..Frozen in time.., X_x Help.. *meep* Options

[EvraeMorbid]

Alright Alright. First I'm new here, some of you know that if you've been to my intro thread. Anyhoo, I've been dating my boyfriend for ten months now (straight), and he's the overly protective, jealous,emo-ish type of guy. I have some of my guy friends that are intrested in me, and have been for quiet some while. I'm thinking Kyle (my b/f) and I need a break. We constanly bicker, and get into stupid arguments that are a day or so long. We both have trust issues from our past Ex's, and things just get to seem be rocky with us. This has been going on for quiet some while, and I think maybe if we take a break (*gasps*<--some of my irl friends reactions.)we might have that ole' fresh couple feeling back again.

Well..thanks for listening to me complane
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Evrae

[mz anita xP]

well, most breaks lead to break up, not saying it always does cus when i had two breaks with my ex but we didnt break up until now that we did without a break tho. um...you guys really need to trust each other and give each other privacy. i was really insecure with my ex, i always check on him and stuff, yeah it was not right and pretty stupid but i jus cant help it. probably cus i have low self esteem feeling that i'm not good enoguh and that he'll easily be taken or something. you two should talk to each other about it, have a lil break if you really need one after talking. try asking for privacy from him, and you should give him privacy too. if he really like you, he should repect that.

[EvraeMorbid]

*Takes notes* See the thing is, he's the type of guy that thinks the world is ending if I mention to him the idea. *sighs* Perhaps we just need to talk but every talk leads to some kind of disagreement.

[xTINAA]

i think that you both just need to talk about it and decide whether or not you guys need to take a break or if you can fix the problems. because if you`ve been together for 10 months, i`m sure that if you both really want to, you will be able to make the relationship work and be able to get through it, whether that means taking a break and then getting back together again or just staying together...

okay i didn`t see that you responded back
well i think that if he is that type of guy maybe you should try to take a different approach to it or something. and why does every talk lead to a disagreement? that`s not very good & doesn`t really show good communication.. y'know?

[EvraeMorbid]

*nods* We'll we're both very outspoken people, we tend to both be very stubborn on subjects. They're not serious arguments just silly 'I want bush to win.' or 'No, that girl isn't a whore.' And the fact that we both came from a middle school where we always always saw each other and got along fine, to a h/s where we rarely see each other in the halls has an impact on things.

[jennyjenny]

Well, if you break up, make sure he wants to, too.
Or else he might be going on another forum site saying how some b!tch (not saying you're a b!tch) broke up with him *cough*.

But, if you do break up, make sure YOU get over it, too.

But if it were me, I would break up with him since...
he probably doesn't love you...

[EvraeMorbid]

*nods* We figured we both need time away from each other, not a break nessicarily more like 'guy/girl time' with friends. He's going to Kentucky with some guy friends this weekend to go skiing.

[Shattered_Hope]

Time outs...normally lead to break up. its just another way of saying...its not you its me...i tihnk it should end ..something along those lines....

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

yea a break isnt really a good idea, maybe u should try to work things out , and if u want a break so u can see those other guys, "dont leave someone u love for someone u like" not that u said u loved him or anything, just a thought.

i honestly think u should just break up with the guy.

[shortiiex]

i break can be good and bad. Well do you see your relationship going anywhere?
if you take a break, do you think he will take advantage of that break?on a break you might see him with another girl and that might make you jealous.

[EvraeMorbid]

See,the thing is. I do love this guy, and I know over time these 'crushes' will blow over. They always do...I mean harmless flirting can't hurt right? I'dnever cheat on my boyfriend, I love him too much. Also, we have had a major past together, and he's helped me through most of my depression. He's a good guy, who's been through alot for only being fifteen, I can trust him with anything, and he treats me well. I think our main problem is fighting. The only reason I ask if we should take a break is because, like many people have stated, I fear it may be the end,and I don't want that.

[inthemudhole]

Hmm. I think it'd be helpful to talk to him about this. =]
Then decide on what to do.

[lilJdawg]

talk things over with him. i don't think you guys should break up. you already been with him for 10 months & yeahs. that's a long time.