

Share your stories about dying.

[Saeglopur]

Well..

If I die, only I would be pained, physically but (I'm pretty sure..) if I die, many relatives would be hurt spiritually.

Same goes for the someone I love... except, in a different perspective.

[sheepy]

i agree with you.

cus when i die; i dunt dink i'll feel anything; at lesat i HOPE i dunt.

[dreamerOi]

Hurts more if someone i love died. Because i'm emotionally hurt much more than any type of phsyical pain. Plus the so called pain would only last for a while but if someone i love died then i would be emotionally unstable for the longest time.

[FALLENstar009]

I know it would hurt worse either way. in both ways, your hurting someone

[Flip-o-Matic]

for me, someone close to me dying would be more painful than dying myself... but then again, i had 3 close ppl die on me already, to the point that i wanted to die to see them again, and i thought to myself, dying would be painful, for me and to my loved ones, and den dere's dis thing widd me not wanting my relatives and loved ones to die cuz it'd cause more pain versus the me dying thing and my spiritual thought of getting trapped in eternal pain if i killed myself for them, or then again...i'm juss confuzzed... XD ?.?

[iheartsimba]

both. theres no more or less....because it would hurt to die myself not knoing whats gonna happen....like would i disappear? is there reall a heaven? reincarnation? then for a loved one...well that would be just as horrible

[Jonathank91]

Id rather die myself.but like die of old age not being murdered or falling off a cliff.

[Spirited Away]

It's painful both ways.

Dying myself will cause pain to my loved ones and that will hurt me beyond words. When they die, it would also hurt.

[1--GIRL]

It's painful both ways.

Dying myself will cause pain to my loved ones and that will hurt me beyond words. When they die, it would also hurt.

Agreed

[my_loser_life666]

when one i love dies i show no remorse. death cannot be slowed or avoided. why cry over something which is destined to happen? my death? i simply work on speeding up the process

[Spirited Away]

Death is inevitable, yes, but not without pain. We have emotions for a reason.

To each his own, I guess .

[PinkTrash]

Well I have experienced a loved one dieing, but I dont know, is it painful to die yourself? Never experienced that before [duh..] but I guess a loved one dieing would be way worse.

[pAtRiCk_sTar]

i think a loved one. cause if u die it might be quick n instant, but i'd miss loved ones reeeeaaaallly badly, n da pain wouldnt go away

[magnificentmike]

i dont know, but think, you dieing can hurt others very badly..so either way it's sad

[WhiteLotus*]

Agreed

Also, agreed.

[HelloSunshine]

to have someone I know and love die..THAT would KILL me...you wouldn't believe how much it would hurt me

[pink_tootsie]

in my opinion, it is more painful if someone i love and cared for died..

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

either way it hurts.

IF someone dies and im close to them, its gonna damage me.

If i die, and my love ones are left without me, im sure they will be sad, and knowing that makes u sad.

so yea..both are equally gay

[*stephinika*]

both suck, just like everyone said and its hard to say which is worse since i haven't experienced either.

[xj_liana_tx]

i m very sensitive to pain, so i would not like to die, but then, who isnt?
well it would be really painful for a loved one to die too, and i tried to imagine myself in the situation, i think i mite die for them...

[Shattered_Hope]

it is more painful when someone we love dies...why? becuz they are taking a part of us with them...in other words..they are gone..and you are alone to bear with the pain. everyone goes through with this..some hate it..some bear with it...its the natural process of life.

[sammi rules you]

good topic.

i think it's more painful when someone you love dies. then you have to live through every day not being able to have them with you. it's torture.

[LiLrEbL365]

i dont know because i havent died before...

but i've had lots of loved ones die...and it sucks

[DoOdOox3]

i use this to see if i LOVE the person

i tell myself..
let him/her die
or me die

if i choose myself.. that means i love them
cuz you really have to think it hard nd make it real.
thatz how you can get a real answer

but anywayzzz
to answer ur question.. def the loved ones
you cant say you love them if you would let them die nd live on urself you kno
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