wtf s wrong about being a COMPLETE virgin? |
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 Nov 4 2004, 07:05 PM
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ok, well this is wat happend. i was like chillin with my frinds and stuff and at one point of the convo, we started to talk about guys (i dont mean to exclude all the guys here) and everything, and like i was like "well i ve never had a bf so i wouldn't no.." and then ther s a period of silence, and they were like shocked like i shrunk into the size of n ant or something, and they kept askin me questions, and i was like no i haven't kissed a guy, and stuff. and they were just.. shocked.
i mean, yeah i m a complete virgin, so wat?? wtf s wrong about it, i mean i m not perfect and i dont wna be a slut and go out n make out with everyone i no (i dont wna get mono).. its like they just regarded me differently after that. i mean.. am i seriuosly a loser now just cuz i am the way i am? |
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Nov 4 2004, 07:08 PM
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yeah, if you think youre discluding the guys it should go in girls locker
but yeah, i am too  but most of my friends are too (or were until this year) so its not that bad yet.
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Nov 4 2004, 07:10 PM
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QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Nov 4 2004, 7:05 PM) i dont wna get mono uh...the chances of gettin mono is actualy very small i think. im not sure. ur not weird. but. i dont know anyboyd whos never made out/kiss or wahtever. maybe u shuld have kepy ur mouth shut about the whoole 'no boyfreind thing' |
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Nov 4 2004, 07:16 PM
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theres nothing wrong for never doing any of those =] your friends shouldnt react this way, i mean like if they're really your true friends, they would know you well enough and wouldnt mind about who you are. if you dont wanna go outs yet or make out or anything yet, then dont. its your choice, no theirs. whatever they believe in shouldnt affect you at all. you're not a loser and you're not weird.
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Nov 4 2004, 07:25 PM
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don't listen to em. If you don't want to you don't have to. And if you want to stay a virgin til your married thats fine too. (I know I do!) The guy for you will come along someday. Just hold in there. And yeah, people will make fun of you, but pay no attention to them. Kinda like Jessica Simpson. But theres nothing wrong with being a virgin. If you find one that does tell you why its wrong, let me know. Cause I'd like to know too.
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Nov 4 2004, 07:27 PM
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QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Nov 4 2004, 7:10 PM) uh...the chances of gettin mono is actualy very small i think. im not sure. ur not weird. but. i dont know anyboyd whos never made out/kiss or wahtever. maybe u shuld have kepy ur mouth shut about the whoole 'no boyfreind thing' the chances of getting mono arent that slim. my friend go mono from her fist boyfriend last year. she tried to cover it up and say that she had a fever, but even her older brother admitted the truth |
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Nov 4 2004, 07:31 PM
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rueyaroo Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,776 |
you could get..sexual diseases through kissing.....
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Nov 4 2004, 07:43 PM
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 NO. I'm not 13. or 14. or 15. or 16. Group: Member Posts: 4,616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,577 |
there's nothing wrong with it =) everyone's different and hopefully your friends will respect that. you should do what you want and not what everyone else thinks you should do.
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Nov 4 2004, 07:49 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Tell them, "At least, I won't end up being pregnant with a man who'll leave me and end up not going to college and living in some beat up trailer because my moma disowned me and won't let me back in the house."
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Nov 4 2004, 07:51 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
theres nothing wrong with it...youll find yur guy someday, why rush?
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Nov 4 2004, 07:53 PM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
There's nothing wrong with it. I'm a complete virgin and some wish they were too. It's not bad... keep doing what you're doing... cause its right
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Nov 4 2004, 08:02 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
there's nothing wrong with that at all. go you for not being a total slut.
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Nov 4 2004, 08:30 PM
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i think kids these gae are going wayyyy to fast. this girl is 13 and we were talking she goes "i'm not a vrigin. i lost it to fred" (i forgot the guy's name). i was like whoa there. then all these girls are sittin on the boys lap and talkin about making out. we're only in middle skool. i agree with you. there's nothing wrong with it.
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Nov 4 2004, 08:33 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
geez they should understand that its your own descision to do what you want. what kinda friends do that to you!
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Nov 4 2004, 08:37 PM
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Nov 4 2004, 08:38 PM
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I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
yah. i wouldnt wanna be pregnant at my age.
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Nov 4 2004, 09:12 PM
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 .Im.not.your.star. Group: Member Posts: 108 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,675 |
Even though, I'm not a virgin, I can say I'm perfectly happy with who i lost it to and when I did it(a Childhood best/f). It's great you can hold your head up high and admit that you've never done anything. My scardy ass would of been lying. Well, back then anyways,not now. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing. Do what you feel is right, and I'm sure ten years from now they'll be going 'Oh..i wish I waited..ect ect.' It's cool to have that kind of restraint it just shows how much smarter you are than people who make out with everyone other guy.
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Nov 4 2004, 09:14 PM
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ehh society makes you think that you should have a boyfriend and etc...but you know what, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it
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Nov 4 2004, 09:47 PM
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Nothing wrong with it. That's me, sort of...  It's a good thing though. My dad would kill me if he found out I even gave my friend a peck. 
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Nov 4 2004, 09:50 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
Nothings wrong with being a virgin.
Maybe they`re just surprised that since you`re pretty, and a cheerleader, they figured that you shud have had a boyfriend and done stuff*shrugs*. But there is a lot of stuff wrong with being female. 
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Nov 4 2004, 10:01 PM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
don't let anyone make you think you're less of a person for protecting yourself. you have self-respect which is so much better than any acceptance to some rediculous fad. don't let them get to you.
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Nov 4 2004, 10:18 PM
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Nothing.
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Nov 4 2004, 10:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
thanx guys, these r really good advice and support. ok just to accentuate the point here, wat i mean by a complete virgin is not mainly about how i abstinent, but its sort of about how i um... (lowers head) never made out and never had a bf?? (runs away), but go on, sry to interrupt.
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Nov 5 2004, 12:12 AM
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 D.J. headPHONES Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,807 |
i anno. i thinks its kinda odd, but all my friends had there first b/f at the age of like, 10! i know...sad, but true (me included. ..actauly earlier, much, if you cont in prek hoe we would ger married, HAHA, good times good times...
) but thats just me. i think its cool you dont care about that stuff, your prolly really good in school unlike a bunch of my friend who dont focous on that at all any more...  ... but i wouldnet be that PROUD of it... i mean like, dont be all, i have never had a bf and you have so , HA im better than you. and, i dont think you would .. just sayin.and from the picks ive seen of you you seem pretty and nice, i dont see why you havent been asked out yet...or have you... 
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Nov 5 2004, 12:17 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
no... that doesnt make u a loser at all
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