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 Nov 2 2004, 05:44 PM
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well a lot ppl have relationships online. i m not talkin bout dateabuddy.com or stuff like that, but just sometimes purely from chatrooms, xanga....
i ve thought about it when i see some extremely hot ppl (not that i ve ever done it), and yes i m shallow, i tried to imagine myself havin a relationship like that but well, its just too weird i guess. and plus, it ll be extremely awkward if u end up meetin them. |
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Nov 2 2004, 05:55 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
how is it extremely awkward?
sure most chances it doesn't work out but some do, for example my cousin amy she met a guy over the internetabout ...3 or 4 years ago...they moved it just this september and they are getting married next year  i mean sometimes the person you will spend your life with can sometimes be across the world or right under your nose. anything is possible(wow what a cliche.) |
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Nov 2 2004, 06:45 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
cyber relationships are retarded . simple as that.
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Nov 2 2004, 07:17 PM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Nov 2 2004, 6:45 PM) cyber relationships are retarded . simple as that. i completely agree. |
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Nov 2 2004, 09:15 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
yeah, i'm a little weirded out by how people can "date" online. but eh, whatever floats your boat, right?
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Nov 2 2004, 09:17 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I'm fine with it.
Who says you have to meet them? [shrug] I'm currently in an online-relationship. |
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Nov 2 2004, 09:20 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
What if they called each other? Would it turn into a long distance relationship? *shrugs*
I partially it's dumb to have one. But I partially agree that you never know, someone whom you are meant to be with might be halfway across the nation, or even world. So I mean, it really depends on your view because relationships are all based on trust. Being able to trust someone over the itnernet is really tough. |
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Nov 2 2004, 09:25 PM
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well i personally dont think cyber relationships are bad/retarded. because i'm actually in one, as i had to u kno move away from my bf. so we just talk online and call each other
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Nov 2 2004, 09:28 PM
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but that doesn't count, though. you didn't MEET him online. hope everything works out for you two. |
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Nov 2 2004, 09:45 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
My bio teacher met his wife online. =) They got married last summer and have a daughter now.
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Nov 2 2004, 09:54 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
QUOTE(sharpieaddicteD @ Nov 2 2004, 3:55 PM) how is it extremely awkward? sure most chances it doesn't work out but some do, for example my cousin amy she met a guy over the internetabout ...3 or 4 years ago...they moved it just this september and they are getting married next year i mean sometimes the person you will spend your life with can sometimes be across the world or right under your nose. anything is possible(wow what a cliche.) wh3wt! Go Sammie! I agree with her. I just wish that people'd be more open-minded about it. |
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Nov 2 2004, 11:44 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
"extremely hot ppl"
some people js get some fake pictures. but yeah. i think it is kinda awkward to cyber date or wdeva. and if you end up meeting them, thats kinda scary. 
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Nov 3 2004, 12:29 AM
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 The Secret Hacker. Group: Member Posts: 1,780 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,712 |
i thought u meant a relationship with cyber sex everyday... lol
well... im against em. u dont even kno them in real life, 50% of the time doesnt work. 50% of the time does. |
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Nov 3 2004, 12:34 AM
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i think meeting people over the net is weird.. like its cool i know you guys but i dont really want to "hook up" with you guys...
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Nov 3 2004, 12:44 AM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
It only depends if you really can trust this person. Sometimes cyber relationships can be scary, cause you don't know who the person really is. come to think of it....sometimes you can't know who a person is in person either. Cause yeah there's a lot of posers....anyhhoo....^^ Um i think you should maybe try it but not get too serious.
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Nov 3 2004, 09:54 AM
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I think it's okay.
I mean if you're just playing then who cares where you date? You'll probably never meet up anyway. My teacher's friend met a guy who live in Africa. They got married online and now she lived in Africa with him. So it's possible you meet The One online. |
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Nov 3 2004, 11:15 AM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Nov 3 2004, 12:45 AM) cyber relationships are retarded . simple as that. thats harsh!! its not retarded! |
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Nov 3 2004, 01:18 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
eh, ur pretending to have something thats not really there,sure it makes u feel good, but at the end of the day when u really analyze the situation, ur situation is just pathedic, if u spend all that time pretending into other stuff like flirting and making urself noticed by others , wouldnt that be alot better?
haha lemmie try to explain this to u in a way u can understand.... Masturbating feels good, but its not the real thing :D *ahahahahahahahah* |
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Nov 3 2004, 01:37 PM
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 Maggot Rocker Group: Member Posts: 396 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,016 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Nov 3 2004, 1:18 PM) eh, ur pretending to have something thats not really there,sure it makes u feel good, but at the end of the day when u really analyze the situation, ur situation is just pathedic, if u spend all that time pretending into other stuff like flirting and making urself noticed by others , wouldnt that be alot better? haha lemmie try to explain this to u in a way u can understand.... Masturbating feels good, but its not the real thing :D *ahahahahahahahah* hahah he is soo right haha :P cybering is retared cause at the end of the day all you have is nothing haha |
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Nov 4 2004, 06:24 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,504 |
QUOTE(autumn. @ Nov 2 2004, 9:28 PM) ^ but that doesn't count, though. you didn't MEET him online. hope everything works out for you two. hehe thanks, i hope it works out too
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Nov 4 2004, 08:29 AM
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QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Nov 3 2004, 7:18 PM) eh, ur pretending to have something thats not really there,sure it makes u feel good, but at the end of the day when u really analyze the situation, ur situation is just pathedic, if u spend all that time pretending into other stuff like flirting and making urself noticed by others , wouldnt that be alot better? haha lemmie try to explain this to u in a way u can understand.... Masturbating feels good, but its not the real thing :D *ahahahahahahahah* dude ur wrong...cyber relationship is REAL if u want it to be,just bcuz it isnt physical doesnt make it lame....u know what is LAME?? u, for comparing cyber relationship to masturbation!! |
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Nov 4 2004, 11:32 AM
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depends on the people
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Nov 4 2004, 12:39 PM
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 The Unfortunate One Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,945 |
I started out like that. We met on Livejournal. We chatted for sometime before we finally met. It wasn't awkward at all. It could have been since there is no way to tell if the other person is lying. But it worked out just fine. It was been 5 going on 6 months. It can be good and bad at the same time.
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Nov 4 2004, 01:34 PM
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 (0.x)o-(^.^q) take that Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,827 |
uhm cyber relationships are a waste of time for the simple fact that if you ever actually get to know the person in real life they will act different, what if they have a twitching eye problem you'll be like " you can stop winking at me now" they'll be like "I cant I have a twitching eye problem
 " you'll be kinda freaked about it. Then again most people that are on the net act differently in real life (some not all).
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Nov 4 2004, 04:43 PM
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 can't believe I let people call me Lynne on here 5 yrs ago o Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,591 |
QUOTE(sharpieaddicteD @ Nov 2 2004, 5:55 PM) how is it extremely awkward? sure most chances it doesn't work out but some do, for example my cousin amy she met a guy over the internetabout ...3 or 4 years ago...they moved it just this september and they are getting married next year i mean sometimes the person you will spend your life with can sometimes be across the world or right under your nose. anything is possible(wow what a cliche.) true.. n i hear about ppl meeting online n gettin married.. |
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