have you gone thru this, ?? |
  |
 Oct 31 2004, 09:58 PM
Post
#1
|
|
 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,504  |
well, this guy and i used to be very close and good friends, in school we share almost every class together, we'd sit together and talk, joke around and stuff like that, like we were flirting..
 and everyone thought we were a perfect match, even tho we weren't together.  (i didn't like him that way)then one day, this other guy i had a crush on for a long time, told me he liked me, and so i told him i liked him too.. so he asked me out, and we became a couple. but at that time, my best guy friend didn't know bout it yet so we still talk and act like we were very close, until he saw us hugging one day. that was when our friendship went downhill, he advoided me, stopped talking to me. i didn't know why, till my friend told me he had a crush on me. right now i dont know what to do. i mean, hes like trying to break me and my bf up. sorry i just felt like typing all this out. just to get it out of my mind. |
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 12:16 AM
Post
#2
|
|
 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
woah that never happend to me. hmm y dont u talk to ur friend about what happend?
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 07:31 AM
Post
#3
|
|
 Aww! ^___^ Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,645 |
First you have to find out your feelings for your best friend. Do you like him enough to leave your bf? If you like your bf more, you should talk to him and let him understand that it's what you want. If he can't accept that then he's not a very good friend. But it is hard to accept, so give him time and talk it out.
Good luck =] |
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 09:57 AM
Post
#4
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
It's obviously he really liked you and maybe wheny ou and him were friends you gave him the signal you liked him too, so it really hurt him when he saw you n your boyfriend together. However, he doesn't have the right to make you feel bad, he should be glad that your happy
 Just my thots...
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 10:05 AM
Post
#5
|
|
|
c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i agree with tha person ^up there...x]
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 01:33 PM
Post
#6
|
|
 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
you led ur friend on....and if you didn't like him...wtf? you flirt...shit... that's like innocent whoring...lol...but yeah I would avoid you to...it was wrong....srry girl ...this is my opinion
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 02:56 PM
Post
#7
|
|
|
Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
ive never had trouble with 2 guys... but... why did u flirt with him if u didnt like him? you could start talking to him like you'd normally would... and mabey he'll... i dont kno play along?
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 05:06 PM
Post
#8
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,504 |
i dont realy flirt with him, we were like VERY close. well and at that time i didn't have a bf yet, and he knows i dont like him that way, he asked me before. but he accepted it. its jus recently he started to turn against me.
i've tried talking to him, i even called him. he hangs up. he says he doesn't want to talk about it |
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 05:31 PM
Post
#9
|
|
 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Nov 2 2004, 9:57 AM) It's obviously he really liked you and maybe wheny ou and him were friends you gave him the signal you liked him too, so it really hurt him when he saw you n your boyfriend together. However, he doesn't have the right to make you feel bad, he should be glad that your happy Just my thots...Lol. Yeah. You`re kind of blind.. because even if your are just playing around. you`re ADMITING that it was a flirt. and if he FLIRTED back, then over time, if it was continuous then yeah, he wuduv started to like u. and then if you were doing that with another guy and ended up getting with him. then shiEt.. id be hurt and never talk to u also. But then of course.. thats just me. --- QUOTE well, this guy and i used to be very close and good friends, in school we share almost every class together, we'd sit together and talk, joke around and stuff like that, like we were flirting.. QUOTE i dont realy flirt with him, make up ur mind. |
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 07:08 PM
Post
#10
|
|
 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i agree wit jambajuice.
u broke his heart damn it |
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 10:04 PM
Post
#11
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,504 |
i said it was like flirting.. never said it was actually flirting..
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 2 2004, 10:06 PM
Post
#12
|
|
 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
eversosweet, i think your sig is too big
|
|
|
|
| *wind&fire* |
Nov 3 2004, 01:37 AM
Post
#13
|
|
Guest |
awww your frind likes you!... talk to im...
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 3 2004, 06:34 PM
Post
#14
|
|
 E! Online Group: Member Posts: 302 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,082 |
he liked you...i dunno if he still does...but..you should talk to him. in person.
|
|
|
|
|
Nov 4 2004, 07:27 AM
Post
#15
|
|
|
Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,504 |
sigh thanks guys, i talked to him, we decided that we're nt going to let this get in between our friendship.
|
|
|
|
|
2 User(s) are reading this topic (2 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: