wtf s wrong about being a COMPLETE virgin? |
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 Nov 5 2004, 02:12 AM
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 i'll be just fine  Group: Member Posts: 322 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,428  |
*cough*media*cough*
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Nov 5 2004, 02:16 AM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
nothing. im a virgin as well. half the people i know are& the other half arent. i think if your not a virgin at this age well it could have been a mistake most likely or youll feel as if he wasnt the right guy. depends. but always a reason. im a virgin because i want to have it with someone i may marry. or love trully.
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Nov 5 2004, 05:58 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
i dont think theres nothing wrong with it...
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Nov 5 2004, 06:29 AM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
haaha girlyyy
therez nothing wrong with you i wish i could be as pure as you [not sayin im a slut pft] itz really awesome that you are protecting yourself. you respect yourself... thatz really important. dont worry about it. you are not a loser. no way =]] X |
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Nov 5 2004, 07:50 AM
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 *rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Nov 4 2004, 8:05 PM) ok, well this is wat happend. i was like chillin with my frinds and stuff and at one point of the convo, we started to talk about guys (i dont mean to exclude all the guys here) and everything, and like i was like "well i ve never had a bf so i wouldn't no.." and then ther s a period of silence, and they were like shocked like i shrunk into the size of n ant or something, and they kept askin me questions, and i was like no i haven't kissed a guy, and stuff. and they were just.. shocked. i mean, yeah i m a complete virgin, so wat?? wtf s wrong about it, i mean i m not perfect and i dont wna be a slut and go out n make out with everyone i no (i dont wna get mono).. its like they just regarded me differently after that. i mean.. am i seriuosly a loser now just cuz i am the way i am? I don't think there's anytyhing wrong with that either. But I don't tell my guy friends that I've never had a BF (I'm a complete virgin too) except for one of my really close friends and he wasn't shocked or anything. I just know alot of people that would get shocked so i keep it to myself. xD. |
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| *Weird addiction* |
Nov 5 2004, 08:32 AM
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its not bad but its wierd u know neva kissed a guy??...but its not bad
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Nov 5 2004, 11:52 AM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Nov 4 2004, 10:23 PM) thanx guys, these r really good advice and support. ok just to accentuate the point here, wat i mean by a complete virgin is not mainly about how i abstinent, but its sort of about how i um... (lowers head) never made out and never had a bf?? (runs away), but go on, sry to interrupt. if you want a b'f then get one. if you want to kiss somone then do it. but don't feel bad that you havn't. in some cases you should even feel proud. look at people fighting with their significant other and go "ha! i never had to deal with that" |
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Nov 5 2004, 03:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i never had a bf,too. there is nothing worng with being a virgin..that saves trouble of being pregnet
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Nov 5 2004, 03:34 PM
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yes, you're a loser, go have sex with your brother, now!
 it's like whatever, i don't see the big deal with being one or not being one |
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Nov 5 2004, 05:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
QUOTE(milky_yumm @ Nov 5 2004, 12:12 AM) and from the picks ive seen of you you seem pretty and nice, i dont see why you havent been asked out yet...or have you...   well i ve been asked out, i ve just never said "yes", cuz well, i dont like them and i dont see the reason y i should just go out with them and go "o look i have a bf." or just purely use them. |
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Nov 5 2004, 07:16 PM
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 D.J. headPHONES Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,807 |
^yeah, that makes sence...=]
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Nov 8 2004, 01:41 AM
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making out with boys or having a b/f isnt the greatest thing in the world. trust me, i know, ive been through it, and i regret it so much.
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Nov 8 2004, 03:07 AM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
Well...in that case I think there's something terribly wrong about your friends. Because most of the people I know are complete, UTTER virgins who haven't gone out with a guy or received a peck on the cheek either.
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Nov 8 2004, 06:49 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
your friends are real jerks... -___-"
theres nothing rong with being a complete virgin.. u just havent found the rite dood to be yours.. i havent kissed anybody befor either! -high five-  x3, cindy |
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Nov 8 2004, 06:50 PM
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 Carried away Group: Member Posts: 356 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,462 |
QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Nov 4 2004, 10:01 PM) don't let anyone make you think you're less of a person for protecting yourself. you have self-respect which is so much better than any acceptance to some rediculous fad. don't let them get to you. Power to that. Don't let them get to you. Kids these days are just rushing through life. Being shocked at you not being a slut is quite immature. Power to you! 
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Nov 8 2004, 08:30 PM
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 naners Group: Member Posts: 113 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,394 |
There is nothing wrong with it. I didn't have a bf until 2 years ago when most of my friends did like 4-5 years ago and were kissing/making out by the time I finally got a bf. And now I have done stuff but that only started about 2 months ago.
Most of the time people are jsut shocked because a lot of people are doing stuff young now. |
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Nov 8 2004, 08:32 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I respect you.
Seriously, I do. <--Virgin. Are you taking kissing/cuddling/holding hands/having a boyfriend as part of the virginity? Then I guess I'm not a "complete" virgin if you take that into consideration.. but I haven't really even gotten to first base.. just a peck or two. Anyway, I'm rambling. |
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Nov 8 2004, 08:37 PM
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 im such a dork.. Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,120 |
ive had a few bfs... never made out or anything like that thou... so dont worry about wut other people think cuz u should talk ur own time.. in the end ull be glad u did.
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Nov 8 2004, 08:38 PM
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 [you know it's not love] Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,026 |
i think it's great that you are still. in a society that pressures girls more and more to have sex earlier, i comend you for holding off.
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Nov 8 2004, 08:42 PM
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Haha, there's nothing wrong with being a complete virgin. your friends are just being jerks. also, just because you kiss someone or makeout with someone doesn't mean youre a slut.
um. anyway, it's good that you don't go around making out with random kids. it shows you have respect for yourself. |
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Nov 8 2004, 08:50 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
what's wrong with 'being a complete virgin?'
you control your own life and make your own decisions. so what if you feel like you aren't ready to take on 'bigger' things? << my point is, is that you aren't the only person who hasn't experienced these things, like I am, and there isn't anything wrong with that. 
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Nov 9 2004, 12:48 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,188 |
Just because all of your friends are not complete virgins, it doesn't make you a loser because you are one. It's your choice what you want to do or not so don't feel pressured to do things just because your friends have. Have a bf/make out with someone only when YOU are ready.
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Nov 9 2004, 03:27 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,520 |
personally i think that being a complete virgin is a GOOD thing.
but then again, i'm only one person. so to answer your question.. no, there is nothing wrong with u =) |
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Nov 9 2004, 06:38 AM
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 i'm the dork :P Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,472 |
there is absolutly nothing wrong with being a virgin
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Nov 9 2004, 10:34 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
no way. if your friends cant take you for who you are; then thats just too bad for them.
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